How to Look Attractive (Girls)

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Looking attractive starts from the inside out—if you feel attractive, others will notice your confidence and find you attractive as well. There are some basic things you can do to improve your appearance while also staying healthy, like washing your face daily, staying fit, and choosing outfits that show off your style. You can also give off confident vibes by smiling often and portraying positive body language.

Method 1
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Choosing Clothing and Hair Styles

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  1. Pick out clothes according to your body type . There are all sorts of different body shapes, such as pear, apple, hourglass, or rectangle. Figuring out your body type will help you determine what kinds of clothes look best on you, narrowing down your search and making your body look its best. [1]
  2. You want to feel good about each article of clothing you own. Get rid of any clothing that no longer fits, and replace them with pieces you would feel confident wearing to a meeting, school event, or night out. Avoid choosing clothing just because you think it's trendy—only pick out clothes you truly love.
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  3. The perfect outfit for a late-night concert is going to be different from the perfect outfit for a work meeting. Make sure you pick out clothes depending on the event or activity so that you look and feel your best.
    • A good school outfit might include fitted jeans, a floral top, and fashionable sneakers.
    • If you're going to work, you might wear a button-down with khakis and a belt.
    • If you're going out with friends, opt for a fitted dress or nice pants and a dark-colored top.
  4. Use gel to create a spiked or slicked-back look, or use it just to keep certain hairs in place. Apply it modestly to avoid making your hair super hard and crusty—you can always add more if necessary. [5]
    • Purchase hair gel from your local drug store or big box store.
    • Use a comb to help you style your hair with gel if desired.
  5. Use a curling iron to create different sizes of curls, wrapping each strand of hair carefully around the heated rod for a few seconds before releasing them. Leave your hair wrapped around the rod for just a couple seconds for light waves, while keeping it wrapped longer will lead to tighter curls. [6]
    • Avoid leaving your hair wrapped around the curling iron for more than 10 seconds as it can burn your hair.
  6. Use a hair straightener to straighten your hair if desired, pulling the straightener down the length of each strand slowly once it's warmed up. If your hair is naturally pretty straight, use a brush and blow dryer to achieve a sleek look, drying your hair while brushing it out. [7]
    • Don't hold the straightener on a strand of hair for too long or it will burn your hair.
  7. This could be things like headbands, hair clips, ribbons, or even hats. Choose accessories that go with your outfit and that show your creative style. [8]
    • For example, wear a black headband with a black and white dress, or use butterfly hair clips in your hair to show your love of nature.
    • Put on a sun hat or baseball cap for a laid-back look.
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Applying Makeup

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  1. It's easiest to choose a foundation that's right for your skin in the store, as many stores have test bottles you can use to see if the foundation matches your skin. Once you've found the right color, apply it with a brush or sponge, making sure it's in a light, even layer on your face. [9]
    • Use a primer before using foundation to prepare your skin for the makeup.
    • Apply the foundation to the lighter part of your wrist, or swipe it along your jawline to ensure it matches.
  2. If you don't want to wear tons of makeup but would like to conceal any marks or breakouts on your face that are giving you trouble, try using concealer. It comes in many forms, from liquid to a solid stick, as well as in many different shades. Apply concealer to the spots you want covered up, starting with a light layer and blending it into your skin. [10]
    • Most concealers come with an application brush if they're in liquid form, while a concealer stick can be applied directly onto the skin.
    • To find the right shade, apply a dot or two of concealer on the lighter side of your wrist to see which one matches.
  3. Carefully apply eyeliner on your top and bottom eyelids if desired, using thin strokes that go around the whole eyelid. Apply your mascara using the mascara wand, teasing your eyelashes from the base of the eyelid up and outwards, giving them definition. [11]
    • Many people just apply their eyeliner to their top lid, making it as thin or thick as desired.
    • Use an eyelash curler to add a curve to your lashes.
    • Add eyeshadow to your lids to give them depth and color.
  4. Visit your local drug store, beauty store, or big box store to find a wide selection of lip gloss or lipstick. Choose a shade that you like and that goes well with your skin tone, applying it evenly to your lips. [12]
    • For example, if you have fair skin, a lip gloss with pink tones in it would look great, while dark skin works well with lip gloss or lipsticks in deeper reds.
    • A regular lip moisturizer is great for keeping your lips hydrated.
    • Visit a beauty store to ask an employee for advice on how to choose the right color for you.
    Selena Gomez, Founder, Rare Beauty

    Express yourself with makeup. "Makeup should be an accessory to reflect what you feel inside. This is something you can enjoy and have fun with and do whatever you want with. It’s not threatening, it’s not complicated."

  5. When you're applying bronzer, use a plump brush to swipe it over the areas of your face that the sunlight would hit, such as the top of your forehead, the hollow of your cheeks, and down your nose. Apply blush to the apples of your cheeks. Start with a small amount, as it's easier to add more bronzer or blush than take it away.
    • Tap off any excess makeup from your brush before applying—it won't take much bronzer or blush to be noticeable.
  6. If you have super light eyebrows or just want to make them stand out a little more, purchase an eyebrow pencil. After you've picked out the right color, use short, horizontal strokes that follow the natural curve of your eyebrow. Be careful not to press too hard—you can always go back and add more lines if needed. [13]
    • Using short strokes will make the lines look like your natural eyebrow hairs.
    • Choose an eyebrow pencil that's the same shade, or one shade darker, as your hair color.
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Radiating Confidence

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  1. Smiling is a simple way to completely transform the energy you give off to others. By giving a smile, you'll look more approachable, and you'll even feel happier. Try smiling more often to show that you're confident and friendly. [14]
    • Smiling politely to people you interact with throughout the day, such as the cashier at the grocery store or the receptionist at your doctor's office, is a great way to show your kindness.
  2. The way you carry yourself tells other people a lot about how you feel, so make sure you're communicating confidence. Avoid looking at the ground when you're standing or walking around and hold your head high. If seated, sit up tall with your shoulders back and relaxed. [15]
    • Practice walking with poise by avoiding dragging your feet or hunching over.
  3. If you're constantly worried about your flaws, it will show in how you present yourself to the world. Try to focus on the aspects of yourself that you love, whether it's something about your looks or your personality, and put any negative feelings aside. [16]
    • Try saying what you like best about yourself when standing in front of the mirror.
  4. Try to spend 30 minutes each day doing some form of exercise, whether it's going to the gym, playing a sport, or even just taking a walk. Not only will exercising keep your body healthy and fit, but the endorphins will have you feeling happier and more confident. [17]
    • Work out with a friend to keep you feeling motivated.
    • Try playing sports like volleyball, basketball, tennis, or swimming.
  5. This doesn't mean you need to tell jokes all the time, but try to let loose a little and avoid taking things out of your control too seriously. If you're able to laugh off things that go wrong, others will be attracted to your ability to go with the flow. [18]
    • Making someone laugh is a great way to ease any tension and make you more attractive, whether it's through a joke or just a funny comment.
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Maintaining Personal Hygiene

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  1. Try to shower every 1-2 days to get rid of any sweat or dirt on your skin. Use a body soap and shampoo your hair every couple of days as well, especially if you've been sweating or outdoors.
    • Use a conditioner for your hair to make it softer. Use shampoo every few days, but apply conditioner to your hair every day.
    • After you've dried off from your shower, apply deodorant to keep your body smelling fresh.
  2. This will keep your teeth looking healthy while also keeping your breath smelling fresh and clean. Brush for two minutes, both in the morning and before bed. Try to floss every night as well to get rid of any extra food stuck in between your teeth.
    • Don't forget to gently brush your tongue—a lot of bacteria that cause bad breath can hang out there.
    • Use mouthwash to kill any bacteria in your mouth as well.
  3. This could be an at-home remedy like baking soda and water, or a store-bought kit that whitens your smile. If you buy a teeth whitener, follow the directions carefully to ensure it works correctly. You may need to use a teeth whitener several times to achieve the white smile you're hoping for. [19]
    • Mix a spoonful of baking soda with equal amounts of water and scrub the mixture on your teeth using a toothbrush.
    • Invest in a whitening toothpaste that will whiten your teeth slowly as you brush regularly.
    • Purchase whitening strips that you attach to your teeth, letting them whiten your smile for a specific amount of time before removing them.
  4. Even if you don't plan on styling your hair, it's important to brush it out to keep it healthy. Use a comb or regular brush to gently remove any tangles, taking your time and making sure you reach all of your hair. [20]
    • Consider making a hair appointment if you notice you have lots of split ends that need trimming.
    • Brushing your hair will give it a natural shine.
  5. Use a pair of nail clippers and cut both your fingernails and toenails if your nails have grown past your fingertips. When you trim them, try to keep a sliver of white along the nail, and clean out any dirt from underneath the nails using a cuticle pusher or soft scrub brush. [21]
    • If your cuticles are looking dry, try adding a drop or two of cuticle oil to them.
    • When you're trimming your nails, try to follow the natural curve of each nail instead of cutting them straight across.
  6. How often and where you shave is entirely up to you—it's not required, but many people do feel more attractive once they've shaved. Women tend to shave their legs and underarms every few days, while men shave their facial hair depending on the look they want to achieve. Use shaving cream to protect your skin, as well as a sharp razor. [22]
    • If you need to shave, the perfect time to do this is while you're in the shower since your pores will be open.
    • Avoid shaving if you have any open cuts or rashes.
    • If you've used the same razor head several times, it's likely time to switch it out.
  7. This is especially important if you've been sweating or are wearing makeup. Use a facial soap, rubbing it onto your skin gently before rinsing it with cold water. If you suffer from breakouts, try using a product with benzoyl peroxide to help clear your skin. Rinse your face with water in the morning after you wake up, and again before you go to bed each night to keep your skin clean. [23]
    • Use makeup remover wipes to easily get rid of excess makeup.
    • Consider exfoliating at least once a week, or treat yourself to a mini facial using face masks from your local drug store or big box store.
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      Looking attractive can be as simple as taking a little extra care of your personal hygiene and styling yourself in flattering ways. Keep your skin clear and clean by washing your face and showering daily. You’ll also look your best if you care for your hair, so wash and condition it every 1-2 days and brush it daily to remove tangles. Having a nice smile is a big part of looking attractive, so brush your teeth at least twice a day to keep them bright and healthy. Complete your look by choosing well-fitting clothes that help you feel confident and styling your hair to help yourself look neat and put together. For tips on how to enhance your features with makeup, keep reading!

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