Getting your crush’s attention can be difficult. You want them to notice you, but you don’t want to risk getting embarrassed if you come on too strong. If you want to make your crush more interested in you, then you may want to try making them jealous. You can make your crush jealous by flirting with someone else, projecting confidence, showing you’re in high demand, and being the mysterious cool girl.
Things You Should Know
- Chat with everyone in the room before saying hi to your crush. You'll exude confidence and your crush will definitely notice.
- When your crush is around, flirt with their friends and rivals. Smile, giggle, and play with your hair so it's obvious that you're flirting.
- If your crush asks you to hang out, tell them that you're busy or hesitate before agreeing so you don't seem too eager.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Don’t base your self-worth on whether or not your crush likes you. [17] X Expert Source Erika Kaplan
Matchmaker Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.Thanks - Don't flirt too frequently with people other than your crush. While flirting with others may successfully make your crush jealous, you risk making other people think you like them.Thanks
- Don't try to make them too jealous.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- If you want to try to make him jealous by flirting with other guys, make sure you still talk and flirt with him, too. Otherwise, he may not think you're interested in him anymore.
- Don't try to hurt his feelings by hanging out with everyone else but him. You might just end up changing his idea about you.
- If you're going to flirt with someone else, flirt with only one different person so you don't look like a player.
- Try hanging out with his friends. He may get jealous that his friends spend more time with you than he does.
- If your crush doesn't like you back, that's okay. Know your worth and have self-confidence.
- Don't be overly cold towards him as this may tell him you're not interested.
Warnings
- Don’t hurt other people while trying to make your crush jealous.Thanks
- Make sure you don't try to make them too jealous or they might get mad at you.Thanks
References
- ↑ Erika Kaplan. Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.
- ↑ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/amy-chan/know-your-worth-understan_b_663194.html
- ↑ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/amy-chan/know-your-worth-understan_b_663194.html
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- ↑ Erika Kaplan. Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.
- ↑ http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/confident_body.htm
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- ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35102/things-women-do-that-make-guys-jealous/
- ↑ http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5703/ways-men-act-aloof/
- ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35102/things-women-do-that-make-guys-jealous/
- ↑ http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5703/ways-men-act-aloof/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/loves-evolver/201111/inducing-jealousy-get-your-mates-attention
- ↑ http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5703/ways-men-act-aloof/
- ↑ Erika Kaplan. Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.
- ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35102/things-women-do-that-make-guys-jealous/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/loves-evolver/201111/inducing-jealousy-get-your-mates-attention
- ↑ Erika Kaplan. Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.
About This Article
Getting your crush’s attention can be a bit tricky, but if you’re confident and flirt with other people, you may be able to make them jealous. When your crush is around, give all your attention to someone else in the group. Laugh a lot and get a bit closer to the person to see if your crush notices. You might also make it clear that your crush isn’t your only option. The next time they ask you to hang out, tell them you’re busy, but you’ll try to fit them in, which might make them jealous. You could also post pictures of you hanging out with other people on social media to show you’re in demand. To learn how to seem more mysterious to your crush, read on!