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    I’m a 12 year old middle schooler and I want to take female hormones. Can I?
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    Generally, doctors want to wait until you're 14-16 to start you on hormones. Some doctors may be willing to get you started sooner, so it really depends on where you live and the doctors available to you. You'll likely need your parents' consent to start the process, though, so start by talking with them about your options so they can help you find the best doctor.
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    How would I be able to make myself feel feminine without people noticing?
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    You could paint your toenails and wear close-toed shoes! You would feel a bit more feminine that way. You could also shower with more feminine body products. Little things like this can't really be seen, but they might help you feel more like the gender you identify as.
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    How can I pass when I am a minor?
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    It's actually slightly easier to pass as a minor, due to the fact that your body probably hasn't gone though as many changes yet, so you have less to cover. Choose mid to long length hair, or a wig if your hair isn't right for it. Basic make-up will work wonders for you, but the biggest tip really is confidence.
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    How do I type like a woman on the internet?
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    There's no way to type like a woman. Every person is different, so just type like yourself. If I said I was a girl, you'd think I was one. If I said I was a boy, you'd think a boy is giving you this advice. So if you make it clear that you are a girl, you won't have to "type like a woman."
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    What should I do if I don't have the money for stuff like makeup and clothes?
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    You could borrow makeup from a friend, sister, or even your mother (ask permission). For clothing, check out garage sales and thrift stores for deals, or ask friends if they have anything they don't wear anymore.
  • Question
    Do squats really help to get a bigger butt?
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    They make for a more defined and toned butt. You may never have fat growth there, but you will have muscle, which gives it a rounder appearance.
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    If I dress as a girl, can I use the girls' toilet?
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    This is a very controversial issue and depends on local laws. It also depends on how well you pass. If you look like a woman, it's unlikely anyone will notice or care if you use the women's restrooms. Of course, this information should not be exploited by anyone looking to spy on women or do anything else illegal or immoral.
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    Is it a good idea for a transgender to get on hormones?
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    It's a matter of personal preference. Some transgender women do fine without hormones. Others feel much better after starting hormone therapy. Only the person in question can make the decision.
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    How do I hide my bulge?
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    Wear skirts and other things which cover your crotch and tight underwear. Bikini bottoms are a recommended example. Learn how to tuck. Make sure you get some practice and spend some time just doing normal things while tucked, as it can be uncomfortable at first. Make sure you don't do anything that hurts: you're not going to be able to completely hide it at first, because you have to practice and your body needs to acclimate, but there are transwomen who pass while wearing a bikini at the pool.
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    How do I walk more feminine?
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    Step more delicately and with more precision. Also, try swaying your hips slightly. Don't go extreme with the swaying, though.
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    Are there any workouts to make a male body more feminine?
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    Squats can help with butts, while aerobic twists in yoga can help with the waist.
  • Question
    How would I fake breasts?
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    I generally use a bra and toilet paper, so try that, and if you want cleavage you can find tutorials online.
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    How do I make my boobs look bigger when trying to look like a woman?
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    You can buy push-up bras and there are some tutorials on the internet.
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    How can I grow my hair long quickly?
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    There are supplements for hair growth you can take to make it grow faster, but everything takes time. You could wear a wig or get extensions if you really can't wait.
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    Is there any way I can thicken my eyebrows naturally?
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    Using a eyebrow pencil or eyebrow pomade can help fill in the eyebrow. Be sure to not over draw the eyebrow, just fill them in.
  • Question
    Should I wear tights or thigh-highs when going out on a date?
    Community Answer
    It's up to you! Personally I would say tights.
  • Question
    If I'm already a woman, could I use these tips to become more ladylike?
    Community Answer
    Yes, but you could also explore WikiHow for more articles that could be helpful to you. For example, you might enjoy this one: How to Become More Feminine .
  • Question
    What if I get erections while dressed as a woman?
    Community Answer
    You should tuck your private parts with tape. This will help to overcome your bulge.
  • Question
    Can I use an electric razor to shave my body?
    Community Answer
    Yes, but be careful when going over any areas of sensitive skin.
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    What if my upper body is too wide? That's my biggest problem.
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    The upper body is a good thing to have especially if it's a strong trait of yours. If you can give the illusion of real looking breasts, then just contour and perhaps (if you're feeling frisky) pad your bottom half to average it out.
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    Is there a diet that can make a male's body more feminine?
    Community Answer
    No.
  • Question
    Can you recommend short girly haircuts for a minor like me?
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    Hair texture and face shape heavily influence how a haircut appears, but more feminine haircuts are rounded, have wispy sideburns, an a tendency to curl toward the face.
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    If I was to wear thigh high boots, how should I dress?
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    You can style your outfit however you like, but wear shorts or a short skirt or dress, and since you're baring your thighs, you may want to go a little more covered up on top.
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    I've tried shaving my legs, and every time I break out in an itchy rash that leaves sores. It takes weeks for my legs to recover. What am I doing wrong? What should I do instead?
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    You might be having an allergic reaction to the shaving cream you use. I recommend reading the ingredients and asking your doctor about it, or getting your legs waxed instead.
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    How can I pick the right sized bra if I am flat-chested?
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    If you are flat chested, you may just want to start with a training bra. You can have a bra specialist measure your chest, and have them help you to pick out the correct size.
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    Can I pass as a woman at the beach?
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    Sure, if you prepare correctly in advance! Some trans women use a device called a "gaft" that is basically a pair of very tight ladies' underwear made especially for the LGBTQ community. This, combined with a technique called "tucking" can give you a very flat and feminine look. Make sure you always use medical tape when tucking.
  • Question
    I'm 27, can I still transition to look like a beautiful woman?
    Community Answer
    You are beautiful no matter what, but of course, it may take more work but you can do anything with enough surgery and dedication.
  • Question
    What is a good way to make it seem like I have cleavage?
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    You could get a padded bra or a sports bra that could be "stuffed," but it's difficult to create the genuine appearance of cleavage with an absence of breasts.
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    I have a very masculine face. Is there any way to hide this?
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    Contour! You can find fairly cheap contour kits, and it does wonders for helping your face look more feminine. Put bronzer under your cheekbones, and follow up with highlighter on your cheekbones, forehead, nose, and chin. That's an easy way to look more feminine! If you need help with the application, there are tons of makeup tutorials on YouTube.
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    My inner thighs have been chafing. How do I fix this?
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    You can rub or spray some deodorant on your inner thighs; that should help with the chafing.
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