Q&A for How to Act Cool Around Your Crush (for Girls)

Absolutely, especially if you don't know your crush very well. It's usually awkward to meet someone new.

Basic observations are a good starting point. You could comment on something they're wearing, or mention how creative they are.

Try to relax and just put things in perspective. Your conversation doesn't have to be perfect, and it's okay if things are a little awkward at first.

Realize that you're also an awesome person with your own strengths! Your crush may seem like they're perfect, but everyone has weaknesses and flaws. Remember that your crush is only human like you. You are good enough.

If your crush is spending lots of time staring at you, he may actually like you. Hey might not want to admit his feelings because he's embarrassed or afraid you won't like him back. Be friendly and flirt with him to show you're interested. Hopefully, with a little encouragement, he'll own up to his feelings.

If he doesn't like you, playing hard to get won't really work. The problem might be that he doesn't know you very well. Get to know him better by having a few good conversations with him and hanging out with him in groups. You can't force it, though. If he's still not into you, it may be time to set your sights on someone else.

Start a conversation with them in class or in the hall. Talk about a homework assignment, your teacher, or something going on at school. Say hi to your crush in the halls, like their posts on social media, and flirt with them when you get the chance. Just make sure you're not being too clingy. If they still don't pay you much attention, it's probably not meant to be.