Q&A for How to Adjust to a New School

On your first day of school, try to make new friends quickly, and follow the steps in the article.

Find a group of people who share the same interests as you and talk about them. Consider joining a sport or after-school activity that appeals to you, this is an easy way to meet people who like the same things you do.

Don't be scared to introduce yourself, and start with the closest friend around you. Be friendly to all, put smile on your face, be yourself, and be confident.

Stop being friends with them. Humans want to fit in, so eventually you will become one of them, and soon your so-called friends may dump you, and when you realize that, your peers may not give you a chance.

Look around for other loners. You never know who could be a potential friend. If you're just not interested in friends, consider other aspects of the school based on what's important to you. Do they have good sports teams? Good teachers? Do most of their graduates get into good colleges? Do some research.

Being nervous is totally normal, but it helps if you get enough rest and have everything prepared the night before so you're not chasing after your pencil case in the morning. If you have an older sibling or friend who has or is attending the school, don't be afraid to ask them questions about the school. On the first day, you should wear something neutral, so that no one judges you and you can fit into any circle of people easily. If you have a uniform, there shouldn't be too many problems.

Be yourself. Be flexible. Things will be different at this new school, so try not to compare it with where you've been. Take it one day at a time. Remember, making good friends takes a while. Try to meet as many new people as possible, and before you know it, you'll feel comfortable in your new surroundings.

Try to look past their annoying qualities and find something you like about each one. Focus on that and be kind to them. You may discover they will become your new friends!

All you can do is your best. Give more time to the subjects you struggle in and less time to those that come easier. Make a study schedule and stick to it. Cut back on any time wasting activities like social media and video games, and maybe even extracurricular activities if necessary. Keep in mind, your parents want what's best for you. That may mean returning to your old school.

There is no need to be nervous. All you have to do is introduce yourself, be friendly, be confident and of course, be yourself! If that doesn't work, then start with someone you know at that school -- that person might be able to introduce you to a friend of hers, who could then introduce you to another one of her friends, and so on.

If you forgot something at home, call home for someone to bring it to you or ask someone if you can share or borrow whatever you forgot. If you forgot something you were supposed to do or where you are supposed to go, you can always ask a teacher or friendly classmate to help you.

It's OKl you'll still be fine, it just might require asking for a few more directions. If you're really concerned, go the office and ask for a tour after school.

Be prepared to receive a lot of attention, both good and bad. Be friendly and open. If you have questions or need help, don't be afraid to ask for it.

You don't always need to bottle up your emotions. Let them out at times when you feel you can't control them; this will help you regain focus. It might help you to remember that while crying might feel relieving, it doesn't change the situation, so you may be able to talk yourself out of continuing to do it.

Can you prove that the school isn't reputable? Gather evidence to prove it, then, and present that evidence to your parents. If that doesn't work, agree to "try" the school for a certain period of time if your parents will agree to let you transfer again if it doesn't seem like a good fit.

Use a notebook or planner and map out a detailed schedule/timetable so you know exactly where you are supposed to be every hour of every day. Carry it with you everywhere you go. Don't forget to schedule in time for homework/studying and time to relax as well.

Be nice to everyone and don't let anyone bring you down. Be confident, participate in class and do your best.

Talk to your parents about it, and talk to your new classmates about general things. Try distracting yourself. During the first few days, try your best. You may enjoy yourself.

You can do things to show them that you are friendly and trustworthy. Just be patient, as it may take some time for them to begin trusting you.

Smile and say hi to her. It sounds like she wants to be friends.

Just be yourself and be friendly. Introduce yourself and try to get to know everybody. Signing up for a club, team, or other school organization is a good idea. Since you're new, people will probably be curious about you, so take advantage of that and make some friends.

The best way to learn a new language is by practicing as much possible. It's sometimes hard, but you have a teacher and friends. If you struggle, look for an app on your phone that you can use to learn key phrases in that language.

It will be difficult at first but try to smile a lot and communicate the best you can in other ways. You will eventually learn the language and make friends. Give it some time.

Follow the steps in the article. Be friendly and join a club or two. It might be tough at first, but be open and you'll find new friends.

Practice what you already know with family or friends. Eventually, you will learn how people speak, and pick up on what they do.

I've felt left out before. Telling your parents and maybe even your teacher is a good idea, as your parents will have good tips and your teacher will try to help out. Maybe even telling a friend you have made will help as well.

If someone teases you or bullies you to your face, stand up to yourself. Tell the person to leave you alone, to mind their own business, to back off, etc. If it continues, talk to a teacher of guidance counselor. Don't let anything they say get to you. It will also help if you can make some friends. I'm sure not everyone at your new school is a jerk. If you see someone sitting alone, ask to sit with them and strike up a conversation. Try to find people you have stuff in common with. You'll be less of a target if you have a group around you. If all of the girls are really awful, make friends with some boys.