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How do I ask my crush out without getting rejected?

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Try asking her out with a statement rather than a question if you want to seem bold and confident. For example, you could say something like, "We should get coffee sometime," rather than "Do you want to get coffee sometime?"

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When is the best time to ask a girl out?

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The right time is when she's alone and you can make a good impression. Don't wait forever for the "perfect" time though - just go for it!

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Can my friend ask her out for me if I'm too embarrassed to do it myself?

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It's much better to ask her out yourself. Most girls like confident, honest guys who aren't afraid to show they care, so go for it and let her see the real you.

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I asked a girl out several months ago, but she said no. I still like her a lot. Sometimes I hear her say my name, but that is all I hear. Should I try again?

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There is no reason not to try again, especially if you think that she might be warming to you after a period of thinking things through. Just prepare yourself for possible rejection again, as it's still a real possibility.

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What if if I try and it doesn't work?

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If she rejects you, then you probably aren't her type. Just like not every girl is your type, not every person is her type. Say "okay" or "I understand," wish her a nice day, and leave. Go easy on yourself, take time to recover and cry, and then find another girl.

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What if you like another girl?

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That would just be awkward. If you really care for one of them, pick the one that you know will be right for you.

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