Q&A for How to Avoid Talking to People

This clearly means that the person is not mature enough to respect your decision. You should distance yourself from that person. If they can't respect your wishes then they shouldn't have a place in your life.

Let them know that you do not like when they do that. If they continue to damage your items tell them firmly they have to pay for it. Also keep your earbuds tucked under your shirt so they can't pull them, and keep your phone tucked securely in a pocket.

Are people really staring at you, or this all in your mind? If they're really staring, maybe they're just admiring you, thinking you're pretty/handsome/etc. Either way, don't let other people get to you. You're great just the way you are and you don't need anyone else's opinion or approval. Just keep telling yourself this.

If you feel like being alone, just tell them you need space.

Have a talk with them about how this is making you feel, or just stop giving them what they want/need. They might view you as someone who is easy to take advantage of. If you stand up for yourself, things will probably change.

You don't stop until the other person stops. It starts with non-verbal signs that you don't really appreciate his attention. Then you verbally and kindly tell him. Then verbally again, but more firmly. After that, it really is time to get some sort of authority involved: a parent, teacher, counselor, even the police. If it takes the Supreme Court to get that message across, then that's what you have to do. Talk to this person with a teacher present, and clearly state that he is stalking you. Let him know the consequences if he still keeps it up: an official complaint, if necessary, even with the police involved.

If the wedding is big, there should be plenty of places to hide. If you're someone who is familiar with avoiding interaction, maybe stay away from the center of the room. However much of a pain it might be to have to meet a new person, it might just be better to get it out of the way by introducing yourself briefly and excusing yourself after a few minutes rather than trying to hide and coming off as rude.

Just voice your complaints in a calm, polite manner. Say something like, "I feel like you're always bossing me around lately. I need you to give me a little space and let me make my own choices." She may not even be aware of the problem. If she continues behaving this way, tell her that you need some time apart.

Try to find new friends and spend your time with them instead. If you can't do this, just make excuses. If they ask you to hang out, tell them you already plans. If you see them at school, just say, "I have to get to class!" They'll get the message eventually.

Fake it around them, put on a happy face and smile. Or start asking them to stop asking you such questions. Say something like: "I always look this way so why do you keep asking me? I've told you I am fine and I mean it!".

If you're polite about it, you can do this. Try saying something like, "Sorry, I don't feel like talking right now." This way you're not telling them you don't want to talk to them specifically, just that you don't want to talk.

If they are leaving you alone, that's that. If they are persistent, always talking to you, just tell them you are certainly not speaking to them, then just continue to ignore them.

To avoid wanting to talk to them, focus on your schoolwork, the lecture during class, etc. However, you shouldn't worry about what your classmates think of you if you've done nothing wrong. It sounds like they're not very nice. If you're having trouble making friends, try talking to a teacher or counselor about this.