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QuestionHow can I make my relationship more fun?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).You can make it more fun by using more humor, saying "yes" to new things, and smiling more. Focus on the other person's interests and hobbies and avoid only talking about your own friends and activities.
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QuestionHow can I be a perfect girlfriend?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).You don't need to be perfect, just be sincere and put in a good, honest effort. Trying to be perfect will always make you feel like you fall short. Take a step back and appreciate the ways you are a good or good enough girlfriend. Then you can build on that in small ways.
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QuestionHow can I be a fun texter?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).You can forward fun pics or features you see online. Include a circle of friends in the text—someone is bound to appreciate your effort and respond. Make sure you respond to other people's texts, even just with an emoji.
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QuestionHow do I become a more interesting person?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).Be positive; stop focusing on the negative or complaining. Join in with activities and take a chance on new things. Respond to jokes. Initiate and respond to texts. Talk about your interests and ask questions about others' interests and hobbies.
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QuestionWhat if you're a shy person? I just don't want to change my personality.Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).You should never think that you have to change your personality! When you read an article like "Be Fun to Be With" on wikiHow, just try to grasp onto 1 or 2 concepts. Just try these on for size in several settings and see the result. No one should ever feel like they have to re-make their personality. There is room for all kinds of people on this Earth!
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QuestionEveryone always says I'm way too serious and that I never smile, but I don't try to do it on purpose it just happens. I don't even realize it until they point it out, and they're always telling me I'm boring even though I love trying new things. How can I show them I'm not that serious?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).It is not an "either / or"--you can be serious, and you can also be fun sometimes. Practice standing in front of a mirror and smiling. Does it look natural? Have someone take a picture of you when you are laughing at a joke. Look at your expression in that picture. Can you recreate it? It may sound silly, but you can practice smiling and looking more relaxed.
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