Q&A for How to Be Goth

Remind them that goth culture is about self-expression. Forcing someone to conform goes against goth philosophy. As for yourself, feel free to explore the areas of goth culture that appeal to you. There's nothing wrong with wearing goth makeup but having different tastes in music, for example.

Goth fashion is more diverse than many people realize. Medieval, Victorian, and Edwardian fashion are all popular in some goth circles. Note that some goths use the word "Edwardian" to refer to the artist and writer Edward Gorey, instead of the historical period.

Try not to react, as this will encourage them to keep teasing you. Severe or constant teasing is a form of bullying, which you can report to an adult. You may need to talk to more than one adult, or remind them of the school bullying policy.

We do! Take a look at these illustrated instructions . There's also a video at the bottom of that article.

People can get a little ridiculous about what makes someone a "true" goth. Try to ignore this; you don't need to justify yourself. Answer "yes," or, if you want to avoid further questions, say "Well, I like goth fashion" or "I like goth music."

The lines are blurred, but emo tends to be closer to its punk roots in fashion and music tastes. The emo outlook typically focuses more on depression and and emotional sensitivity, while goths are drawn to dark fantasy and death.

Yes. The goth subculture is based on music. While people do also dress in a way seen as "goth", it isn't mandatory. There is also no single way to look "goth". While the media stereotypes all goths as pale, white people with black hair, this isn't the only way to look goth. Instead, you can focus on clothes, accessories, jewellery and makeup.