Q&A for How to Be a Better Christian

Your parents are really important, but God is more important. God wants you to stay faithful to Him even in times when people are against you. If your parents ask you to do a chore, do it without hesitation. If they ask you to stop reading your Bible, protest politely. Also, if they don't give you time to read your Bible or to pray, then remain faithful to God and use your free time to read your Bible and pray.

Yes. God will forgive those sins, but you shouldn't do it again in the future.

Find out if a friend who is religious can take you to church. You could tell your parents, too, that they could just drop you off at church and come back to pick you up. Also, if you want to read the Bible, you can figure out a schedule of reading it daily. It is usually best to start with the Gospels: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John in the New Testament. You can read, say, one chapter each day either early in the morning or before you go to bed at night, pray, and then continue with your day.

Pray, then listen. When Jesus left this world, he gave us the gift of the Holy Spirit, which was placed in our hearts. Ever had an idea and a voice in the back of your head said, "No, that's a bad idea"? That's God.

Pray to God at home. It doesn't matter if not everyone shares your views. God won't mind.

I am not completely sure either, but I do have a journal where I keep thoughts that God has given me or prayers, moments I have with God, etc., so I won't forget. I often use these as notes when I want to talk to someone about God. I don't think there are specific rules or anything, write whatever you see fit.

Speak from the heart, God/Jesus hears you be of a sincere heart. Remember speak as if someone else was right in front of you. Tell him everything he's here for you and always will be.

I feel you. Many people do. One of the biggest things you need to be careful about in choosing a church that is actually Christian. This is going to sound a little weird but don't run off on me. Make sure that your church agrees with the Nicene Creed. No that is not outdated, that is the basis of Christianity. Churches that follow the creed and are actually christian are, Bethel, and New Life. If you aren't sure if the church you've chosen is actually christian, go up to the pastor and ask him if they believe in the Nicene Creed, If they show any hesitation, or ask what it is, that isn't your church.

You could only try, God blesses people who tell his word to other lost people. Your parents could change and accept Christianity you would have an accomplished feeling.

The best thing to do is to fully commit yourself to God and ask for forgiveness ,and that way you will stop being lukewarm.

God will still forgive you even when you sin, for He is a forgiving God. You should also pray to God to help you not to sin.

There are many good ways to volunteer as a 13 year old: You can give your time to help others by taking care of the environment around you (pick up trash, water plants, etc.). You can join clubs and organizations through either your church or school that are dedicated to help others or bring joy to a community (dance, choir, scouts club, etc.). You can volunteer as an assistant teacher at Sunday or preschool, or visit those in nursing homes. No matter what you can give, God loves you.

Yes, but our clothes don't keep him from seeing all of us, so it really doesn't matter.

Make an effort to read a passage from the Bible and pray for a few minutes each day. Find a church and attend regularly. Get involved in a small group or Bible study there to connect and fellowship with other believers who can help you with your Christian walk. Also find something to use your gifts and talents in the church, such as helping out in the nursery or singing in the choir.

Deuteronomy 14:22-26 talks about that, and it says you should tithe 10%, which is not that much.

There are plenty! And this is the most exciting of times to be reading the Bible, because there are so many amazing and fun Bible studies to try. Visit your local Christian bookshop and ask for Bibles which are written in a modern, fun way, even one with illustrations if you like that sort of thing.

Mistakes are human. If we were perfect, Jesus wouldn't have had to die on the cross for us. I have mild OCD and have struggled with similar questions to yours before, so if you're beating yourself up because you're not perfect, it might actually be an anxiety disorder rather than a call to holiness. You can always talk to a therapist (a Christian therapist if you want) to help you figure out if that's what's going on.

The priest is not there to judge you, and they're not going to judge you. Trust me. It's their job to listen to you with an open mind and to guide you. You have nothing to worry about. If you feel that your sins have been very serious, feel free to be re-baptized.

Certainly. Highly orthodox denominations do require some form of head covering (the Amish are a notable example). Ultimately, head-covering stems mainly from the culture of the region (eastern Mediterranean).

Seek forgiveness for your rejection. Try to start a regular prayer regimen to keep you from backsliding.

Yes, they make up about 5% of the Middle East's population. Being the epicenter of Christianity, nearly every country in the Middle East has a noticeable Christian community. Their philosophy tends to be relatively fundamentalist when compared to the West.