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What are the qualities of a good boyfriend?

Klare Heston, LCSW
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A good boyfriend listens, talks, offers support, and compliments, among other things. He does not have to be perfect, but he needs to be well-intentioned and open to communication.

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How can I be the best boyfriend?

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You can be a really good boyfriend by tuning in to your partner and considering their interests, needs, and wishes. Make sure it is not all about you!

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How can I be a romantic boyfriend?

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You can be romantic by doing some of the special little things that your partner enjoys, like giving them a special dessert, a flower, and other small surprise gifts here and there. Definitely remember their birthday!

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How can I be a good girlfriend to my boyfriend?

Klare Heston, LCSW
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Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).

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You can be good to your boyfriend by taking his interests and needs into account. Make sure you sometimes yield to his choice of sports or movies or his favorite foods. Be considerate of small things—like when he might be tired from having worked a long day.

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I have a girlfriend, but she doesn't know how much I love her. What do I do?

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Let her know how strongly you feel about her. Start out small, then gradually reveal your feelings more and more. If she doesn't feel the same way, you can't make her feel that way.

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