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How do you show maturity?

Klare Heston, LCSW
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You can display maturity through politeness, courtesy, active listening, and the willingness to apologize when/if you offend someone.

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How can I be a mature man?

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You can be a mature man by using courtesy and respect. Also, you can lose the 'tough guy' approach. Really listen to others and hear their perspective instead of imposing your own. Be willing to say "I'm sorry" when it applies to the situation.

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How can I be mature and smart?

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You can be mature and smart by thinking before you speak, being respectful and polite, keeping your word and commitments, and following any rules that apply to you.

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How can I show my parents I'm a responsible student?

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It will help if you participate in class and develop good study habits. Joining an extracurricular activity is another good way to show your parents you're responsible.

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I want to convince my parents that I'm mature enough for a phone, but I know if I tried to talk to them, they'd just say no. How can I show them that I'm responsible enough?

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It might be hard, but talking to them is the first step towards showing them how responsible you can be. Sit down with them and say, "Mom and Dad, I really think that I'm mature enough to have my own phone." Come prepared with a list of reasons showing how responsible you are, such as finishing your chores every week or doing well in school. Stay calm and don't get upset even if they say no. If you handle it calmly, they might rethink their decision later on.

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How can I show my boyfriend that I'm mature?

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Talk about important topics that can make your conversations deeper, such as science, world issues outside the US, and current news. Read a good book and talk to him about it. Instead of making silly or juvenile jokes, make him laugh by being witty and clever.

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