Q&A for How to Be an Escort's Favorite Client

It often is, but just ask the escort how she feels about kissing ahead of time.

Yes, you would have every right to leave.

As a general rule, the time starts at the moment you have agreed, whether you use it or not. If you have agreed at six, but you are not free until six thirty, you only have thirty minutes left. As with anything, clear arrangements that all parties have agreed to beforehand avoid confusion and arguments after the fact.

This is a business like any other; treat it as such. Building a client base takes time, but the quality of the product or service is key. Once clients are convinced of the quality, your client base will grow. However, in this particular business, you must research your clients and don't hesitate to refuse. Word-of-mouth advertising will be key.

If you are an escort (male or female), it is perfectly possible to have a girlfriend. As with anything, it is best that she knows the situation and agrees with it. If you mean you would like an escort to also be your girlfriend, that's a different matter. Though not impossible, it is not very likely. Escorts do their very best not to get romantically involved with their clients, though they will act any way you ask them to that is within their accepted range, often including pretending to love you romantically. It is strictly business. If you suspect otherwise, communication is the only answer.

It won't matter as much as you might think. Everyone has different tastes and opinions about what is or isn't attractive, and for many people personality is more important than looks anyway.

Sexual preferences are different for everyone. Make sure to indicate your preferences beforehand. If anything occurs that you are not comfortable with, just say so.

No. Escorts will almost never allow their clients to make pictures or video, and most clearly advertise this well beforehand. Inversely, your own privacy is equally important, and you should never allow your escort to take pictures or video footage of you.

In general, the hourly fee should include intercourse. However, it is best to make sure you know beforehand what she charges for which services, so sort all of this out when making your appointment.

"No BBS" means "no bareback sex," so a condom is required.

1) FBSM stands for Full Body Sensual Massage and it is offered by some escorts. There is no 'happy ending' included in the definition. In fact, there is a whole range from a normal massage to sexual intercourse that can all be covered by this acronym. Make sure you sort out beforehand what is available and make your preferences known. 2) There is no database of client reviews. However, escorts do research on clients beforehand. This includes social media, Google, and asking colleagues. If you have misbehaved before, she is very likely to find out.

If the escort has a room there, chances are the hotel staff is aware of what's going on. To avoid any embarrassment, keep the communication on this topic to a minimum. Say you have been invited by a guest in room so and so. Keep in mind though that hotels' main source of income is guests staying in their rooms, i.e. they will likely charge you a night, or at least a comparable amount to the time you will be staying, or it might be included in the escort's fee. If in doubt, contact your escort about this.

Open communication is often the best way to go, though talking instead of doing may lead to awkwardness. Use your body language to let the escort know what you want. They will often be experienced in picking up these clues. If not, be vocal and straightforward.

They have to live somewhere. Just look up local hotels online and make your own reservations.

There is no right or wrong when it comes to your body. But, if you care for your boyfriend, the least you could do is tell him.

Everybody likes a blue-sky holiday, but few people like the 8-hour flight to get there. If escorts can find a way to both get the money and not have sex, they will. Some people do this for the companionship, human warmth, human presence. They need to believe, even if it's make believe, and even if it's only for a little while, that another human being is paying attention to them. In such scenarios, sex becomes of lesser importance, and this is actually a big part of an escort's job. In a sense, if it's just sex, it's less interesting to them. In any case, if they scam you, cut your losses and find someone else.

The escort likely has experience with these things and will guide you. Just be kind, polite and respectful. It is clear what will happen--sex--and she'll make sure to do her best to make things go as smoothly as possible, without any fuss or awkwardness. If you doubt something, you can always simply ask. Escorts have their own personal rules; they will announce them beforehand, often on their websites. NBB means "no bareback", for example, i.e. a condom is required. Some will allow kissing, others will not. So trust that she'll guide you, and don't be afraid to ask.

Try and give at least 24-hours notice if possible. Other than that, just be straight up and say you need to cancel. That's all that's necessary.

Check with your escort. However, instead of asking bluntly, check the small print. It is usually full of (abbreviated) instructions for your information. For example: 'nbb', which stands for no bareback, i.e. a condom is mandatory. Read them carefully, look up or ask any you don't understand, and you'll get a good picture. Always be respectful. Perhaps if you become a regular client, they may provide a more personalised service, but the keyword is: it's personal.

Call, make an appointment, pay, have sex. As for the physical mechanics of it, that's of course not different than with any other human being. As for which positions, acts, etc. that's something you have to ask, using as few words as possible, if any at all. Most escort services will cover the basics on their website, e.g. no bareback, no kissing, no bondage, etc. If you're not sure how to go from dinner to sex - trust that your escort will take the lead. Always be kind, polite and gentle, and take a shower beforehand.

Supply and demand. There is not enough demand for a supply to be permanently on offer in a town just shy of 11,000 people. I'm sure you'll find some in Memphis, Nashville, Louisville and St Louis.

Let her know ahead of time, before you pay her, that you've had issues with this in the past. That way you don't have to worry about her changing her mind after you've already given her your money.

There is no universally agreed upon ranking of all human beings according to their beauty. If you take ten people and ask ten others to rank them ugliest to prettiest, you will get wildly different results. More importantly, escorts will never fall in love with you, so they don't care about your looks, but they will care about how you feel about your looks, giving you some human encouragement to feel better about yourself. So no, they don't care about your looks. They do care about your cleanliness, though.

Escorts are often also experts in conversation. Whatever you would like to ask, you can usually simply ask her directly. "How do you feel about sex toys?" Alternatively, try having some in plain view and direct her attention to them, she will probably pick up on the clue immediately.

No.

It is not likely. Escort services usually operate on the edge of legality -- providing social services such as companionship at dinner is perfectly legal, but sexual services for a fee are usually illegal or at least strictly regulated. This is just one of the reasons no such website would exist.

Not only does it rarely happen, it is also very much illegal. They themselves also clearly state that it is not allowed to record them in any way whatsoever, video or audio, no matter what. If they catch you taking pictures or capturing video, you will be in a world of trouble. It works the other way around, too. If they want to record you, they need your explicit written permission to do so, and if they want to use that recording in any way, they need a second written permission from you. To avoid these things, make sure to meet at a neutral location, one that you yourself chose. If you ever do find out someone recorded you, you will have a legal case against the person.

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Instead of speaking in code, why not ask directly? After you have established a conversation, simply ask for this info in a straightforward manner. It's in their best interest too, so you have enough money with you and the payment can go smoothly, quickly and without any fuss. Expect to pay between $400 - 1000, and if you go to a restaurant first, those expenses are on you (as are the hotel and any other costs).

From a statistical point of view, I'm sure there are. How many or where, that's more tricky to guess; but then again, you only need one. But there's a different approach. When you ask an escort to provide services, you have no right to claim any say on what other clients services are provided to. It's neither a romantic nor a personal relationship, it's business. So even if the escort is a woman and she's straight, and has never even had sex with another woman before, if she tells you she's lesbian, then she is, and you shouldn't really care who else she has or has not had sex with. Those things are not a factor in your transaction.