Q&A for How to Break up With a Girl

Our time is so valuable, and if you don't see a future with the person you are with, then it might be worth considering breaking up. By being in a relationship with someone who's not the right one, you're taking the chance of missing out on the person that is right for you. Think about if the person you are with makes you a better person or makes you happy. If the answer is no, then that might be a sign that it's time to break up.

It could mean that he's interested in you. It could also mean that he's teasing or messing with you. The only real way to know is to try talking to him about it. If it makes you upset, tell him how you feel. If you're really unsure, ask him why he's doing it.

While she may be upset or feel heartbroken, she deserves to know the truth about how you feel. It would be much worse to lead her on and make her think that you love her and want to be with her. Even though she may have strong feelings for you, if you don't feel the same way, you need to tell her how you feel.

If you're worried she may harm herself, try talking to one of her friends or family members about it. They may be able to help her if she needs it. Self-harm is a serious threat and you shouldn't ignore or brush it aside. But a healthy relationship wouldn't have those kinds of threats, so it may be for the best that you end the relationship so she can heal and eventually move on.

Break ups can be hard, but there's never a good reason for violence. Try being there as much as you can for your friend. At least he's already managed to get out of the relationship. In time, his feelings (and his cheek) will recover and he may not be as bothered by it anymore.