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My husband is dying at home, and all I seem to be able to do is cry. Any suggestions?

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Instead of focusing on the fact he is passing away, focus on making his last days at home the best days of his life. This might help him feel better about the situation, while helping you feel as if you have performed a good deed for your husband. For example, make his favorite dinners, take him to do things he always wanted to do but never got the chance. This can help both of you through this.

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Won't bringing back memories just make them feel scared and unprepared to pass?

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No, it will bring them peace to remember the happy times they had on earth. Focus on the good things that person did for others and the difference they made during their life.

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How can I help the spouse of someone who is dying?

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Just be there for support. You cannot make it easier, nor can you stop the pain, anger and sadness that will come. Just be there.

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My best friend's friend only has 50% chance of living longer than the next 3 days. My best friend is really worried about her. How can I help my her feel better?

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Just be with her. You aren't going to make her feel better, but you can be there to comfort her if she needs you. She may want to be alone, too. That's okay, just let her know you're there.

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How do I talk and comfort someone who hasn't been the best to me and hasn't lived a super fulfilling life?

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Just be there for support. You can always share personal experiences and just enjoy the time with them before it is too late.

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My friend sent me a text message that she has less than six months to live, what can I say to her in response?

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Say that you're truly sorry to hear that and ask if she wants to meet in person to discuss it. Then just be there for her. Be someone she can count on for support, someone she can talk to, etc. Ask her if there's anything she needs or anything you can do for her family.

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