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    How can I express myself better?
    Rahti Gorfien, PCC
    Life Coach
    Rahti Gorfien is a Life Coach and the Founder of Creative Calling Coaching, LLC. She specializes in working with artists, entrepreneurs, and college students in creative fields. Rahti is accredited as a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) by the International Coach Federation, an ACCG Accredited ADHD Coach by the ADD Coach Academy, and a Career Specialty Services Provider (CSS). In addition, she has personal experience in the fields she coaches - she is an alumnus of the New York University Graduate Acting program and has been a working theater artist for over 30 years. She was voted one of the 15 Best Life Coaches in New York City by Expertise in 2018.
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    Create something that doesn't exist. Focus your attention and resourcefulness on your creative side to bring something new to the world. If you find something meaningful that doesn't exist, find a way to bring it to life like drawing a new cartoon character you made up or writing the book you've always wanted to read.
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    How you can express your creativity?
    Rahti Gorfien, PCC
    Life Coach
    Rahti Gorfien is a Life Coach and the Founder of Creative Calling Coaching, LLC. She specializes in working with artists, entrepreneurs, and college students in creative fields. Rahti is accredited as a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) by the International Coach Federation, an ACCG Accredited ADHD Coach by the ADD Coach Academy, and a Career Specialty Services Provider (CSS). In addition, she has personal experience in the fields she coaches - she is an alumnus of the New York University Graduate Acting program and has been a working theater artist for over 30 years. She was voted one of the 15 Best Life Coaches in New York City by Expertise in 2018.
    Life Coach
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    Create something that doesn't exist. Focus your attention and resourcefulness on your creative side to bring something new to the world. If you find something meaningful that doesn't exist, find a way to bring it to life like drawing a new cartoon character you made up or writing the book you've always wanted to read.
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    Why do we have to express ourselves?
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    It helps us from holding emotions in for too long. Instead of boxing in the emotions or acting out the emotions with hostility, it's best to find a source for expressing it safely. Using creative forms of expression help us release negative emotions whilst finding our true selves.
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    I have trouble expressing myself because I can't recognize fury. How do I recognize emotions before it all comes out?
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    Practice recognizing feelings. At first, this may take time. "Check in" with yourself throughout the day and think about your feelings.
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    How can I tell a dear friend who has cancer how sorry I am for not contacting her sooner? I miss her and want her to get well. I need to explain why have I ignored the situation.
    Anika Shenoy
    Community Answer
    Let her know face to face, and just be honest. Tell her that you weren't ready to face the situation yet, but you really miss her and want to be there to support her. Most likely she will understand and be happy to hear from you.
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    How can I start expressing myself if I don't share my mood with anyone?
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    You could try writing in a journal. Sometimes if you write about your mood/feelings, that can make it easier to express your feelings to other people, because you can basically repeat what you've written when you're talking to someone. You could then even try turning your journal entries into poetry, song lyrics, or fiction if you're artistically inclined.
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    How can I express myself while giving a presentation?
    Alexis Vucenic (LMS)
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    Give the presentation on something you are passionate about or feel strong emotions like anger or disappointment. That way, you will naturally shift out of speaker voice. While presenting, get emotionally “in to” the content and you will forget about the audience.
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    How do I express myself during an interview if I find it difficult?
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    Practice in front of the mirror beforehand and try talking to someone who has successfully completed an interview and ask them for tips. But overall just be yourself and try to be open to any question asked the best you can. For example, imagine talking to someone close confidently and receiving a positive reaction.
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    Is playing the acoustic guitar a good way to express myself?
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    Music has and always will be a form of art. The acoustic guitar is a great way to relieve stress and express your emotion.
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    Expressing how I really am is hard especially since nobody at my school is like me. My friends don't help me express myself; they hold me back but its not necessarily their fault. How can I express me?
    Community Answer
    Expressing yourself is something only you can truly do. Friends and family can be encouraging. But if they are not, do not give up. You should not expect permission for everything that you want to do, especially not for expressing something that is deep inside you. For either other people can't see it, yet, or they feel differently about it. As it is your inner feeling, you should first and foremost listen to your own inner voice: Is this something that needs to get out? Then find your way to "give birth" to that emotion/idea/project/whatever it is.
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