Q&A for How to Hold Hands

Then I suggest waiting for a better moment. Your partner would probably feel awkward anyway and might reject your advance.

This can be tricky, I know someone who went on a date and the person wouldn't let go, even when she dropped her phone. Do not be too clingy! Usually there should be a natural time to let go, like if your hands become to sweaty or the other person must move. Don't be afraid to be the one to let go, especially if you feel uncomfortable.

It depends. If you two have been in a relationship for a long time, then walking up and grabbing his hand is completely normal. But if you just started dating, you may come off as a little clingy.

You can either interlock fingers, or you can do the X technique. Interlocked fingers are more meant for romantic hand-holding.

Remember, your partner is likely shy too! Sometimes you just need to make the leap. If they reject your advances, it may seem like the end of the world, but you'll both likely forget about it soon. If this stuff really bothers you, you could wait for your partner to make a move, and drop a few hints like, "My hands are freezing, feel them!" or you could "accidentally" brush their hand with yours, then leave it close by.

You could try the interlacing fingers technique mentioned earlier. Also, when you hold his hand, you could make eye contact and smile meaningfully, letting him know you aren't just messing around. Finally, before when you held hands, you were not in a relationship, so I'm sure he will understand the gesture better given the circumstances.

It depends. If it is just one friend with you, I would recommend not holding hands, just to keep the third wheel from feeling uncomfortable. However, if you are with a big group of people who are mature and know about your relationship, though, do not be afraid to flaunt it!

There's nothing abnormal about holding hands, but if you're always breaking up and getting back together, that's a pretty big sign that this relationship is not going to work out.

It shouldn't be, especially if the person likes you. You can also say something like, "My hands are so cold" as a subtle hint that you want to hold hands.

Yes, unless he's really bad at taking hints. I tested this method on someone and it worked wonderfully.

Sure, if you want to and it feels natural, go ahead.

He won't be. Our perceived flaws, like your "large hands," are always much more noticeable to us than they are to other people. Just take a deep breath and reach for his hand. He will be happy you did. If you're really nervous, do it at a time/place when there are not a lot of other people around so you don't feel like you have an audience.

You could, but if they don't already know you like them, it would be a good idea to tell them first. You don't want to try to hold someone's hand totally out of the blue. If you both like each other, then you can go ahead and try to hold hands.

I would hold hands with the person at lunch, or maybe in a quiet, safe place in the classroom like under the table.

You could try saying a funny pickup line, like, "Your hand looks heavy, can I hold it?" I said this to my friend while holding out my hand and we both laughed.

Just tell him how you feel. If you're going to tell him something you don't want anyone else knowing, just say something like, "Can we just keep this between us?" or, "This is kind of personal, and I would appreciate it if you kept it a secret."

Not recommended. That would be distracting in addition to tying up one of the driver's hands, both of which should be kept available for driving.

Keep it simple. Just say something like, "Hey [their name], want to hold hands?"

If you’re on the right side, hold hands with your left and her right. Think of a V shape.

I wouldn't recommend that, as you'd probably feel pretty awkward if he pulled his hand away or something like that. I'd suggest telling him you like him first so you can find out if he feels the same way.

If the setting is right and it IS mutual, it probably won't freak him out.

Just ask her, "Can I hold your hand?" You're already pretty sure she'll say yes!

Just smile at him, reach out and gently take his hand in yours. He will probably feel flattered.

Yes, it's perfectly normal. In fact, it can open him up to hugging or cuddling in the future.

It’s never to late! Especially if you’ve been dating for 3 months already. Since you have been together for quite some time, he/she most likely not find it weird. Although, if they do find it awkward, you can try waiting some more time or asking if they want to hold hands.

Talk to your friend! If they are a true friend they will understand! Also be brave! its okay to take a risk! you will never know if you don't!

Just have an honest talk with him. You can let him know that you are ready to take that next step. If he is not ready, then you will just have to respect his wishes and wait.

The clues are all there since he happily touches hands already and explores yours. If you feel ready, then maybe you should make the first move. If he pulls away, don't take it the wrong way; just espect his boundaries and wait for him!

Well it depends. If you are on the right side of your partner, then try holding them with your left hand. Do sort of a V shape or just do what makes you both comfortable.

If there are many people that you know/have seen before, yes. Ask to sit next to him, try to use some hints like “My hands are cold in here, feel!” Or nudge his hand lovingly. It’s best to do it before someone else sits next to you/your partner. I’ve tried before and as I hinted/flirted they stared, as if they were thinking “Oh?!”. Try to do it quickly, but not rushing, then all they’ll think is “Oh, just a nice couple holding hands.”