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QuestionWhat are the signs that your boyfriend is using you?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).Signs include if you only see one another when HE initiates, not you; you talk about him all the time, and not about your life, interests, etc; when you always pick up the check; and when he does not compliment you, but demands support and building up his ego.
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QuestionHow do you know if the guy is serious?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).A guy may ask to see you more often if he is serious. He also may want to introduce you to his friends and possibly family. If a guy is really interested in you, he will share more about his own life and plans and also ask you about yours.
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QuestionHow do you tell if your boyfriend loves you?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).This is often a matter of intuition or instinct. But it can also be evident by how he interacts with you (e.g., if he is loving, thoughtful, respectful, etc.).
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QuestionHow can you tell if a guy likes you by his body language?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).He might make eye contact, notice small things about you, and/or want to be in close proximity to you a good amount of the time.
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QuestionWhat if you think he is using you but you just love him so much?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).This is often the dilemma! But by ignoring your own needs, you are not loving or respecting yourself. These lopsided relationships never work out well. Talk with him, and if that does not work, leave.
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QuestionMy boyfriend is married and he loves to take gifts and money from me, but never gives me anything in return. What does this mean?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).These are huge red flags: YOU ARE BEING USED! Respect yourself, and pull away unless he leaves his current wife. Cut back on the gifts and money and see what his reaction is.
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