Q&A for How to Know if Your Girlfriend Really Loves You

Does she support you when you're going through a hard time? Is she physically affectionate with you? Does she call you just to see how you're doing? If you haven't already, talk to her about what you need from her in terms of communication. Communicating is a skill, and if she loves you, she will make an effort to improve.

Do you have any evidence that she's having an affair, or are you just feeling jealous? Many people have close friends of the opposite sex. If this is really bothering you, try talking to her (calmly) about your concerns. If there's anything she does in particular that makes you uncomfortable, mention that. If she really cares for you, she'll probably be willing to make some adjustments.

Hug her back! If you don't feel comfortable doing that, just say something like, "I really like you, but I'm not sure I'm ready for this yet, can we take things slow?"

Pretend you're in a position where you might lose all of your possessions and see how she reacts, or pretend like you have a serious problem and see if she offers to help and support you through it.

I don't think you should use samples for this, just be sincere and tell her how you feel. Apologize for what you did and take full responsibility. Tell her how much this relationship means to you and how much you hope she can forgive you.

It either means that you are a bit controlling and she's asserting that she doesn't need to be constantly available to you, or it means that she is not all that into you. Be honest with yourself and it will become clear.

A one year age difference is not really a big deal. Have a talk with her about this and explain that it bothers you when she constantly brings this up. After all, you can't change your age. Try to talk it through and see if you can come to some kind of understanding. Communication is key.

There's nothing wrong with a boy and girl talking to each other. If you mean she was having an intimate conversation with him and you think she was going to cheat on you, talk to her about how this made you feel and tell her that it's going to be difficult for her to earn your trust back. If you really don't think you can trust her again, you should break up with her.

Why on earth can you not complain? Regardless, you don't have to phrase it as a complaint necessarily. Say something like, "When you don't answer my calls, I feel like you don't care about me and our relationship." A successful relationship requires communication; you have to be able to voice your concerns clearly.

If she called you and told you about it, she probably just wanted to make you aware of what happened so that if someone else mentioned it to you or she brought it up later, you wouldn't get the wrong idea. Most likely, if she was cheating on you, she wouldn't have told you anything at all.

Probably. It sounds like she wants to stay connected with you. However, make sure that you're taking enough time for yourself as well. People can grow bored with someone who's always available.

Best thing to do is talk with her and ask her if she is still mad. If she is, then she’s been holding that grudge for a while, and that’s an indication you should reconsider your relationship.

Have a serious conversation with her about your relationship and where it's going. Ask her about her future plans and see if they include you.

It's not an indication of whether or not she loves you, but it is manipulative behavior; she uses the threat to get you do what she wants. The best way to deal with it is to tell her to stop threatening to leave when things don't go her way, or simply call her bluff. If she does leave, you're free to find someone more mature. If she doesn't, she'll realize her threat no longer holds power over you.

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Accept that she just wants to be friends. If she's telling you she's not sexually attracted to you, that means she loves you as a friend, but nothing more. If you don't think you feel comfortable continuing the friendship because of your feelings for her, you should tell her that, and then give yourself some space.

Try to find out why she won't talk to you. Ask her yourself, preferably in person, or ask her friends. If you suspect she's angry with you, it might be wise to give her some space for now and then have a discussion with her later when she's had a chance to calm down.

Yes it's possible, and it does happen. But this is an indication that the person who cheats is not really serious about their relationship. Someone who really cares about their partner would look for ways to work on the relationship instead of stepping out to meet someone new.

Be calm about it because she is either asleep, depending on how late it is, or is busy doing other stuff. You could also try to ask them what’s up. But with questions like that, you can sound too protective or suspicious, so take care.

Sometimes people change and grow apart. Sometimes they turn out to be quite different than the image that we have of them in our mind when the relationship first starts. Talk to her about why she isn't happy with you; you may be able to reach a compromise on the issues that are making her unhappy. However, don't change yourself simply to please her.

You will know that if: 1. She is smiling while is texting with someone, but she hides her phone from you. 2. She avoids meeting with you. 3. She doesn't want to be intimate with you. 4. She is not available often.

She probably wants to know if you are still attached to a previous girlfriend because she doesn't want you to cheat on her or she wants your previous girlfriend to not hold you back from being happy with her.

You can just be honest and let them know you would like to have a future with them but you need to focus on how to get the relationship between you ready for the long term.