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  • Question
    How do you compliment your crush?
    John Keegan
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    Mention some little thing that you noticed about them, like "Your smile really lights up a room" or "You have such a cool style."
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    Are you sure this will work?
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    It depends on the person, you, and how you leave the notes. Nothing is for sure. However, if you don't try, you'll never know. If you're afraid it won't work, maybe you should just ask the person out directly.
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    Hey I want a boyfriend, but I'm only 12 is this ok?
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    It is up to you and your parents. Talk to your parents. Also, don't just find a boyfriend to have a boyfriend -- make sure you really like him.
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    I'm afraid of being seen or getting caught leaving the note.
    Community Answer
    If you don't leave the note, you'll never know. You could also just approach the person directly.
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    I sent a note that said I had a crush on him? What should I do?
    Community Answer
    Go with the flow. If he replies, great. If he has feelings for someone else, don't be upset. You will find someone who likes you for you.
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    How do I talk to him if he is always surrounded with friends?
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    Join the group and enter the conversation. The best way to do this is to find a good entry point. Maybe at a busy time. Or you could ask a friend who knows him/his friends to walk up with you.
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    I put a note in my crush's locker but he didn't want it. My friends were around when he found the note. Did that maybe have something to do with his reaction?
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    That's definitely possible, he might have been embarrassed. Try slipping a note in his backpack, or even just approaching him when he's alone and talking to him.
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    Is it a good idea to leave the note in another language?
    Community Answer
    If the person knows another language, you could leave something very short and sweet in that language.
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    What should I say if my crush correctly guesses that I am the one who left a note on his locker?
    Community Answer
    Smile, and ask what he or she thinks about that note.
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    Is it best to leave a "write your response here" section?
    Community Answer
    It depends. If there is a question like "do you have the same feelings for me?", then go for it!
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    What should I do if I think my crush likes my friend instead of me?
    Arlyn107
    Community Answer
    You never know if he likes you, so just do it. If he doesn't like you, there are many other fish in the sea.
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    I don't think leaving a note will help me win her over, because sometimes I think she might not like me. What should I do?
    Community Answer
    Just do your best and be yourself. She may like a letter from you.
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    How do I make a girl smile?
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    Tell her jokes, funny stories, etc. You can pay her a few compliments here and there, but not too many, that would be overwhelming.
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    How do I leave romantic notes for my crush if we are not in the same classes or grade?
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    If you have lockers at school, you could put the note in his/her locker. If not, ask a trusted friend to give the note to your crush and tell them it's from their secret admirer.
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    I have a crush on a girl, and I'm going to leave an anonymous note in her locker. With only a couple months before school ends, should I come out on the last day?
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    If she hasn't figured it out by then, I think that's a great idea. If you do, then over the summer the girl will be intrigued and want to know more.
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    Would it ruin my romantic note if I ask the recipient to keep it private?
    Community Answer
    Not at all! It's okay if you don't want people shouting it from the rooftops. Personally, I'd do the same.
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    How do I leave romantic notes for my crush if I don't know which locker belongs to him?
    Community Answer
    After class, watch where he goes to open his locker. You could also ask his friends where it is.
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    Is it better to leave a note in my crush's locker, or give it to her directly?
    Community Answer
    It depends how well you know the person, and how confident you are. If you don't want to confront them and make a potentially awkward circumstance, you can put it in their locker or desk, but the choice is yours.
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    There's this boy that always tells me he loves me. Hes not my crush, though. I don't want to hurt his feelings. What can I do?
    Community Answer
    Let him down gently. Tell him you have feelings for somebody else, or let him know you prefer just being friends with him.
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    How can I ask out a girl that I like when I know she likes me back?
    Community Answer
    If you know she likes you, it should be easy. Just think of something you think she might want to do with you. The movies are always a good option. Then just say something like, "Hey, [her name], do you want to go see [movie title] with me this weekend?"
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    How do I leave romantic notes for my crush if I don't know which locker is his at school?
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    You can try sneaking it into his bag before or after class, or just hand it to him next time you see him.
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    If my handwriting would give me away, how can I leave anonymous notes to someone?
    Community Answer
    Try typing and printing them instead.
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    The girl I left a note for thinks I am scared and childish for leaving a note instead of talking to her. What can I do?
    Community Answer
    Tell her you were nervous. If she's worth it, she will understand. Then, tell her directly how you feel.
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    I'm really shy and saw my crush is talented while working on a project together. Should I leave him a note to hint at my feelings?
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    Sure! Why not? Or you can just smile at him and say, "I really enjoyed working with you. I hope we can work on another project together!" What's the worst that could happen? He's not going to say, "No, I never want to work with you again!" If he's as nice as you think he is, he'll just smile back and say, "Yeah, that would be nice."
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    Should I secretly leave a note for my crush on Valentine's Day even though I'm only 12 and not sure if I like him?
    Stephanie Isabelle Padilla Milan
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    If you're unsure, it's best not to. Peer pressure can be challenging, but you shouldn't do something you're not comfortable with. Consider getting to know him better as a friend first.
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    I want to put it in his locker anyone's suspicion, but there are people in the halls all the time. What do I do?
    Community Answer
    So what! What would you think if you saw someone leaving a note for someone else? It is no big deal, just do it.
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    What do I do if I really regret putting my name on the note? Do I just act like nothing happened or if he doesn't talk to me in about a week, should I just go up to him?
    Community Answer
    Go up to him and let your inner self shine through. Tell him that you like him and know that if he's a jerk, he'll tell everyone. But if he likes you, he'll only tell his close friends and ask for advice.
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    If I left a sticky note on a dessert box on his desk and wrote "Are you okay?" with a cute drawing, is he going to think that I like him?
    Community Answer
    Not at all! He'll think you care about his feelings but if your making it extremely obvious then he might pick up something but guys rarely pick up on these things, so chillax.
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    Are small gifts a good idea?
    Community Answer
    That really just depends on personal preference. Don't make it too big but make sure it's something they'll like. For example a chocolate bar or a lolly. But if you don't know what they like then don't stalk them to find out, maybe ask a friend of theirs or someone who knows them better. If you don't feel comfortable, then ask a friend to do it for you.
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    What would happen if my crush found out it's my note, and he didn't like me?
    Community Answer
    If he tells you that he is not interested, stop pursuing him, for it may make the person scared or weirded out. Now don't break down, yes, you might be embarrassed or hurt. But those feelings won't last forever, and you will eventually find the right person. And remember if you feel unloved, try to love yourself. Because self love is the most important love.
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