Q&A for How to Leave Romantic Notes for Your Crush

Mention some little thing that you noticed about them, like "Your smile really lights up a room" or "You have such a cool style."

It depends on the person, you, and how you leave the notes. Nothing is for sure. However, if you don't try, you'll never know. If you're afraid it won't work, maybe you should just ask the person out directly.

It is up to you and your parents. Talk to your parents. Also, don't just find a boyfriend to have a boyfriend -- make sure you really like him.

If you don't leave the note, you'll never know. You could also just approach the person directly.

Go with the flow. If he replies, great. If he has feelings for someone else, don't be upset. You will find someone who likes you for you.

Join the group and enter the conversation. The best way to do this is to find a good entry point. Maybe at a busy time. Or you could ask a friend who knows him/his friends to walk up with you.

That's definitely possible, he might have been embarrassed. Try slipping a note in his backpack, or even just approaching him when he's alone and talking to him.

If the person knows another language, you could leave something very short and sweet in that language.

Smile, and ask what he or she thinks about that note.

It depends. If there is a question like "do you have the same feelings for me?", then go for it!

You never know if he likes you, so just do it. If he doesn't like you, there are many other fish in the sea.

Just do your best and be yourself. She may like a letter from you.

Tell her jokes, funny stories, etc. You can pay her a few compliments here and there, but not too many, that would be overwhelming.

If you have lockers at school, you could put the note in his/her locker. If not, ask a trusted friend to give the note to your crush and tell them it's from their secret admirer.

If she hasn't figured it out by then, I think that's a great idea. If you do, then over the summer the girl will be intrigued and want to know more.

Not at all! It's okay if you don't want people shouting it from the rooftops. Personally, I'd do the same.

After class, watch where he goes to open his locker. You could also ask his friends where it is.

It depends how well you know the person, and how confident you are. If you don't want to confront them and make a potentially awkward circumstance, you can put it in their locker or desk, but the choice is yours.

Let him down gently. Tell him you have feelings for somebody else, or let him know you prefer just being friends with him.

If you know she likes you, it should be easy. Just think of something you think she might want to do with you. The movies are always a good option. Then just say something like, "Hey, [her name], do you want to go see [movie title] with me this weekend?"

You can try sneaking it into his bag before or after class, or just hand it to him next time you see him.

Try typing and printing them instead.

Tell her you were nervous. If she's worth it, she will understand. Then, tell her directly how you feel.

You can use email or text messages. There is no right or wrong way to compliment someone, so do whatever comes to mind that seems appropriate.

You can try putting it in their locker, or you could have a friend deliver it.

It really depends whether your crush likes that kind of stuff. Maybe you could change the start of it if you're not sure how the person will react to being called fat.

It's possible he will either show them and laugh about it or see if they can help work out who it's from (if it is anonymous). Or he might be too embarrassed and not show anyone. Make sure you don't put anything embarrassing in the note, as other people seeing the note is likely and you should be prepared to take that risk.

There's nothing you can do other than leaving him alone. You may find helpful advice in the article Handle Rejection .

Then your crush probably knows that it was you who wrote the note. You can always ask: "You're acting differently, is everything OK?"

It probably means that she knows that it is you who left the note. This can be a good or bad thing depending on whether you are sure that you like her.