Q&A for How to Look Gorgeous As a Heavily Obese Girl

Return to Full Article

Coming soon

Add New Question

Question

How should I dress if I am overweight?

Paul Julch, MA
Personal Wardrobe Stylist & Speaker
Paul Julch is a Personal Wardrobe Stylist, Speaker, and the founder of Urbanite | Suburbanite, a wardrobe styling business in the San Francisco Bay Area. With over 25 years in the fashion industry, Paul works with clients to make getting dressed easier, less time consuming, and more enjoyable. Paul has years of experience in retail visual merchandising - styling windows, displays, and floor sets for Banana Republic, Gap, and Express. He also has experience styling fashion photo shoots and corporate videos. Paul holds a BS Degree in Management from State University of New York at Binghamton, an MA in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University. He also studied Interior Design at the University of California, Berkeley.

Paul Julch, MA

Personal Wardrobe Stylist & Speaker

Expert Answer

There are medical standards about obesity, but when people use the term "overweight" it's often based on their perception of where they should be. We all have a shape we should be proud of—rather than wearing huge, baggy, loose clothes that hide your true shape, dress to accentuate your waist wherever it is, perhaps with a belt, or a jacket with a drawstring.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 6 Helpful 3
Question

How can I lose weight easily when I don't have any support?

Community Answer

Losing weight is a desire that comes from within. I understand it's discouraging when the people around you are not supportive of your decision or don't help you in your journey, but you have to rely on yourself for support first and foremost. Lose weight to be healthier, not to please people. Use positive self-talk as a source of support for yourself. If you want external support, there are a lot of online groups and communities that promote body positivism and weight loss support.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 7 Helpful 41
Question

I'm a very heavy 13-year-old and I always struggle with my weight and confidence. Should I embrace my body or change it?

Community Answer

It's up to you. If you're unhappy with your body and you want to lose weight, go ahead and do it (safely, by making moderate changes in your diet and exercise). But don't change your body to please someone else or to fit in. You're beautiful just the way you are.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 26 Helpful 72
Question

How do I make myself look better and still adhere to my school's dress code?

Community Answer

I would wear a nice flowy top with skinny jeans and a leather jacket, something to that effect. My school also has a very strict dress code, and it sometimes can be hard to wear something cute that flatters your body while not revealing a lot of cleavage. I would head towards something that is cute that flatters you while also covering the right amount of cleavage. I would mix and match different styles. Do whatever makes you happy!

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 4 Helpful 11
Question

Is it okay for a school girl to be obese?

Community Answer

It's not okay insofar as it's bad for your health. Aside from that, you have the same right anyone else does to get your education and enjoy life!

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 77 Helpful 52
Question

What kinds of shirts will help me look good?

Community Answer

Personally, I have found that you just have to experiment with different clothing styles to see what works best with your body shape, hairstyle, etc. I have found that I enjoy off-the-shoulder shirts, dresses, and flowing tank tops, so I would recommend starting there!

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 8 Helpful 11
Question

How do I wear a two-piece bikini if I'm obese?

Community Answer

Wear high-waisted bottoms, or just wear a cute one-piece with cutouts in the sides.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 4 Helpful 15
Question

I am a big 12 year old. How do I look good to impress a boy without looking too big?

Community Answer

Wear what makes you feel confident and shows off your favorite features about yourself. Black is a slimming color, so you can try wearing black high waisted pants with a top that suits your eye color, matches your jewelry or shoes, or simply shows off those cute shoulders while being flattering over the bigger areas. Dress up your look with coordinated jewelry, shoes, and a tad bit of lipstick if you like that. Remember to walk confidently and smile!

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 4 Helpful 14