Q&A for How to Make People Instantly Like You

You do not need those kinds of friends; they're not the best you can do and your so-called friend's comment was mean. Look for shy or quiet people, who are nice people inside, and reach out in friendship. Look where no one else does because there are some really good people out there that no one even looks twice at. And you are worth it, so feel proud of yourself and wipe away those tears!

Let your mom know that you are there for her and will always be. Help her also to see that there are still people in her life who love her, such as her siblings, cousins, parents, friends or whoever else is relevant. Try not to stress her out too much, do as many chores as you can to help out, stay calm and speak quietly if you need to raise issues with her and help others see what your mom is going through by talking to them. Most of all, show your mom lots of love.

Determine first whether there is any validity to their comments. Sometimes the truth resides in such a comment, especially where various different people are telling you this. For example, are you being clingy, too talkative, nosy or acting as if everything is a drama? If so, these things annoy other people. However, if you consider they're just being mean or dismissive, ignore the comment and stay confident. In some cases, you might just be the target of a smear campaign if a group of ex-friends is trying to push you aside. Most of all, be honest in your self-assessment!

Some people are cruel like this, to use another person to boost their own lack of security. Be mentally strong about this and realize that some people will call her bluff and see her for who she really is, a gossip, a snitch and a liar. Help yourself by staying nice and refusing to be drawn into arguments or fights about it. Hang around with people you can trust, even if it's only one person for now. Concentrate on your studies so that you have an excuse to be busy during lunch and other breaks. Talk to a teacher or parent if you consider it's getting too much to cope with.

Sometimes people just won't be interested in the same things you are, and that's okay. Make sure you talk to people about THEIR interests, ask questions, and try to relate to them. If you already do this and your friends still call you boring a lot, you might want to find some new friends.

If they don't like you for who you are, don't hang around with them. Be who you want to be and find people who respect you.

You should let them know that this bothers you, and if they are the type of people who do that, they aren't true friends. If they respect you, they may change their ways and hopefully, include you more.If not, try making plans with other people, and cultivate other friendships.

You can get popular on you own, just don't poke your nose in other peoples' business. Do well in your exams and tests. Help people who come to you don't push them away, even if they have mouth odor. Participate more in social activities let your talent be known to others. Be a star.

Enjoy the fact that your honesty shows! People find blushing quite cute, some find it quite alluring. However, it can feel like a personal admission too, so have some good banter to cover it up, or a comment about how hot the room seems to be!

One sign is if the person starts a conversation with you. That means the person is comfortable talking with you.

Say hello first, then introduce yourself. Ask her what kind of things she likes, and whatever she says, turn it into a topic to talk about. For example, if she says she likes to play games, ask what kind of games, then go from there. Keep the conversation going. Most importantly, ask her if you can hang out sometime.

You don't really have to do much; just smile and be happy, forget their words and pretend like nothing happened. Also try to be friendly with them, so they think that you like them. They might even start liking you back.

You can't become a nice person overnight; rather it is a slow progression. You need to know why you want to become a nice person. Is it because you want more friends, want to be liked, or just for yourself? Start noticing people, listen to their stories, and be ready to share yours. If you want to see positive things in this world, you need to know what you think is positive. If good food and sunshine make you happy, then look for these things and focus on them. Make a list of things that make you happy and embrace them. Your inner happiness will make you a nicer person automatically.

If your "friends" hate you, they aren't your friends. There are plenty of nice people in the world, get out there and meet them. If you think your friends might just be upset with you for some reason, try asking them about it.

What is their definition of cool? It varies so much from person to person that it can be hard to give general advice. Focus on being a good friend instead by listening to them, not being flaky and being supportive.

Help them out when you can, and express your admiration for their improvements and achievements. Don't disturb their personal space. Be a good friend, listen to their frustrations, and ask them to hang out after work once in a while.

You can't please everyone. If you've been focusing your energy on one person, or one group of people, cast your net a little wider and get to know some more people.

First, watch his body language to see if he is flirting with you. Then, to get to know him better, you should strike up a conversation and find things you have in common. Be an interesting conversation partner and he will want to keep talking to you.

This is a common issue for many a person. Home is a fortress, a known quantity, a place of unconditional acceptance. Much of the rest of the world isn't like that. However, you can build a pretend shield around you to deflect the less caring things that happen out there and to bring a little of your happier self with you out of the home space. Also, try making friends of the same age and school online, then meet up with them in real life when you feel certain about them.

Tell them to stop and let them know how their behavior makes you feel. You also have to forgive them. If you care more about them learning to not hurt you, then you will find this easy. Last but not least, tell an older person such as a parent. Never retaliate if your siblings mistreat you: this will only make the situation worse.

If they're saying you two are a couple, that means you two must be close - which is great! Just focus on building up your friendship and ignore the people making fun of you. You have each other as friends, and it's much better to have one close friend than a bunch of friends who are not close to you at all.

You have to trust yourself, never mind what what people say. Always try to be positive and always smile, that will kill your enemy. Try to read the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, it will change your life.

Remember that Twitter isn't your life. Try to be funny, post funny things like memes or jokes. Be friendly with everyone on Twitter and ask your friends in real life to follow and retweet you.

Ask them why they aren't including you. If they say something bad or ignore you,j ust ditch them because they aren't real friends. Try making new friends.

Ask the classmate openly to why she doesn't like you. Listen carefully and apologize if you accidentally offended her in some way. If she does not have a reason, point out that you've been nothing but nice to her and work from there.

I used to feel this way. Don't try too hard. Just casually say hi to someone and introduce yourself. Most likely you feel like no one notices you because you're too shy to put yourself out there. Once you see that nothing bad happens the first time, you'll feel more comfortable approaching people. Take part in casual conversations, ask people for their opinions, make jokes, etc. Be social!

Take a chance and say hi to him. Make plans to celebrate the end of school.

If they are teasing you in a friendly way, tell them they're hurting your feelings and ask them to stop. If they're really being mean about it, ignore them and find better friends.

Talk to him and try to become his friend. Maybe he just doesn't like you because he doesn't know you that well. If you get to know him and he still doesn't like you, then you'll just have to move on.

Kids who are shy aren't best for everyone. If you think friends who mainly listen to you are good for you, try finding other shy people. When someone is shy, it doesn't mean that he/she is acting like a two year old. Some shy people do, but not everyone.