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    Should I get back with an ex that I dumped?
    Jennifer Boidy, RN
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    Jennifer Boidy is a Registered Nurse based in Baltimore, Maryland. In addition to her nursing career, she also works as a Healthcare Content Strategist & Writer, helping businesses and non-profits market their products and services to healthcare provider organizations, pharmaceutical companies, and other healthcare services vendors. Jennifer’s areas of expertise include pharmaceuticals & life sciences, health technology, medical devices & diagnostics, health insurance & managed care, and healthcare services & facilities. Her certification as a Registered Nurse was issued by the Maryland Board of Nursing. She graduated from the University of Maryland with a BS in Marketing and Finance. She received her Associate of Science in Nursing from Carroll Community College in 2012.
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    Only you can answer this question. Evaluate the relationship you had with your ex, what worked, what didn’t work, and what could be worked on. Also determine if you are both willing to make changes to fix whatever went wrong. If neither of you makes a change, then you will essentially be re-entering the relationship you left, in which case you’ll want to remind yourself why it didn’t work and determine if you’re willing to put up with those things again in order to make it work.
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    What is the best body language to show my attraction and feelings for someone?
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    Eye-contact and a smile is the best way to show your interest in someone. Let the person catch you glancing at them, and then smile.
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    What do I do if I like someone but I'm not ready for a relationship?
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    Try being friends with that person for now. This way you can still have them in your life and you can get to know them better and see if a relationship might be a good fit when you're ready. Just take it one step at a time.
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    What do I do if someone told me they loved me but I rejected them, and now I regret it?
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    Try getting in touch with them and telling them how you feel. Be honest about why you rejected them if you can. Maybe you just weren't ready for a relationship, or maybe you've gotten to know them better now? It will be up to them if they still want to pursue a relationship with you, but the best thing you can do is just tell them honestly how you feel.
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    I like someone a lot, but how do I know if it's time?
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    Just look for signs that the other person is ready, such as body language and flirtatious behavior. Give the hint that you're interested, and Flirt to see how it's received.
  • Question
    How can I reach the heart of a cold, difficult person that has trust issues?
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    Start by becoming friends. Friendship is the best way to build trust. Then, when you have a mutual respect and trust between you, express your interest in becoming more than friends.
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    How do I make someone fall in love with me if I have never talked to them before?
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    You will have to start small. Smile and say hi. Pay them a compliment and strike up a conversation. If it goes well, ask them for their phone number. Take it one step at a time, you can't make someone who doesn't know you at all instantly fall in love with you.
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    Should I trust someone who calls me pretty?
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    You should not trust someone just because they say you're pretty, but this is no reason not to trust them. Trust should be earned with deeds and not words.
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    I've liked someone for almost a year and tried getting over it, but he still doesn't like me that way. How do I move past this?
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    Try to do things that can easily occupy your mind. Try to remember some negative things about him, as well.
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    What if this person may have feelings for someone else?
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    Just try accepting the fact this person likes someone else, and don't feel bad about it, as it isn't your fault.
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    The guy who said he liked me started dating someone else. What happened and what can I do?
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    Maybe he liked both of you and he thought you weren't interested so he asked the other person. There's really no way to know what happened for sure without asking him.
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    If he shows some signs that he's in love with me, should I just go for it?
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    Yes! Go for it! Even if you've misinterpreted the signs, putting yourself out there is always better than keeping quiet and wondering later what might have been.
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    How can I not be jealous when I'm in love with someone?
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    Being jealous is a sign of a low self-esteem or a lack of trust in the one you love. Keep in mind that everybody had a life before meeting their significant other. What matters now is that you are by this person's side building a future together.
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    How do I let someone know I like them?
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    You could send them a text or letter, or just tell them in person. Do what makes you feel most comfortable. You can also just try sending subtle signs, like touching their arm when they're talking, laughing at their jokes, making a lot of eye contact, etc.
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    How can I get a woman to like me if I'm not socially active?
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    Show her what you're good at and see if you have a bond or share a interest. Move on from there.
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    Does age make a difference?
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    Sometimes it does. It's illegal for an adult to be in a relationship with a minor, for example. And if there is a significant age gap between the two people, they might not have a lot in common, which can make a relationship more difficult.
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    How do I get a young relationship started?
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    You should start by getting to know them. Ask them questions about themselves - what they like to do, what their family is like, etc. Look for things you have in common, and just spend time together.
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    What do I do if my crush likes me, but already has a significant other?
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    If this person has feelings for you, they are not in love with the person they're dating. Explain to your crush that you won't get involved with them until they break up with their significant other.
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    How do I get someone to like me that I never get to talk to or see?
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    Contact them through social media, Skype, FaceTime, etc., and/or ask any mutual friends you might have to put in a good word for you with them. If you're talking about a famous person or something like that, you should probably just accept that it's not going to happen.
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    What do I do if I'm falling for my best friend, who's already is involved with someone?
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    Leave their relationship alone, and distance yourself from your friend if you need to. There's some helpful advice in Get Over a Crush on Your Best Friend .
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    What do I do if my crush is my ex's best friend?
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    If you still have a friendly relationship with your ex, ask them if it would be okay with them if you started dating their friend. If you don't really talk to your ex anymore, try to build up a friendly relationship with them. It's unlikely things would work out well between you and this new person if their best friend hates you.
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    How do I make someone fall in love with me again?
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    Try opening up to them about your feelings and being vulnerable with them. Or even just ask them to go get a coffee and try to rekindle the spark you may have had. Remind them of how great things were between you two before, and ask them to give you a second chance.
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    What do I do if I'm in love with someone and confessed my feelings, but I got ignored?
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    If you're sure they heard you or saw your message, the best thing to do is just move on. If they ignored you, they're not interested in you, and you can't do anything to change that. If you're not sure they heard you/got your message, you should tell them again.
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    How do I get over someone who friend zoned me?
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    Give yourself some space for awhile if you're finding it difficult to be around them. Then just do your best to think of them as a friend. You can't make someone like you if they're not interested.
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    How do I get a boy I like to like me back without them telling everyone?
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    There's not really a way to make sure he won't tell everyone. All you can really do is risk it and tell him how you feel. You can politely ask him not to tell anyone about it, but again, there's no way to make sure he'll do what you ask.
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    How do I forget about someone who doesn't feel the same about me?
    Kai Manzo
    Community Answer
    Try an invest yourself in something you're passionate about, or anything else that takes your mind off them.
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    How can I make him start telling me about his problems, life, etc? We are "friends." We talk by messages and say hello when we see each other in school.
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    Community Answer
    Invent ways to spend time with him. If he ever seems sad, tell him that you're there for him and ask him if he wants to talk about it.
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    What if I only see the person three times a year, max?
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    Make those three days very special for him or her (bring some memorable gifts, go to the movies or spend the day doing what he or she likes). Try to talk online, on phone, video chat, etc. If he or she likes you, it will work.
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    How do I know if someone is thinking about me?
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    If they are showing signs of enjoying your company, or if they are eager to hang out, then those are a couple of signs. If that someone makes eye contact with you, laughs at all of your jokes, and pays attention to you when you are speaking to them, those are sure signs that they are interested in you.
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    Can you propose marriage after you fall in love?
    Calista McIntyre
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    Wait a little while, be in love for a couple months. If you wish, you might consider moving in with each other, really embracing each other and truly figuring out if your love is so deep that you’re ready to take the next step.
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