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How can I attract a guy without talking?

Nicole Moore
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Nicole Moore is a Love and Relationship Coach and the Founder and CEO of Love Works Method, a private coaching and digital course service for women looking to find the right partner. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in body language and helping others take control of their dating life, attract a partner, and build a strong relationship. Nicole has been featured in numerous publications such as Cosmopolitan, Forbes, and USA Today. She also hosts Love Works with Nicole Moore, a podcast for modern women wanting love, dating, and relationship advice. Nicole holds a BA in Public Relations and Spanish from Syracuse University and a Certificate in Personal Coaching from New York University.

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Walk past him with your head held high and your shoulders back. Remember—popular guys are used to girls feeling shy around him or fawning all over him. When you act confident around a popular guy, he has no choice but to pay attention to you.

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How do you talk to popular guys?

Nicole Moore
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Nicole Moore is a Love and Relationship Coach and the Founder and CEO of Love Works Method, a private coaching and digital course service for women looking to find the right partner. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in body language and helping others take control of their dating life, attract a partner, and build a strong relationship. Nicole has been featured in numerous publications such as Cosmopolitan, Forbes, and USA Today. She also hosts Love Works with Nicole Moore, a podcast for modern women wanting love, dating, and relationship advice. Nicole holds a BA in Public Relations and Spanish from Syracuse University and a Certificate in Personal Coaching from New York University.

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Confidence is key! Pretend that you're the most amazing girl in the world and he'd be lucky to even get a second to chat with you. this might seem weird at first, but the more you practice feeling this way, the more it will feel real. Don't be like all the other girls who fawn over him; instead, stand tall and know what you're bringing to the table.

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What do you do if the popular boy is greedy,mean,and other bad character traits

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If the popular boy is mean to you, he's probably not the kind of guy you should be pursing in the first place. The best thing you can do is to take care of yourself and your appearance, focus on being yourself, and try to talk to him about things you think he'll be interested in. If he is mean to you, it's probably time to move on to a new crush!

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I blush and when I try to talk to him I go uhhhh or mmmm how do I stop doing that?

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Being nervous when you talk to your crush (especially if he's a popular guy!) is totally normal. The best way to get over it is to keep doing it. The more you talk to him, the more comfortable you'll feel in the future.

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What if he doesn't know I exist? I'm not popular and he is. And also, most popular boys like popular girls. What do I do?

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Remember that popularity isn't everything. If the popular guy you like won't like you back because you aren't popular too, then he isn't worth wasting your time on. Try introducing yourself to him or joining a a club/hobby group that he participates in.

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How can you tell if a popular guy already likes you?

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A good way to tell if a popular guy likes you is by how much he talks to you. If he says hello to you in the halls, stops to chat with you when you see each other, or talks to you outside of class, it's possible that he likes you. Try flirting with him a little to see if he responds positively or not.

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