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What is the best thing to do on a first date?

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Focus on being genuine and don't worry so much about impressing your date. Just be yourself and see if you have a real connection with the other person.

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What should I do if I am nauseous before the date?

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First, consider if your upset stomach is caused from nerves or from a stomach issue. If you are anxious, you can take 5-10 deep breaths to relax you. Try stretching or playing relaxing music. If your stomach is genuinely upset and you are sick, check in with your date and see if you can reschedule.

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What should I wear for my date?

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Wear something that makes you feel awesome! However, make sure you wear something that is appropriate for the type of date you are going on.

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How do you hold hands with your date if she's shy?

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You don't want to make your date uncomfortable with forwarding advances. To make her more comfortable, try being flirty and make her smile. Then, gently touch her hand with yours. If she seems interested, hold her hand.

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How to prepare for a carnival date?

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You can wear casual yet flattering clothing to the carnival. For instance, wear jeans or khaki shorts with a button-down shirt. You can also wear a simple sundress or maxi skirt. It is helpful to bring a bag with you to store all of your prizes!

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What do you do if you are comfortable chatting online but are nervous about talking in person?

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If you and your date have been texting or instant messaging but haven't talked in person much, that's okay! Take some deep breaths and don't overthink the situation. Be yourself, and say things exactly like you would online. Your date is interested in you because of the person you are!

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What should I do if my date is really shy?

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If your date is shy, that's okay! Know it's alright if there are quiet periods during the date. To stimulate conversation, think of things to talk about before you leave so you can easily reference them during the date.

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How do you know if a guy likes you?

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If your date is happy and joyful during the date, they most likely enjoy you quite a bit! Frequent smiles, compliments, and touching are other good indicators.

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What if your parents don't know about the date?

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Overall, it is not good to keep secrets from your parents. Consider spending time with other friends so they don't think of your hang-out as a "date."

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