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How can I control my anger when someone makes a homophobic comment such as "I hate LGBT. LGBT is disgusting!"?

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If the comment is online, you should block or ignore the person. In real life, if it's someone unavoidable, like a family member, calmly express that you disapprove of their actions. If it's a friend, consider ending the friendship, but be prepared for it to be painful if you've had a good relationship.

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I suggested a cartoon character might be transgender because of her masculine voice, but someone said their voice is just a joke. Is that person being transphobic?

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They might be. It's possible they're in denial about their own identity, aren't in a safe space to agree, or strongly believe in traditional gender roles. It's best not to assume. Ask for their reasoning, and if it's not sound, consider addressing it.

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What should I say to someone who thinks homophobia is funny?

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If they are from the LGBTQIA+ community, try to be understanding, as they might not have interacted with someone from that background. Instead, provide examples of how harmful their attitude can be.

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How should I respond to someone linking LGBT issues with incest in a YouTube comment?

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They might be in an unsafe relationship or in denial about their own identity. Simply tell them their behavior is wrong and refrain from further engagement.

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