Expert Q&A for How to Show Your Parents You Love Them

Moms are usually easy to make feel loved--just do a small gesture for her... give her a card or a single flower, a do a chore without her asking you to do it!! Tell her something you appreciate that she does--like getting your sports clothes ready for your games or making your favorite dinner.

Parents usually like their children, but sometimes do not like their behaviors or attitude. Keep this in mind, and understand the difference. Next time you are around one of your parents try NOT to show an attitude. Try listening more and hearing what they are trying to say to you. Also, try giving your parents a compliment once in a while; it is easy to take them for granted. Admit your recent misbehavior, apologize for it, and state you will try to do better in the future.

We all show love in different ways. Some of us give hugs, some say nice things, some show love by helping out. Parents are usually pretty aware of how each of their children are able to communicate love. Do what is comfortable to you... either leaving a card; sending an e-card; giving a kiss or hug; doing an extra chore; bringing your Mom a few flowers; or telling your dad you appreciate how he supports the family and goes to your games.

saying "thank you" for any of the things that your parent or sibling does for you. Just this mere 'noticing' draws attention to all that they do for you. On special occasions, don't forget to give a card--like Mother's Day or birthdays--say a little more than just your name. If you have been difficult recently, you can say something like: "I know I've been impossible lately; thanks for putting up with me and living me anyway."

Well, disobeying is part of growing up! Most parents expect some of that--even though they don't like it! There is till a lot you can do afterwards. You can apologize. You can say, "I didn't mean to hurt you, although I know I did." You can show that you are learning from your mistakes by not doing the same thing over and over again. If you were late coming in, try not to be late the next time. Perfect kids will have their problems later in life! Most kids will disobey some. But do try to learn from your past mistakes. And remember that your parents generally want the best for you.