Q&A for How to Turn a Guy on Through Text Message

Try giving him compliments to show your interest and make him feel good. A little playful teasing can also make you sound more flirty.

First off, that is wrong on so many levels. Cheating is never something you want to be involved with. All it will get you is a whole lot of drama. Tell your friend what is going on and see what you can work out from there. But whatever you do, do not cheat on your best friend.

He might just have felt weird or been surprised if you never talked/texted him that way before. Or he doesn't think he's handsome and thinks that was a funny thing to call him. It also kind of depends on your age; if you're in your early teens or something, that might not be language that people your age tend to use and it might be a little awkward. Rather than using the exact example from the article, you should just follow the general guidelines and say something that comes naturally to you.

Be yourself. Don't try to turn him on: if it's there it's there, if it's not it's not.

Wait it out. Don't be a homewrecker and ruin his relationship. If you do end up together you will be starting up your relationship off on a negative note and he will remember it. Wait until he's single before you start dating.

Unfortunately, you can't make someone like you. The best, and healthiest, thing for you to do would be to move on. Flirting with the guy in hopes of getting him to like you will only push him further away from you. If you are already friends with this guy, you might even lose his friendship entirely.

Be independent and confident. Guys love someone who is able to stand up for themselves. Don't text him constantly. If you text him once or twice a week and tell him about all the fun stuff you've been doing, he will want to be part of it. JUST BE YOURSELF. There is no faster way to lose a guy than to pretend like you are someone else. Don't pretend to like everything he likes or he will get weirded out. Just be yourself, have your own interests, and pretty soon, he will want you like candy.

Play hard to get back. Show him that you will not chase him.

If he's coming up with reasons to text with you, he likes you.

If the guy doesn't know you, introduce yourself to him and go from there. If he doesn't like you, it's best to move on and find someone who does.

Get his number, then try to meet up outside of school or the place where you met him. Than get to know him a little better and follow the steps above.

Text your BFF. Sometimes they have the best advice on what to say. Or ask him a question so that you can make a conversation out of that. You could also give him a compliment if you're completely out of ideas.

If he is willing to get together with you even if you live far apart he will show that he is willing to make the time and sacrifice to go the distance and see you. This is a good indicator that he likes you.

Think about things that you know he is interested in or participates in. For example, if he is part of the basketball team, ask him, "Hey, so how is basketball going?" or "Are you enjoying basketball?" If you don't know enough about him, ask him simple questions like, "How many siblings do you have?" or "What do you like to do in your free time?"

I have the same issue. My boyfriend always responds after a few hours. My advice is that you need to kind of look at how he behaves in general. If he flirts with you, tries to spend time with you, etc. he likes you. He might be too busy to reply to your text right away, or he might be insecure and trying to look less eager.

Don't be a player. When you're messaging her don't let her know you're also texting some other girl or that you're with someone else. Compliment her, and keep the conversation going. Ask her how her day has been etc.

Ask if he wants to play 20 questions and make it as flirty as you want!

Let him know your feelings about that and tell him to make a choice between the two of you. Also, give him time to make that choice.

Well if you truly miss him, you can get back together with him. You just have to make sure that he is single. Tell him that you miss him and that you would like to try dating again.

If he doesn't return your texts, he probably doesn't like you. It would be best to move on and find somebody who is actually interested in you, or just focus on yourself for a while.

Just ask him! In my experience, it is the simplest way to do it.

MOVE ON is the only answer I can give you. It didn't work out. He's made his decision and you'll be wasting your time if you try to get him to change his mind.

Cheating is never the best choice. If you know he has a girlfriend, you should back things up just a step. If that other girl knows you two like each other, you are gonna be in the middle of a whole bunch of drama. So, basically, back your relationship up and take it slowly. Also, be honest with him. If he truly likes you, he will respect your opinions on the situation.

For the most part, yes. You might have to modify some things a little bit though. (For example, you would probably want to replace "Hey handsome" with "Hey beautiful" or something similar.)

Honestly, assuming you're in a relationship with said person, you need to confront him if you haven't already, and tell him that his lack of calls is making you feel insecure about your relationship. It will definitely be difficult and nerve-wracking, but it must be done. Make sure you pay close attention to how he reacts. If he blows your concerns off, he's probably not the one for you.

Just be yourself, and don't pretend to be someone you're not.

If the guy is already seeing someone, don't try to break them up or get involved with him. Just get to know him as a friend for now. Circumstances may change in the future.

Take small steps first, send some casually flirty messages. If his response is positive, then he might have feelings for you.

If you asked for his number, chances are he wants you to text him first. Unfortunately, if this is the case you might be waiting awhile. You can instead start by texting something like "Eric?" or whatever his name is. He might respond with "yea, who's this?" or "What's up?" these are just a few examples. At this point he's asked who you are or how you're doing and you can start the conversation how you normally would.

Kiss him first. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and make the first move.