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A guide to polite and rude ways to tell someone to be quiet in Japanese
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With thousands of characters to memorize and multiple writing systems, Japanese is usually considered one of the most difficult languages for English-speakers to learn. Luckily, it's not especially hard to ask Japanese speakers for peace and quiet! The Japanese terms for "shut up" and a few similar alternatives only take a few minutes to memorize and work well for getting the message across. However, it's important to be very careful with how you use these phrases to avoid a major faux pas.
How to Tell Someone to Shut up in Japanese
- Say “damare,” “damarinasai,” “yakamashī,” or “urusai” to rudely tell someone to shut up in Japanese.
- Try “shizuka ni shiro yo!” or “yarou” to emphasize how angry you are.
- To politely hush someone in Japanese, say “shizukani” or “shizukani shite kudasai” and then say “arigatō” when they do as you ask.
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Note that the phrases in this section should generally only be used around friends and close family members. Telling a stranger or an authority figure to shut up can be a major breach of etiquette.
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Say "damare" as a good all-around "shut up. " Try this easy phrase for your everyday "shut up" usage. It's pronounced "dah-mah-ray." "Dah" and "mah" both more or less rhyme with "raw". Note that the r sound used here is light and fast like a Spanish r. The r is pronounced with a light flick of the tongue, almost like an English d or the two ts in the word "butter." [1] X Research source- In Japanese, this phrase is written "黙れ" .
- If you really want to make an impression, try rolling the r sound at the end of the word. This can be used in Japanese to give great emotion or emphasis to a word. This, too resembles the Spanish rolled r sound.
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To speak from a position of authority, say "damarinasai. " If you want to tell someone to shut up as if you are someone with power over them (like a boss or a police officer), use this option. It's pronounced "dah-mah-ree-nah-sigh." The first three syllables are just like "damare," only with a long e sound (as in "tea") at the end. "Nah" also rhymes with "raw" and the final "sigh" is pronounced like the English word. The approximate meaning here is "silence!"- This phrase is written "黙りなさい" .
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Say "yakamashī" for a semi-rude form of "you're being too loud. " This phrase literally means "noisy," but implies that the person you're talking about should shut up. It's pronounced "yah-kah-mah-shee" (basically how its English form is spelled). The one thing to watch out for is the "shee" at the end — in Japanese, these long vowels at the ends of words are held about twice as long as normal vowels. This can give this phrase an almost "whining" quality to an English ear as the final syllable is held out for something like "yakamasheeee." [2] X Research source- This phrase is written "やかましい" .
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Alternatively, say "urusai. " This phrase is very similar in meaning to yakamashī. It's pronounced "ooh-roo-sigh." Note that, in Japanese, the lips don't move forward for the long u sound. [3] X Research source Thus, the vowel sounds in "ooh" and "roo" should sound about halfway between the "oo" in "root" and the u in "rut." This can take a little practice.- This phrase is written "うるさい" .
- Don't forget to use the light, quick r sound by flicking your tongue against the top of your mouth.
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Say "shizuka ni shiro yo! " for an angry "be quiet!" This phrase is basically an abrupt, rude way to ask for quiet. It's a good choice if you've already asked someone nicely to be quiet and gotten no response. Pronounce this phrase "shee-zoo-kah knee shee-roh yo." Remember again that the Japanese u sound is made without moving the lips forward.- This phrase is written "静か に 白 よ" .
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Use "yarou" at the end to emphasize your anger or contempt. Japanese doesn't have true "swear words" the way that other languages do, but it does have insults you can add to your phrases to express how upset you are with someone. "Yarou" is one of these insults — its meaning is somewhat similar to "bastard" or "unpleasant person" in English. [4] X Research source "Yarou" is pronounced roughly like "yeah-row". Use the short a sound (as in "apple") for the first syllable — the second is similar to the English word "row.- To use this word, add it after you say an adjective like "urusai" or "yakamashi." For instance, "urusai yarou" means, basically, "shut up, you noisy, annoying person."
- "Yarou" is written "野郎" .
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The phrases in this section are a little more acceptable to use outside of your close circle of friends. However, they can still be considered rude if they're used in a condescending way, so try to be aware of how you're coming across.
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Say "shizukani" for "be quiet. " This fairly standard phrase is a neutral way to ask someone to be quiet without any insulting connotations. You may, for instance, hear teachers use this to quiet students during study time. "Shizukani" is pronounced "shih-zoo-kah-knee." The first syllable uses the short i sound (as in "pit"), while the last syllable uses the long e sound (as in "tea"). Note that the last syllable here doesn't have the extra-long emphasis used in "yakamashī."- This phrase is written "静かに" .
- This option is still a little abrupt and forceful to use with strangers, so you'll probably want to opt for the phrase below if you want to be extra-delicate.
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Say "shizukani shite kudasai" for "please be quiet. " This is one of the most polite ways you can ask someone else to be quiet — for instance, it's perfect for hushing noisy people around you in a movie theater. "Shizukani" is pronounced exactly as in the step above. "Shite" is pronounced "she-tay" (use the long e sound as in tea for the first syllable). "Kudusai is pronounced "koo-dah-sigh." Once again, the u sound is made without moving the lips forward.- This phrase is written "静か に して ください" .
- Remember the word "kudasai" — it's Japanese for "please," so you'll end up using it a lot if you learn more common Japanese phrases.
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Respond with "arigatō" when you get what you ask for. If you ask someone to be quiet politely and they do quiet down, don't forget to say thanks! "Arigatō" is an all-purpose Japanese way to say "thank you." It's pronounced "ah-ree-gah-toe." Use the delicate Japanese r sound made with a flick of your tongue described above. You'll also want to hold the final o sound a little longer than normal (just like you did for the ī in "yakamashī")- This phrase is written "ありがとう" .
- For "thank you very much," you can say "arigatou gozaimasu. " "Gozaimasu" is pronounced "go-zye-moss." Note that the second syllable rhymes with "eye" and the u at the end is not pronounced. This phrase is written "ありがとう ございます".
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QuestionIs arigato an effective way of shutting someone up?VictoriaaCommunity AnswerArigato means thank you in Japanese so it would not be used to tell someone to shut up.
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QuestionWhy is arigato in this section for shut up?VictoriaaCommunity AnswerArigato is here so that when you get what you asked (which is for someone to shut up) you can reply. For example, if someone is making noise and you tell them 'shizukani shite kudasai' and they say OK or they stop making noise, to show respect, you say 'arigatō' to tell them 'thank you'.
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- Japan is, in many ways, a traditional society. Politeness and etiquette are considered important parts of every day life. Be very careful about the way you use the ruder phrases in this article. Telling someone who's not a close friend to "shut up" can be considered absolutely scandalous. [5] X Research sourceThanks
- Another suffix you can use to add insult to "urusai" or "yakamashi" is "me". This makes the phrases come across as a little more contemptuous or disrespectful than normal. [6] X Research sourceThanks
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References
- ↑ http://www.fluentin3months.com/roll-your-r/
- ↑ http://senseis.xmp.net/?JapaneseGoPronunciations
- ↑ http://senseis.xmp.net/?JapaneseGoPronunciations
- ↑ http://www.sljfaq.org/afaq/insults.html#me-suffix
- ↑ http://www.ediplomat.com/np/cultural_etiquette/ce_jp.htm
- ↑ http://www.sljfaq.org/afaq/insults.html
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To say shut up in Japanese, use the word "damare," which is pronounced "dah-mah-ray." To speak from a position of authority, you can say "damarinasai," which is pronounced "dah-mah-ree-nah-sigh." Keep in mind that both of these options are fairly rude. If you want to tell someone to be quiet in a more polite way, you can say "shizukani," which is pronounced "shih-zoo-kah-knee." To learn other variations of saying shut up in Japanese, read on!
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