Learn What It Means When Someone Says: "What Are You Into?"

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Everything you need to know about the question: "What are you into?"
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“What are you into?” is a great question to start a conversation or get to know someone better. It's a good expression to learn, because English speakers use it all the time (especially when you meet someone new). In this article, we’ll break down the meaning of the phrase “What are you into?,” explain why people may ask it, and offer lots of ways you can reply.

Things You Should Know

  • “What are you into?” is another way of saying “What do you like?”
  • When someone asks you this question, they want to know about your interests and things you enjoy doing.
  • Respond to this question by explaining what you like or what you're interested in. You could say, "I like to go outdoors" or "I'm into video games."
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"What Are You Into?” Meaning

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  1. When someone asks you this, they’re wondering what you enjoy doing in your free time or what your preferences are for a particular subject. [1]
    • For example, if someone asks, “What music are you into?” they're saying, "What music do you like?" And you might respond with, "I like Bob Dylan."
    • They might ask you: "What food are you into?" This means, "What food do you like?" You can also respond using "into," in a similar way. So, "I'm into salads and healthy foods."
    • If someone asks “What are you into?” on its own, they’re asking what you like in general. So, you could say: "I'm into sports." Or, "I like TV and movies."
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How to Respond to “What Are You Into?”

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  1. This could be art, music, sports, books, friends, food, anything at all. The more specific you can make your answer, the more you'll let your personality show. So instead of just saying, "I'm into art," you could say, "I'm into painting and drawing." Here are a few more examples: [2]
    • “I'm into fashion. I love clothes."
    • “I’m into playing jazz music on my saxophone.”
    • “I’m into collecting Star Wars action figures.”
    • “I’m into racing motorcycles. I’m an adrenaline junkie.”
  2. If someone asks you what you're into, they might want to hear about things you like to watch or read. So in that case, think of you're favorite, and then, tell them. For example, you could say: [3]
    • “I’ve been really into reading lately. Have you read Little Women ?”
    • “I’m really into Marvel movies. What’s your favorite?”
    • “I’m into rock music. Do you like rock?”
  3. You probably care a lot about your friends and family, so let the other person know that. But usually, people won't use the phrase "into" to talk about another person unless it's romantic. So instead of saying "I'm into my friends," for example, you might respond with something like this: [4]
    • “My family is really important to me.”
    • “My daughter and I are very close.”
    • “My best friend is amazing.”
    • “My boyfriend and I like to surf together.”
  4. Once you tell them what you like or what you're into, you can respond by asking them the same question: "What are you into?" This way, you keep the conversation going and show them that you're interested in them, too.
    • “I'm really into coffee. What are you into?"
    • “I'm into science and math. What do you like?"
  5. If you want, you can take the opportunity to make the other person laugh instead. Say something sarcastic or silly, and you can show them how funny you are. For example, try out one of these jokes: [5]
    • “I really like my car. I might even try driving it someday.”
    • “Seeing the future has been a hobby of mine since next Thursday.”
  6. List off the things you like to demonstrate that you’re well-rounded. Employers want to know that you’re an energetic, passionate person. You could say something like: [6]
    • “I like reading, I work out, and I’ll relax by playing my piano.”
    • “I love to try new recipes with my wife. We just made a great pasta dish.”
    • “Travel is my passion. I went on a surf trip to Bali and hiked Mount Agung.”
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Reasons People Ask “What Are You Into?”

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  1. “What are you into?” is a question that people ask to get to know you better. “What are you into?” usually creates interesting conversation. That's because people love talking about the things that they like most, like sports or travel. [7]
    • Asking “What are you into?” is different from asking “What do you do?” "What do you do?" usually means that the other person wants to know what your job is.
  2. “What are you into?” isn’t a question just limited to things you like. Sometimes, your answers illuminate your philosophies on life. For example, if you responded with “I go to church every Sunday,” they’d be able to tell that you’re religious. If you talked about volunteering, they’d know what causes are important to you. [8]
  3. Employers like to get a sense of what you like when they interview you, so they can get to know you better. But a lot of times during interviews, this might be asked in a different way, too. For example, the person interviewing you might say: [9]
    • "What are your hobbies?" or "What do you like to do outside of work?"
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Other Meanings for “What Are You Into?”

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  1. Sometimes, people may ask “What are you into?” to mean “What are your sexual interests?” or “What are your kinks?” If you’re seeing someone romantically, this question is a polite way to discuss things you two like in the bedroom and see if you’re sexually compatible. Context is key here, though. Unless you’re physically intimate with the person asking, “what are you into?” usually relates to non-sensual activities. [10]


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      References

      1. ↑ https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/into
      2. ↑ https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/small_talk
      3. ↑ https://liveboldandbloom.com/09/self-improvement/small-talk-topics
      4. ↑ https://futureofworking.com/what-are-your-interests-and-hobbies/
      5. ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/kareanderson/2013/11/03/use-humor-to-befriend-defuse-tension-and-have-more-fun/?sh=f69926d29297
      6. ↑ https://interviewpenguin.com/what-do-you-like-to-do-for-fun/
      7. ↑ https://youtu.be/hoyhPZDp3dE?t=17
      8. ↑ https://interviewpenguin.com/what-do-you-like-to-do-for-fun/
      9. ↑ https://careersidekick.com/what-you-do-for-fun/
      1. ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/a-to-z-kinks-and-fetishes

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