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Kimberly Hill

Certified Dating and Relationship Coach

Kimberly Hill is a certified dating and relationship coach based in Vancouver, BC. Kimberly helps divorced and single men get unstuck, elevate their dating experiences, and build meaningful connections. She is certified in Neuro-Linguistics and Solutions-Focused Coaching and is the host of the podcast The Self-Confidence Project, which is in the top 2% of podcasts globally. Kimberly has 1:1 coached over 350 men and has a growing community on social media of over 150,000 men, benefitting from her coaching and advice. She also created a Masterclass for her community, “10 Must-Know Tips For Talking & Texting With Women”. She has been prominently featured on CBS News, Fox News, and NBC News, along with over 200 news publications.

Education

  • BBA, Business Administration

Professional Achievements

  • Featured in numerous publications for her work as a dating coach
  • Named one of the Top 10 Dating Coaches of 2023

Certifications & Organizations

  • Certified Solutions-Focused Coach
  • Certified NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner
  • Graduate of independent coursework in relationship psychology and theory (including courses at The Gottman Institute)

Favorite Piece of Advice

One of the most important things I teach is that you don’t need to become someone else to find love—you need to become more of who you already are. Most men struggle in dating not because they're not enough, but because they’ve never been taught how to show up with confidence, clarity, and connection. That changes when they work with me.

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Ideas for romantic gestures
Romantic gestures can take endless forms, but the ones that truly leave a lasting impression are those aligned with how your partner receives love. A great place to start is by exploring their love language by taking the Love Languages quiz together. Let's say your boyfriend or girlfriend's primary love language is quality time , then plan an intentional evening just for the two of you: a cozy movie night at home with no phones, a spontaneous scenic walk on a new trail, or a full day at the beach with their favorite snacks and music.
If they value acts of service , think about the everyday things that might stress or overwhelm them, then quietly take care of those things. Surprise them by detailing their car, filling up their gas tank before a weekend outing, or taking over a chore they’ve been dreading.

The most romantic gestures aren’t always grand, they’re thoughtful, personalized, and done with presence and care.
Does he like me or is he just being nice?
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When and how do you define the relationship?
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How long should I wait before the next date?
How soon someone follows up says a lot about their dating style. Some people take time to process how they feel, others are more impulsive. But if you are left wondering for many days, it is a good indication they may have moved their interest elsewhere. That said, after a first date, no one really owes anyone anything — so if you don’t hear from them (or vice versa), it’s usually just a soft letdown. Silence is a message too, and it goes both ways.
What are your favorite cheap date ideas?
There are great options for cheaper dates. It’ll depend on where you live, what your interests are, and of course, the time of the year too. One of the most common dates (other than dinner) will be getting coffee, which is fine, but it can be fun to do something along with the coffee to make the date more interesting! In general, daytime dates are often cheaper than doing things at nighttime. Breakfast is always a lot less expensive than getting food and booze at night, which tends to add up in the bill. I love going out for breakfast or brunch as a date idea. You can dress up and go out for tea at a tea house that doesn’t have a high price tag. You can go mini golfing, you can visit a farmers markets in town, you can see a movie and go to a dessert café together afterwards. You can have a picnic at a park or beach with a small charcuterie setup that won’t cost much. After a few dates, once you’ve gotten more comfortable with each other you can go on a walk or hike somewhere, too. All of these ideas don’t need to be expensive but can be very romantic and fun.
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