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Dating in your 30s can be tricky, especially if you haven’t been on a date in a while. Not to worry, though! In many ways, the dating scene is a lot easier to navigate when you’re in your 30s since you and your potential partner are old enough to know what you want without playing games. As such, the best way to ask a girl to be your girlfriend when you’re both in your 30s is to be straight up and ask her! If you’re ready to take the next step, here are a few tips and suggestions to help you along the way.
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QuestionIs dating harder in your 30s?Stefanie Safran is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Owner of Stef in the City, a Matchmaking and Dating Coaching business focused on an honest and hands on approach. Stefanie labels herself as “Chicago's Introductionista®” as she has over 15 years of experience in the matchmaking industry. Her work has been featured on various media such as: ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, FOX, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, The HuffPost, and Refinery29. She holds a MBA in marketing and branding from Loyola University in addition to her BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.Not necessarily. In fact, it might be easier. People tend to learn a lot from relationships that don't work out, so you may have an easier time finding someone to click with.
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QuestionWhat are women in their 30s looking for?Stefanie Safran is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Owner of Stef in the City, a Matchmaking and Dating Coaching business focused on an honest and hands on approach. Stefanie labels herself as “Chicago's Introductionista®” as she has over 15 years of experience in the matchmaking industry. Her work has been featured on various media such as: ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, FOX, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, The HuffPost, and Refinery29. She holds a MBA in marketing and branding from Loyola University in addition to her BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.In my opinion, the main thing they want to see is that you're making an effort. Clean your facial hair up, dress snazzy, have clean hands and whatnot. If they see you care about the way you look, she'll be much more inclined to be open to a date.
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QuestionHow should I act on a first date?Stefanie Safran is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Owner of Stef in the City, a Matchmaking and Dating Coaching business focused on an honest and hands on approach. Stefanie labels herself as “Chicago's Introductionista®” as she has over 15 years of experience in the matchmaking industry. Her work has been featured on various media such as: ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, FOX, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, The HuffPost, and Refinery29. She holds a MBA in marketing and branding from Loyola University in addition to her BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.Treat it a little bit like a first interview. Do your best to be make a good impression, be honest, and actually pay attention to what's going on. Don't pull your phone out or text while you're on a date. Listen, engage in conversation, and take an active interest in the person you're talking to.
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- Jot down a list of your some of your exes, along with any of your friends who are currently in relationships. Create a pros and cons list with these names—focus on what you really liked about these relationships, and what you didn’t like. This might help you fine tune your ideal partner. [14] X Research sourceThanks
- Try not to focus on the past, even if you’ve experienced some tough break-ups. Instead, focus on the potential relationships waiting for you in the future! [15] X Research sourceThanks
- It may sound cliche, but age really is just a number. You don’t have to date someone who’s exactly the same age as you!Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.eharmony.com/how-to-ask-a-girl-out/
- ↑ https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/how-to-define-a-relationship-without-ruining-it.html
- ↑ https://menshealth.com.au/how-to-ask-someone-out-on-a-date/
- ↑ https://blackdoctor.org/how-to-ask-a-woman-out-on-a-date/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-matters/201810/are-we-exclusive-yet
- ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/exclusive-relationship-talk/
- ↑ https://www.eharmony.com/how-to-ask-a-girl-out/
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-ask-someone-out/
- ↑ Stefanie Safran. Dating Coach & Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 8 May 2020.
- ↑ https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-advice/how-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend/
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-ask-someone-out/
- ↑ https://www.eharmony.com/how-to-ask-a-girl-out/
- ↑ https://menshealth.com.au/how-to-ask-someone-out-on-a-date/
- ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/dating/how-to-start-dating-at-different-stages-of-life/
- ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/dating/how-to-start-dating-at-different-stages-of-life/
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