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You’ve been chatting with a girl on Tinder, and it’s going really well, but taking it from a convo on the app to a convo over text can feel a little tough. Fortunately, there are tons of different ways you can ask for a girl’s digits without seeming pushy. Keep reading: we’ve compiled some of the best lines you can use to get a girl’s number and keep chatting with her off the app!

Best Ways to Get Her Number on Tinder

  1. “I dare you to give me your phone number.”
  2. “What’s a smart, attractive person like me doing without your phone number?”
  3. “If I had your number, we could forget we ever met on Tinder.”
  4. “I don’t check this app very often. What’s your number?”
  5. “Let’s finish the rest of this conversation over text.”
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“1 x your phone number = ?”

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  1. Start off with something like, “Help! My nephew is doing math homework and he’s stuck on this problem.” She’ll probably respond with something like, “Haha, okay. What is it?” Then, you can send her the message above, and she’ll probably get a good giggle as she types out her number. [2]
    • Messages like these work best after you’ve had a conversation first. You can try it as your opening line, but you’ll have more success if you’ve done a bit of small talk beforehand.
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“📱 ❓”

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  1. If you aren’t really a conversationalist, you can get your point across by just sending a phone emoji and a question mark. You might want to start out with a few heart eye emojis, just so she knows you like her. Then, she’ll feel great about sending along her digits.
    • You can even ask a girl out on a date in emojis! Try sending her something like, “🍷🍣🌹❓” to ask her out to a sushi dinner.
    EXPERT TIP

    Cher Gopman

    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach

    It's best to have at least five exchanges back and forth before asking for a date. This is my rule unless you see something in their profile that really sparks your interest and you can just right away say, "Hey, this is so interesting — let's meet over coffee and talk about it."

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“I forgot my password and the only hint is ‘your number’!”

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“If I had your number, we could forget we ever met on Tinder.”

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  1. If you get the vibe that she’s a little fed up with online dating in general, test the waters by telling her if you take it off the app, you could forget this ever happened. You could make it even more funny by sending messages like: [6]
    • “We could make up a story to tell people if they ask how we met! Maybe we sat next to each other at a monster truck rally, or I spotted you across the aisle at our local butcher shop.”
    • Dating coach Connell Barrett suggests something like, "This app sucks…. What’s your number?"
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“I don’t check this app very often. What’s your number?”

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  1. If you have trouble checking your Tinder messages consistently, you might want to ask for her digits so you two can keep chatting. Try using this one after you’ve had a fun conversation so she’s more motivated to keep talking to you. [7]
    • You might also say something like, “I’m so bad at checking Tinder. Can I give you my number instead?”
    • Or, “As you can probably tell, I’m not great at responding to these messages, haha. Want to shoot me your digits instead?”
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“I’d love to call you. What’s your phone number?”

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“Shoot me your number so I can text you before our date.”

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  1. That way, you can text her on the day of your date, or even beforehand if you prefer. Having a way to contact someone outside of a dating app can be a safe backup plan in case the app malfunctions, and plus, it shows that you’re serious about taking her out. [12]
    • You might also say, “Cool! Can I give you my number, just in case we need to get ahold of each other?”
    • Keep in mind some people prefer to limit conversation to the app until after they’ve met in person, so if she declines, don’t stress about it! She probably just wants to get to know you IRL first.

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      Tips

      • Try to have a fun conversation before asking for a girl’s number.
      • If she doesn’t want to give you her number right now, don’t push it—she may want to wait until after you’ve met in person. Or maybe she wants to get your number first!
      • Barrett cautions that a phone number shouldn't be the goal of your conversation. Instead, it should be the byproduct of getting closer with the person you're chatting with.
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