How to Attract a Gemini Man As a Pisces Woman

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: March 29, 2023 Fact Checked

Your charming Gemini guy seems to know everyone who walks by—but you want him to know you best of all. As a dreamy Pisces woman, don't be surprised if he's drawn to you like a moth to a flame. Astrologically, Gemini and Pisces can be a challenging match, but you have everything you need to ensure your happiness. Read on to discover everything you need to know to catch the eye of that tantalizing Twin and keep his focus on you.

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Put yourself in his line of sight.

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Gemini men seem to be magnetically attracted to Pisces women. A Gemini is a social butterfly who wants to meet and talk to everyone he sees—and you are no exception. He will find himself pulled to your imaginative, whimsical nature and feel that he needs to learn more about you.
- He'll typically try to strike up a conversation with you—he loves to talk—and ask you all kinds of questions to figure out more about who you are and what you're like. Be open and honest with him and he'll be entranced.

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Flaunt your femininity.

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Gemini men are naturally attracted to soft, feminine beauty. As an emotional Water sign, you already love soft, flowy feminine clothes, so this is a point in your favor. Just try to keep it on the conservative side—Gemini guys tend to be pretty traditional and he might not like it if you're showing a lot of skin.
- If you're going out on a date, you might wear a long, flowing skirt with light, strappy sandals and a light wrap sweater in a pastel color.
- For a more casual outing, try leggings or capri pants along with a loose, flowy blouse.

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Share your dreams and ideas.

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A Twin will be fascinated by your fantastic inner world. Ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams, Pisces women are the dreamers of the zodiac—completely foreign ground for the typically practical Gemini. But at the same time, he also loves all things new, so your imaginative dream world will always draw him in.
- As a Water sign, you tend to be focused more on intuition and emotion. But he's an Air sign, ruled by logic and reason, and he doesn't tend to think about emotion too much. For him, this lends a certain magic and mystery to your ideas.
- A Gemini takes pride in the breadth of his knowledge, so you're unlikely to mention anything that he doesn't know a little bit about. Your fanciful take on things will intrigue him all the more.

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Build a friendship first.

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Your signs make excellent friends but have a lower romantic compatibility. Gemini guys are slow to commit anyway, so take a step back. Focus on getting to know each other as friends before you become too entangled romantically. This gives you an opportunity to get to know and love each other as people—then see if sparks fly. ^{[1]
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- When you're friends, you can focus on the things you have in common and also learn where you'll need to compromise if you want a romantic relationship to work.
- The strong foundation also ensures that, even if a romance isn't in the cards, you won't hurt each other in the process.

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Listen to his stories and ideas.

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Gemini guys love to share their knowledge and ideas. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, named for the messenger god—and a Gemini guy sure loves to talk. ^{[2]
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- Use your strong Piscean intuition to pick up on the things that are important to him and ask questions about them. He'll feel like you understand him well because you know what he values.
- Snare a Gemini by asking him questions that appeal to his dual-minded nature, like "Do you prefer this or that?" Whether you ask about pizza toppings or travel destinations, a Gemini will dive into the conversation.

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Ask him to accompany you to social events.

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- Twins tend to really come into themselves when they're around people—this is his natural element. He might not ever really understand why you don't enjoy social situations, but he'll certainly be happy to accompany you.

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Watch mystery or suspense movies together.

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The Twin loves to figure something out before anyone else. Pisces ladies tend to love romance, so you'd probably enjoy a romantic comedy more—but you also love art that enables you to escape reality for a while. He'll love the thrill of solving the puzzle and adore you for introducing him to something new.
- Be forewarned that Geminis tend to be the kind of guys who do their thinking and reasoning aloud—meaning, it's usually better if you catch that flick at home than in a crowded theater where you might disturb others.

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Host a game night at home.

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Gemini guys love games that involve chance and skill. He's a social butterfly who likes to go out while you're an introvert who'd rather cuddle at home. Here's your compromise: the two of you, a few board games, some drinks and munchies, a couple of friends. You'll have a pleasurable evening that you won't soon forget.
- Choose a trivia game if you really want to lose. Geminis are sponges of random information about a lot of different subjects, so he's sure to win.
- Geminis love to have fun, so appeal to his playful nature to catch his interest.

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Do something creative or artistic together.

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Both of you love creative activities and can create something beautiful together. Gemini guys tend to have a lot of energy, so he'll probably have more fun with more active art—think glass blowing or pottery throwing. But he'll be just as at home learning a new technique he's never tried before, even if it doesn't involve breaking a sweat.
- When he expresses interest in something, jump on it. Did he enjoy that online documentary about a new painting technique? Look for local art studios that teach it.
- Many art studios offer introductory classes for couples so he can meet new people as well. Making friends with other couples gives you ready-made double-date opportunities.

10

Give him space.

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Geminis don't like to be tied down. As long as you trust him (and Pisceans tend to trust pretty easily), you shouldn't have too much difficulty letting him go out and do his own thing. As a deeply introverted Pisces, you cherish your alone time. Your extroverted Twin's need to be out and about gives you plenty of time to yourself. ^{[4]
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- He'll see that you respect his freedom if you aren't texting him constantly to check in or find out what he's doing. Even asking when he'll be back can seem too controlling to a Gemini (who likely couldn't tell you anyway).

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Throw him a surprise party.

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A Gemini man thoroughly enjoys a surprise that he didn't see coming. You get the thrill of pulling something over on him while he gets a completely unexpected social event—this is a total win-win for you as a couple. And as an introverted, emotional Pisces, you're great at keeping secrets, so you're the perfect woman to pull this off.
- Most people associate surprise parties with birthdays, but you don't have to wait for that. Pulling together a little surprise for no reason at all is even more unexpected and really shows that you care.

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