How to Attract a Leo Man as a Sagittarius Woman

Co-authored by Jessica Lanyadoo and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: April 11, 2024 References

If you've got your eye on a Leo, you might feel a little star-struck. The lion of the zodiac has the reputation for being the life of the party and he does like standing in that spotlight. But as a Sagittarius, the heat doesn't really bother you—you're the social butterfly to his party animal. As two fire signs, you have a strong compatibility that's sure to throw off a few sparks. Here, you'll find everything you need to know to lead him into your orbit like a moth to a flame.

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Flaunt your independence.

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Lions typically like ladies who stand on their own two feet. Sagittarians are known as bohemian free spirits and you've definitely got your own life—just let him know that! He'll really like it if you want to spend time with him, but he'll turn cold if it seems like you need to be with him.
- If you know he's going to be at a party, show up alone and float around from group to group. You'll definitely get his attention.
- When you're out with him, take time to mingle with others rather than staying glued to his side. This will give him the sense that you don't need him to have a good time.

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Show off your unique fashion sense.

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A Leo will be attracted to someone who stands out from the crowd. If you have a flair for the dramatic, you're more likely to catch that lion's eye. This might be a challenge for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who isn't much for making a statement through your clothing. ^{[1]
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- For example, if you prefer jeans and a blazer for a night out, you might add a bold scarf or a flamboyant hat.
- Never underestimate the power of a brightly colored blouse or dress in a sea of people wearing black and neutral colors.
- Lions tend to be attracted to all that sparkles—especially gold. A chunky gold bracelet or dramatic gold necklace is sure to capture his attention.

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Let him take the lead.

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Most lions are accustomed to being in charge. He feels most comfortable when others are following his lead. After he's noticed you, pull back—the ball's in his court now. This might be hard for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who's not content to sit back and wait for the other person to act. But if he's the typical Leo, you won't have to wait long! He'll pounce at the opportunity to show off his skills. ^{[2]
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- Sagittarius is a mutable sign, so you tend to be flexible and comfortable with change. Even if you're used to taking the reins, you can pretty easily get used to following his lead.
- For example, if you're chatting while the two of you are in line at a café, you might ask him what he would recommend for you to order. ^{[3]
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- You also might ask for his advice on your work or get his input on what you should do next or how he would handle a sticky situation. Leo is a fixed sign, so he's good at keeping momentum going and helping you get through something.

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Speak your mind and stand up for yourself.

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The typical Leo guy is attracted to strength. As a Sagittarius, you're known for being intellectual and probably have some pretty strong opinions. Don't be afraid to display that passion around a Leo—he loves to see that fire in your spirit.
- Keep in mind that Leo is ruled by the Sun. He wants to be the center of your universe, lavished with praise. If you criticize him, use tact while reassuring him that he's still an amazing person.
- If he crosses any of your personal boundaries, just let him know—he doesn't want to hurt or offend you and he'll like you all the more for asserting yourself.

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Let your positivity and optimism shine through.

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Leos prefer to be around people who are happy and upbeat. A Leo guy is usually pretty optimistic because he feels like he's in control of his future. Since Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion and growth, you're confident in your optimism and always look forward to whatever the next day brings, so this won't be a problem for you.
- Whenever he's around, smile confidently and show him that you're really enjoying yourself. He'll be attracted to that because he'll feel like the two of you are on the same wavelength.
- Your optimism and positivity also show when you talk about the future. Let him know that no matter what happens, you're always excited to start a new day.

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Shower him with compliments.

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With a Leo man, flattery really will get you everywhere. Leo men have the reputation for not just liking compliments, but practically needing them. He probably thinks he's awesome, but he also needs to hear it from you. ^{[4]
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- Try to compliment him on something that isn't obvious or that others wouldn't notice right away. That'll show him that you're really paying attention to him.
- For example, you might say, "I'm impressed by how you remember a little something about everybody you talk to—the effort you put into getting to know people is pretty amazing!"
- While a Leo guy certainly has a reputation for being vain, you'll impress him more if you praise him for things he does rather than how he looks. At his core, he's hard-working with a strong work ethic and appreciates people who notice that. ^{[6]
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Play a little hard to get.

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Lions very much enjoy the thrill of the chase. Okay, so real lions typically prey on the weakest and slowest in a herd. ^{[7]
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- You still want to give him some signals that you're interested—just don't act like you need him. Keep a little distance and he'll feel like he's met his match.
- Keep him interested with a few tidbits—a compliment here, a flirt there—and then sit back and let him come after you. He'll relish the challenge.

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Invite him to join you at a hot new restaurant.

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The typical Leo guy is all about a buzz-worthy fine dining experience. As a Sagittarius, you have a reputation for being a trendsetter, so you probably have the inside scoop on the next hotspot. Use it to your advantage to snag that luscious Leo you've got your eye on. ^{[8]
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- Even better if you can use inside connections to get a table at a place that's been booked for weeks. A Lion loves feeling like he's getting special treatment.
- He also loves to see and be seen, so a popular restaurant gives him the opportunity to do just that—while also being seen with you.

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Take him with you on an exciting adventure.

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The active, fun-loving Leo is always ready to blaze new trails. Sagittarius is one of the most adventurous signs in the zodiac and with Leo you've found a great travel companion. He's up for anything that gives him the opportunity to challenge himself, meet new people, or try new and exotic things. ^{[9]
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- Leos have a reputation for wanting the finer things in life, but you don't have to break the bank to show him some excitement. A visit to a neighboring town he's never explored is really all you need.
- Did you grow up in a different place than where you live now? Offer to give him a tour of your hometown—even if he's been there before, he'll be seeing it through different eyes with you.
- Cultural festivals and conventions also give you the opportunity to experience exotic new things without having to travel very far.

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Share your feelings with him openly.

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A Leo appreciates when you feel safe being vulnerable with him. If he likes you, he wants you to feel comfortable with him. He's a protective guy, so it's important that you feel secure. When you open up about your feelings, that tells him that he makes you happy.
- Deep down, Leos are pretty sensitive guys, so expect him to care for you and empathize with what you have to say, even if he doesn't completely understand.
- Try to get him one-on-one before you start talking about emotional topics, though. He'll be more attentive and sensitive if he's not distracted by others and can let down his guard as well.
- Don’t be afraid to tell your Leo man how much you care about him and his happiness—as a Sagittarius, making someone feel special and cared about is one of your superpowers.
- Reader Poll: We asked 337 wikiHow readers and 55% agreed that they feel special and appreciated when a Sagittarius woman shows she cares about their comfort and happiness. [Take Poll] Making a Leo feel like that is a sure way to get them to fall for you!

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Be his biggest cheerleader.

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Leo guys want their partners to support them. Real cheerleaders continue to root their team on even if they're way down and have no chance of winning—and this is what he wants from you. This might be hard for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who isn't used to standing on the sidelines. Just rest assured that when you're pursuing your goals, he'll be there with his pompoms as well. ^{[10]
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- If he tells you about a big thing he has coming up, let him know that you're rooting for him and you know he can do it. For example, you might say, "That sounds tough but I know you've got what it takes!"
- When he's celebrating an achievement, let him know how proud of him you are. You might say, "I never had any doubts! Way to go—you really are the best!"

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