How to Attract a Pisces Man As a Libra Woman: Tips for Compatibility

Co-authored by Tara Divina and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: August 16, 2024 References

If you're a Libra and you're smitten with a Pisces guy, some might say you're in luck because guys born under the fish sign often tend to fall head-over-heels pretty quickly. ^{[1]
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Research source} This imaginative, creative soul fits right into your dreams of a picture-perfect romance—no wonder Pisceans are considered the biggest romantics in the zodiac. Can you make him your dream lover? Only time will tell! Here, we've gathered some tips you can use to land that Pisces man—hook, line, and sinker.

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Pay him sincere compliments often.

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Pisceans love when you tell them good things about themselves. Sure, everybody loves a compliment, but a sensitive Pisces guy tends to appreciate them more than most. ^{[2]
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} Let him know you like his shirt, his new haircut, or his smile. ^{[3]
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- Compliment him on his achievements when you hear about them. For example, if he scored the winning goal at his soccer game, you might say, "Hey! Congratulations on that goal!"
- Don't forget to compliment the things he says and does as well! For example, if he cracks a joke while you're standing nearby, you might laugh and say, "Wow, I never realized how funny you are!"

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Make him a playlist of your favorite songs.

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Music is usually as important to a Piscean as it is to you. If you're a typical Libra, your music is a big deal. You're inspired by it and probably have specific playlists to fit every mood and activity. Share some of your go-to jams with him and you two can talk about how they make you feel. ^{[4]
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- Add a personal touch with "liner notes" where you tell him a little about each song or what it means to you.

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Approach him in a soft and gentle way.

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You might be tougher, but a Pisces guy typically prefers a more nurturing type. You'll do a lot to attract a Pisces man if you have a warm, gentle, loving approach to the world. ^{[5]
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} He's typically a highly sensitive soul, and appreciates a woman who shows respect for sensitivities and vulnerabilities. ^{[6]
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- For example, you might let him see you playing with an animal or small child, or talk about how you volunteer at the shelter or tutor elementary school kids.
- If you're a typical Libra woman, this shouldn't be too difficult for you, since you value equality and balance and tend to stick up for the underdog. ^{[7]
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Show off your creativity with a handmade gift.

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Pisces men tend to have artsy souls and admire creativity. Combine a love of the arts with an emotional and spiritual side, and you have a man who will definitely appreciate the work you put into making something just for him. Don't worry if it's not a masterpiece! If you don't have a lot of artistic skill, just keep it simple. ^{[8]
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- For example, if he writes or draws in journals, you might buy a journal for him, then decorate the cover.

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Get his attention with a grand gesture.

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Both of you tend to be types who are "in love with love." As a Libra, you're likely no stranger to cooking up the grand gesture to snag someone's eye, and a Pisces loves to feel like he's been swept off his feet. Don't be afraid to go all out and let your feelings be known. ^{[9]
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- For example, you might engineer a scavenger hunt with little notes hidden in various places that lead him to you, sitting on a park bench. If he's an athlete, you might show up to one of his games and hold up a sign for him.
- Look to rom-coms for inspiration as well! Maybe show up outside his window blasting a love song, à la Say Anything , or serenade him with a song ( The Wedding Singer , Top Gun , 10 Things I Hate About You ).
- The Pisces man also has a tendency to be shy at first, so a grand gesture can help him open up. At the same time, he's attracted to confidence, making this a win-win for you! ^{[10]
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Invite him to an art museum.

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The creative Pisces man loves being surrounded by artistic achievement. If you're a typical Libra, you love the beauty of artistic expression, so this date is a win for both of you. Walk slowly through the museum, taking time to talk about each piece together and describe how it makes you feel. ^{[11]
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- Look for moments of inspiration in pieces you see. The two of you might decide you want to take an art class together to learn a particular style or find out more about the methods used to create the works you like the most.

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Share your secret spot with him to ignite his imagination.

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A Pisces man typically enjoys any place that feels magical. Do you have a special place you go to be alone, to journal, meditate, or gather your thoughts? Maybe you know of a special corner in your favorite park where time seems to standstill. If you show your spot to a Pisces fella you've got your eye on, he'll appreciate its mystical quality. ^{[12]
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- For example, you might take him on your favorite hike which ends at a beautiful overlook. Or follow a trail to a "secret" waterfall that most people don't know about.
- The more private and secluded your spot, the better—a typical Pisces man loves places where he feels like he can commune with nature or be one with his surroundings.

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Take an art class together to create something uniquely "you."

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Use this opportunity to share inspiration and be creative together. The typical Pisces man is an artistic, creative soul with imagination to share, so painting or crafting together is a great way to capture his heart. ^{[13]
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Research source} As a Libra, you're probably drawn to art and beauty as well, so you'll thrill to see what you two can come up with.
- There are many art studios that have couple's classes where you can try painting, sculpting, or even glass blowing together, then take home your piece as a souvenir of the experience.
- If you're not particularly artistic yourself and he is, level out the playing field a bit by choosing something neither of you has done before. While he might still have an edge, you'll both get to experience something new and you won't have to worry about him outshining you too much.
- Remember, even if your creation doesn't turn out like either of you envisioned it, it's still special because it's yours—and on top of that, you have a fun story to share about it.

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Let him have his "alone time."

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Pisces men often need solitude to clear their heads. Don't take it personally if your Pisces guy needs time alone—it's not that he doesn't like being with you. He just needs time to think. ^{[14]
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- For example, you might go out shopping with some friends while he sits at home alone and reads a good book. Afterward, you can get together and show him what you bought and listen while he tells you about the ideas he got from his reading.
- Pisces men tend to prefer partners that aren’t super social. And, if a person they’re dating is more social than them, Pisces men like for that partner to be able to expend their social energy with other people in their lives so that they can recharge.
- Reader Poll: We asked 526 wikiHow readers who are Pisces, and only 3% said their biggest deal breaker is their partner being less social than them . [Take Poll]

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Respect his privacy.

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Don't expect a Pisces man to reveal everything about himself right away. Pisces tends to be pretty secretive, but this doesn't mean he's hiding something bad from you, cheating on you, or anything like that. As much as he cares for you, it takes him a lot of time to open up. ^{[16]
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- Try not to pry into things either—let him tell you what he wants to tell you. If you ask too many questions, he'll start to think you don't trust him.
- For example, if he doesn't text you all day and you ask him about it, accept his answer at face value. He's likely to get upset if you keep poking at him or try to argue that he still could've texted you. When he sees that you're willing to respect his privacy, he'll open up more.

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Take care of the practical things he finds overwhelming.

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Pisces men often avoid or put off concrete tasks. There might be some days where you think, "What would he do without me?" Things that you probably think are important, such as organization and cleanliness, your Pisces might be content to shrug off. But at the same time, he'll appreciate all the little things you do for him so he can devote more energy to big ideas. ^{[17]
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- Your Pisces guy might have a hard time making and sticking to a schedule or planning ahead for things. Just keep in mind he can be easily overwhelmed by mundane details. If you're willing to pick up the slack for him a little, you'll both come out on top.

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Go on a couple's spa date.

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As a water sign, the Pisces guy typically enjoys a relaxing spa. Even better, a lot of Pisces men tend to be pretty particular about their appearance. If this sounds like your fella, a relaxing couple's day at the spa will leave him swooning. ^{[18]
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- If you're the typical Libra lady, you love indulging yourself. ^{[19]
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  Research source} If you have a regular spa appointment, bring your Pisces guy along—he'll love feeling like you're letting him in on your life.

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Plan a whimsical, romantic getaway.

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An idealistic fantasy vacation will take his breath away. Go on and admit it, Libra—you're into the romantic ideal of the picture-perfect getaway. ^{[20]
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Research source} You know those social media "aesthetic" posts you love, close-ups of fingers entwined as a couple looks out at an awe-inspiring vista or the socked-feet propped up in front of a roaring fire? Your Pisces guy likely loves that imagery just as much as you do.
- For example, you might book a weekend at a quiet beach resort in the off-season, so it can just be the two of you. As a water sign, your Pisces guy is going to thrill to be at the shore, but being alone with you makes the whole thing even greater.
- Even better, both signs are known to be adventurers, so trying new things and making memories together will make you both happy. ^{[21]
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