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The definition of “sexy” is: “having sexually appealing or interesting qualities.” [1] X Research source And the definition of “classy” is: “having qualities that make someone or something special and attractive.” [2] X Research source Clearly, the two words have very similar definitions. So while most people view sexy and classy as two very different qualities, it is very possible to be sexy but classy at the same time.
Things You Should Know
- Define your waist and wear balanced looks to be classy but sexy, like pairing a short skirt with a top that has longer sleeves or a higher neckline.
- Choose colors that compliment you, like dark purples and greens for cool skin tones, metallics for warm skin tones, and bright colors for neutral skin tones.
- Look sexy but classy by maintaining good posture, too. Simply stand up straight and roll your shoulders back.
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Don’t bare it all. While it’s important to be confident in your body, leaving something to the imagination can go a long way. Showing only one section of your body at a time is sexy and classy. [3] X Research source
- For example, if you want to highlight your chest, cover up your legs and midriff. Or if you’re proud of your belly, and want to show it off, wear an outfit that highlights your midriff, but doesn’t also expose your hips or chest.
- This rule applies to both men and women, as too much chest or leg on either sex can kill the class.
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Create balanced looks. This means putting together outfits that focus on one sexy area. [4] X Research source
- For women, this could mean revealing your legs in a flirty mini skirt or a pair of shorts, and wearing a top that has longer sleeves or a blouse that isn’t cut too low. You can then pair this look with a fitted jacket and a loose coat.
- A little black dress, with a statement necklace or a simple pair of earrings, is a timeless, classy look.
- For men, a balanced look could mean wearing a collared shirt that is slightly unbuttoned at the top, with an undershirt and form fitting pants. Or, a pair of long shorts and a simple t-shirt.
- Men should avoid exposing their chest hair as this is neither sexy nor classy.
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Be creative with color. A great way to display confidence and sophistication is to come up with appealing color combinations in your outfits. [5] X Research source
- Pick colors based on your skin tone. Jewel tones like purple and dark green look great on cool skin tones. Metallics and neon look great on warm skin tones. And bold, bright colors look great on neutral skin tones.
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Define your waistline. Defining your waistline is a great way to show off your figure, without showing any skin.
- Women can do this with a thin belt over a dress or a top that tucks in at the waist. If you decide to wear a flowy top, pair it with a form fitting bottom like a skirt or a pair of black leggings.
- Men can do this by tucking in their shirt into their jeans or pants and wearing a subtle leather belt.
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Groom yourself. Nothing is more classy and sexy than someone who puts in the effort to maintain their appearance.
- Women should shave their legs if they’re going to be wearing skirts and shorts. As well, a manicure, whether done at home or at a nail salon, will show you care about your appearance and have good hygiene.
- Men should keep their beards trimmed and clean looking. A nice spritz of cologne will add a touch of class to even the most casual outfit.
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Maintain good posture. Being sexy but classy is about more than just the clothes you wear. It’s about how you walk and present yourself to others. So avoid slouching or sitting down in a heap. This doesn’t present a very confident, classy demeanor. Focus on maintaining good posture so you can seem attractive and sophisticated. [6] X Research source
- Do this by practicing good posture when you are seated. Keep your feet flat on the floor. Avoid crossing your legs. Keep your ankles in front of your knees. Roll your shoulders down and relax them. There should be a small gap between the back of your knees and the front of your seat.
- You should also practice good posture when you are standing. Stand straight and tall with your shoulders pulled back. Keep your legs shoulder-width apart and your knees slightly bent. Bear your weight mostly on the balls of your feet. Let your arms hang naturally at your sides and keep your head level with your shoulders.
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Mind your manners. Displaying good manners shows others you have a sense of class. There are two types of manners, greeting manners and dining manners.
- Greeting manners are a way to show others how polite and considerate you can be. Do not talk during a movie or show. Say “excuse me” if you bump into someone and “bless you” if someone sneezes. Avoid interrupting someone when they are speaking.
- During a conversation, it’s also good manners to introduce yourself to someone by name, and answer any questions with positivity and a smile. End the conversation by telling the person it was lovely to meet them, and if possible, say goodbye to them by name.
- Dining manners are also sure signs of a class act. Always say “please”, “thank you”, “bless you”, and “excuse me”. Only start eating once the host as sat down at the table and keep your mouth closed when you chew. Keep your elbows off the table and don’t blow your nose or burp during dinner. Compliment the cook if you are a guest.
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Don’t create drama. This means not airing out your issues in public or creating a conflict with others. Avoid acting on impulse. Think before you act and focus on deflecting or discouraging drama between you and others. [7] X Research source
- In the moment, try to downplay any drama and move on. This will show that you are able to handle any conflicts with grace. React later, in private, and discuss the issue directly with the person. Causing a scene will only lead to an awkward situation. Show how classy you can be by leaving the drama at home.
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Flirt with confidence. Don't be afraid project self confidence when you're flirting in person and over text. [8] X Research source But don't be too forward or in your face. Try to strike a balance between friendly and easy going.
- Look the person in the eye, give them a smile, and say "Hi" or "How's it going?" [9] X Research source
- Start the conversation with a compliment, like "Oh, I love your cologne" or "I really like your sunglasses."
- Once you find out their name in the conversation, use it often. It will make the other person feel acknowledged and singled out by you in a classy but sexy way.
- Avoid talking too much about yourself. Show genuine interest in the other person and ask them follow up questions to keep the conversation going.
- End the conversation with a bit of mystery. The saying, "leave them wanting more" rings true for flirting. Cut the chat short by saying "This has been fun, but I have to head out." Or, "Sorry to cut this short, but look at the time. I have to be going."
- Always say "goodbye" or "I hope to see you again soon" so the conversation ends on a classy note.
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QuestionHow do I change my look as a kid when I don't have money to spend on clothes?HumanBeingTop AnswererTry wearing your clothes in different ways; something as simple as always turning up your collar can be a signature look. Try wearing clothes together that aren't usually worn together - wear dress shoes instead of your tennis shoes with jeans, for example. Roll up the sleeves of your shirts, wear them unbuttoned over a tee shirt. Turn up you pant legs. Ask family members if you can check out their wardrobes, vintage clothes can look great, or you might find a cool accessory you can wear. Use gel, mousse or hair spray to make your hair look different in a non-permanent and inexpensive way.
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QuestionCan I be sexy but classy if I dress without a bra?HumanBeingTop AnswererOf course. Bring overtly provocative isn't sexy or classy, but dressing in a way that makes the most of your bust, without a bra, is sexy and classy. It's considered unattractive by many to wear a bra with a backless dress, and a strappy top and a black bra under a white top would be thought of as worse than no bra by many. It's not classy if your breasts bounce around out of control or sag down toward your waist. If you can go braless and avoid this, or avoid any one else being aware of these things, then go right ahead being sexy but classy with no bra.
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References
- ↑ http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sexy
- ↑ http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/classy
- ↑ http://youqueen.com/fashion/how-to-be-sexy-yet-classy/
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It’s possible to be both sexy and classy through how you act and the clothes you wear. Try not to bear it all with the outfits that you choose. Showing some skin is okay, as this can make you look sexy, but keep it to just one section of your body to ensure that the outfit stays classy. For example, if you want attention drawn to your chest, choose to cover up your midriff and legs. Keep yourself well-groomed to show that you care about and put effort into your appearance. Women should try to keep their legs shaved and their nails manicured, while men should keep their facial hair trimmed and wear a sophisticated cologne. Being sexy but classy also involves having excellent manners. Always make sure you introduce yourself to people you meet for the first time and try not to interrupt others as they speak. For more ways to be sexy but classy, like how to flirt with confidence, read on.
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