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A healthy and positive mindset is essential for your quality of life. Even if you’re facing major constraints—like your job or your finances—you can change negative thought patterns right away. In this article, we’ll share the benefits of positive thinking and ways to cultivate positivity. If you’d like to boost your mood and improve your outlook, read on. You’ll transform yourself and your mindset with some simple habits.
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Section 2 of 3:
Improving Your Outlook
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Get a positive mood ASAP with a fun morning ritual. Open up the curtains to let in some sunlight, turn on upbeat music, and do some morning stretches . Eat a tasty, nourishing breakfast and start a task that makes you smile , like listening to guided meditation or writing down a positive affirmation . [6] X Trustworthy Source National Alliance on Mental Illness Grassroots mental health-focused organization providing resources, support, and education for those affected by mental illness Go to source
- Fun routines brighten your day and help you look forward to waking up.
- Light exercise stimulates your brain so you feel ready to take on your day.
- Meditating and writing affirmations will promote creative thinking.
- Reader Poll: We asked 765 wikiHow readers about which positive affirmation works best for them, and only 8% said, “My body is strong in every way.” [Take Poll] While this mantra can still make you feel good, try reciting other phrases like “I believe in myself” or “I am enough.”
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Search for highlights in your day to cultivate a positive mindset. While you take care of errands or go about your routines, pay attention to any positive details that stand out. For example, look for the beauty in your surroundings or the kindness of strangers. You'll see that there are always special moments to embrace: [7] X Trustworthy Source Greater Good Magazine Journal published by UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center, which uses scientific research to promote happier living Go to source
- "This rose garden is so stunning."
- "The weather is perfect for a long walk."
- "It's sweet that she gave water to the dog that's tied to the pole."
- "Jamie sent such a funny meme! She always makes me laugh."
- "My professor has the most interesting lectures."
EXPERT TIPLicensed Marriage & Family TherapistAnna Svetchinkov, LMFT is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Mental Health Advocate, and Author based in Florida. With over 15 years of experience, she helps individuals, couples, and families nationwide and worldwide overcome challenges and achieve their goals through speaking engagements and presentations. Anna is a dynamic presenter who's appeared on major media networks, including PBS, FOX, ABC, and NBC, sharing her expertise in family therapy and mental wellness. She's a published author with over 30 books for children, adolescents, teens, and adults, covering topics related to mental health and wellness. Passionate about destigmatizing mental health, she founded the non-profit "I Care We All Care." Anna has received several awards for her contributions to the mental health field and was selected as one of Florida's ‘40 under 40.’ She received a BS in Psychology and a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from UMass Boston and is pursuing her Ph.D in Clinical Sexology from MSTI.Tuning into small daily pleasures lifts your spirit. Shift to positive thinking with little daily joy boosts. Simple stuff like warm sun, birds chirping, the aroma of coffee — they all lift your spirit. Making them part of each day can really improve your overall happiness. Try noticing these little pick-me-ups wherever you go, whether it's your neighbor's flowers, kids laughing on the playground, or even smiling back at a friendly cashier. Tuning into small pleasures helps you feel content and upbeat more often.
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Surround yourself with positive people to build your optimism. Find friends who focus on what they’re happy about. As these inspiring individuals celebrate what they’re grateful for, you’ll find it a lot easier to count all your blessings and acknowledge what life has to offer. [8] X Research source
- Build a network of people who approach life with lots of positivity. Spend less time with those who bring you down.
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Practice gratitude for family and friends so you're always thankful. When you give others your full attention and plenty of compliments, you help them feel more positive. These words of affirmation will allow you to see the good in everyone, including yourself. Praise people to model kindness and improve your own positive self-talk. [9] X Trustworthy Source Harvard Medical School Harvard Medical School's Educational Site for the Public Go to source
- Help someone feel good about themselves by recognizing them and pointing out their talents. For example, say, "You're an incredible singer!"
- Being nice to others is associated with positive outcomes for your family, health and career, which will help build your positive-thinking mindset. [10] X Research source
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Help others and you'll be happy about making a difference. Write down the ways that you have helped someone else and contributed to their wellbeing. This activity proves you’ve make a strong impact on your community, so you'll be positive about what you're capable of. [11] X Research source
- Support everyone you can , including friends, family members, and strangers. Providing assistance to others will help you feel like you have the power to improve people's circumstances.
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Join a social group to feel valued and included. Belonging to a social group helps a build a positive outlook because you'll see how much you matter to others. Bond with others and chat about common interests—the sense of community will reassure you that you always have people to turn to. [12] X Trustworthy Source PubMed Central Journal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of Health Go to source
- For example, gathering with people who share your same religious affiliation can cultivate a positive mindset. You may get a sense of comfort that they share your same spiritual beliefs and values.
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Celebrate life by finding the humor in it. Look for all the ways that you can have fun and laugh. Tell silly jokes , watch funny movies or shows, and attend comedy shows. Swap memes with your friends and share witty observations. Play around with others by relaxing and talking about what's ridiculous, interesting, or unusual. [13] X Trustworthy Source HelpGuide Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source
- Prioritize activities that put you in a playful mood, such as games. The more you take time for these hobbies, the more you'll cultivate a fun-loving attitude and easily crack jokes.
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Take time to relax and uplift your mood. To combat stress , fatigue, or frustrations, set aside moments to unwind. Try out activities that calm you, like reading a book, watching a show, or chatting with a friend. Use mindfulness routines , like yoga or deep breathing , to take care of your body and regulate your mood.
- When you calm yourself down, you eliminate your "fight or flight" response so your stress hormones aren't activated. It'll be easier to stay in a positive state of mind because you feel less anxious or worried. [14] X Trustworthy Source Harvard Medical School Harvard Medical School's Educational Site for the Public Go to source
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Boost your self-esteem by working on activities you’re good at. Whenever you feel a little unsure of yourself, throw yourself into a hobby or activity you excel at. As you notice how skilled you are, your mindset will shift and you’ll feel positively about yourself.
- For example, if you like knitting, take a break and work on a knitting project. You will get positive energy from this activity because you can see your progress. This positive energy will then influence how you feel about your other projects.
EXPERT TIPMarriage & Family TherapistMoshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).Engaging in activities you truly enjoy can help build purpose in your life. Seek out new experiences that broaden your horizons and keep life interesting. By finding activities that spark joy, you'll cultivate a more positive mindset and a sense of fulfillment.
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Section 3 of 3:
Challenging Negative Thoughts
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Keep a thought journal to track negative beliefs you need to change. If you have trouble identifying your negative thoughts, start a thought journal . Write down the way that you perceive yourself and record all of your opinions. Reflect on your notes to learn about where you may need to bring more positivity to your life. [15] X Research source
- A thought journal helps you pay attention to the critical voice in your head and reflect on what it’s telling you.
- For example, if you write, “I feel powerless at work," then you’ll realize you need a healthier outlook about your career.
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Use positive self-talk to quiet your inner critic. When you hear a negative voice in your head or write a critical remark in your thought journal, take a pause and substitute it for an upbeat and optimistic comment. Check out these swaps for inspiration: [16] X Research source
- Negative: “I never have any energy.”
Positive : “I'll improve my nutrition so I’m vibrant and active.” - Negative: “I overreact to everything.”
Positive : “I have a ton of empathy, kindness, and compassion.” - Negative: “My friends never talk to me.”
Positive : “I’ll reach out to people I trust so I can have a fulfilling social life.” - Negative: “My boss is too strict and stresses me out.”
Positive : “This is a tough job and he’s doing the best he can.”
- Negative: “I never have any energy.”
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Point out the positive outcomes from life’s challenges. Keep moving forward and avoid focusing on how difficult life can be. If you encounter an obstacle, think of it as an opportunity for adventure or creativity. Visualize your future and how you'll improve every time you overcome a stressful situation: [17] X Trustworthy Source American Psychological Association Leading scientific and professional organization of licensed psychologists Go to source
- "It's hard to be laid off, but now I can spend valuable time with my children."
- "Even though I don't have a car, I can work on my poetry while I ride the bus."
- "While money is tight, I can work on DIY projects and handmade gifts."
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Keep a gratitude journal to avoid focusing on problems. Express what you're appreciative about in a journal, letter, or word doc. When you work on your gratitude journal, be as descriptive as you can and explain exactly why you're grateful for specific people or moments. Take part in this activity 1-2 times a day.
- Research shows that a gratitude journal is more effective when the person writes about a handful of instances in depth, rather than as a quick laundry list. As you journal, spend a few minutes reliving and savoring these moments. [18] X Trustworthy Source Greater Good Magazine Journal published by UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center, which uses scientific research to promote happier living Go to source
- The gratitude journal will preserve memories that can make you smile later.
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Choose to react positively to feel empowered by your actions. Maintain an upbeat attitude, even in a frustrating situation. Focus on how much you’ll benefit from calmness and friendliness. For example, you may impress people with your patience and charisma. Whenever you’re stressed, react with grace and good energy. [19] X Trustworthy Source American Psychological Association Leading scientific and professional organization of licensed psychologists Go to source
- Transform your insecurities into opportunities to take care of yourself . For example, if you’re unhappy with your level of fatigue, redirect your focus to how exciting it’ll be to prioritize your health.
- Work on what you can control. For instance, turn on fun music in heavy traffic or start conversations with customers during a slow day.
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Practice positive imagery to combat self-doubt or insecurities. Picture yourself as confident and capable. As you imagine this version of yourself, think about a motivating and positive affirmation like, “I can finish this project. I will ask for a little help and it will get done.” [20] X Trustworthy Source Cleveland Clinic Educational website from one of the world's leading hospitals Go to source
- When you strive to be confident, you’re more likely to tackle tasks with a great attitude and a lot of focus. Then, you’ll eventually accomplish your goals.
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Maintain a healthy lifestyle to boost your energy and resilience. Eat nutrient-rich foods to give yourself the right fuel. Since negative moods have been linked to dehydration, drink lots of water throughout the day. [21] X Research source Exercise for 20-30 minutes at least 3 times a week and get 7-8 hours of sleep every night so your body can function at its best. [22] X Research source
- Eat foods rich in vitamins that are known for their mood-boosting qualities. These include selenium, which is found in grains, beans, seafood and lean meats; omega-3 fatty acids, such as those in as walnuts; and folate, which is in leafy greens.
- As you exercise, your body releases endorphins, which are chemicals that boost happiness and positive feelings.
- If you have trouble falling asleep at night, try dimming the lights before bed. This will help your mind settle down.
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Avoid media that triggers negative thinking. Media that tempts you to compare yourself to others, like magazines or Instagram, can reduce your self-esteem. If any forms of media make you doubt yourself or feel badly about your appearance, ignore them and redirect your focus. For example, journal or go out for a run. [23] X Trustworthy Source American Psychological Association Leading scientific and professional organization of licensed psychologists Go to source
- Even temporary exposure to images of "ideal" people has been shown to negatively impact self-esteem.
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QuestionHow do I develop a positive mindset?Tracey L. Rogers is a Certified Life Coach and Professional Astrologer based in Philadelphia. Tracey has over 10 years of life coaching and astrology experience. Her work has been featured on nationally syndicated radio, as well as online platforms such as Oprah.com. She is certified as a Coach by the Life Purpose Institute, and she has an MA in International Education from George Washington University.Making a change shouldn't require a lot of effort. If you're meant to change something like your mindset, believe that it will happen effortlessly. You still have to do your part, but if you are putting forth a lot of effort, you should switch out the way you're changing yourself or think about improving your mindset so that you don't get frustrated or discouraged.
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QuestionHow do I stop the pain I feel that no one else can see?Our goal at wikiHow is to deliver trustworthy articles that engage our readers and meet their informational and emotional needs. For 15 years, we've committed to our step-by-step teaching model, and we continue to refine our content to create the best how-to experience on the Internet. We’ve helped millions of people solve problems, learn new skills, and feel supported in the ordinary and complex moments of life.First, try to work on a thought journal. Write in it so you have an outlet for all your thoughts and emotions. You may feel relief after you discuss all your feelings. Also try to express your pain in creative ways, like poetry. In order to lift your mood and experience a greater sense of belonging, join social groups and reach out to your friends. If you still find yourself struggling even after journaling and bonding with your network, reach out to a therapist. A mental health professional will help you reflect on your pain and create solutions to overcome or minimize it.
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QuestionWhat can I do to let go of someone I once shared an amazing connection with? I still adore them, and I'm agonized by how much I miss them. I feel incapable of moving on because all I think about is how sweet my past was with this person. Career-wise, I'm thriving. However, my heart feels like it's empty.Our goal at wikiHow is to deliver trustworthy articles that engage our readers and meet their informational and emotional needs. For 15 years, we've committed to our step-by-step teaching model, and we continue to refine our content to create the best how-to experience on the Internet. We’ve helped millions of people solve problems, learn new skills, and feel supported in the ordinary and complex moments of life.It's okay to be nostalgic for the past and miss someone you once had a strong connection with. Instead of feeling guilty or ashamed, use these emotions as a guide for what you want in future relationships. For example, if you crave the person's sense of humor or kindness, tell yourself that you'll search for someone who makes you laugh and supports you. Use positive affirmations to celebrate how lovable you are and to announce that you'll meet your best match.
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If you want to build a positive thinking mindset, start by keeping a thought journal to help you identify your negative thoughts and what might be causing them. Pay attention to your negative reactions and feelings about yourself and actively work on replacing them with positive thoughts and associations. It also helps to surround yourself with positive people every day. Regular exercise is also known to boost positive feelings and thoughts, so try to get in at least 20-30 minutes of exercise 3 times a week. For tips on using positive imagery, read on!
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