How to Celebrate Your Wife's Birthday

PDF download Download Article
A comprehensive guide on choosing an appropriate event and gift
PDF download Download Article

Finding a way to celebrate your wife’s birthday might be a daunting task. There are so many options out there, and you might not know where to start! However, there are a few fool-proof ways to give your wife the great birthday that she deserves.

Method 1
Method 1 of 4:

Throwing a Party

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/0b\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-1-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-1-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/0\/0b\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-1-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-1-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Send out invitations a month in advance of the party, and remind attendees not to say anything to the birthday queen. Then, lead your wife there on the day of the part under the guise of going somewhere else, and have her family and friends jump out and surprise her when you arrive! [1]
    • Be sure to stress the importance of keeping it a secret on the invitation. If you know someone is a bad secret keeper, talk to them in person or on the phone about ways they can avoid your spouse before the party.
    • Some people don’t like surprises. If you’re thinking of planning a surprise party, ask your wife how she feels about them well in advance. If she says no, respect her wishes.
    • The first thing to do when starting to plan a birthday party is to get a good sense of what your budget is for the event. Otherwise, you run the risk of getting your spending out of control.
    • If money's tight right now, host the party at a time where you don't need to serve a full meal. This way, you can have light bites that are nice for guests, but you don't need to serve a heavy lunch that will fill everybody up.
  2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/60\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-2-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-2-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/6\/60\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-2-Version-3.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-2-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    If your wife isn’t enthusiastic about her birthday, a small birthday dinner might be the best way to celebrate. Invite her family and 3-4 of her closest friends to go to a nice restaurant. [2]
    • If you’re on a tighter budget, have dinner at your house for everyone. Make your wife’s favorite party foods so she can celebrate with her friends while saving money.
    • If you want to mix it up, you can even invite them to brunch on her birthday. That gives you the rest of the day to celebrate and do more birthday activities.
    Advertisement
  3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/3a\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-3-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-3-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/3a\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-3-Version-3.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-3-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    This is a great gift idea if your wife asks to just spend time with you for her birthday. Plan a night of drinks, dinner, and dancing, or a fancy dinner and a show. Your wife will remember this birthday for years to come! [3]
    • If you still want to invite her friends to celebrate, ask them to meet you at the bar after dinner for a couple of drinks and some dancing.
    4. Advertisement
Method 2
Method 2 of 4:

Treating Her to an Experience

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/7\/71\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-4-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-4-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/7\/71\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-4-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-4-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Visit local spas and ask if they offer special packages for a massage, facial, manicure, or pedicure, and book the services for a day that your wife is free. Present the gift to her by giving her a brochure for the spa with a heartfelt note. [4]
    • If you’re not sure what kind of services she’d like, purchase a gift certificate and let her schedule the spa day for herself. That way, she can pick exactly what she wants to pamper herself with.
  2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/2\/20\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-5-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-5-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/2\/20\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-5-Version-3.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-5-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Many women dream of taking some time off for their birthday, and if you can make it happen, you definitely should. Milestone birthdays like 30, 40, 50, and 60 are all great opportunities to take a trip together to somewhere you’ve never been. [5]
    • You can either tell her in advance or surprise her, but just remember that planning a surprise trip is much more difficult. Be sure to call her work and let them know that you’re planning a surprise trip for the week of her birthday so she doesn’t get in trouble for calling off.
  3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/4\/4a\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-6-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-6-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/4\/4a\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-6-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-6-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    If your wife is a music lover or you bonded over a specific artist or band, buy her tickets to go see them. The concert doesn’t have to be on the day of her birthday, but it’s definitely helpful if it is. [6]
    • If your wife loves classical music, take her to see the local symphony. Most large cities have a symphony that plays different shows throughout the week, so it won’t be hard to get tickets on her birthday.
    4. Advertisement
Method 3
Method 3 of 4:

Buying a Gift

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/d\/de\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-7-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-7-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/d\/de\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-7-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-7-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and rings are all great gifts for your wife’s birthday. They don’t have to be expensive, but the jewelry that you buy should match her personal style. [7]
    • If you need some inspiration, look at the kind of jewelry that she wears each day. That will help you narrow down your search to a specific type of jewelry that she’ll actually use.
    • A great piece of jewelry for a birthday gift is anything with her birthstone in it. Looking for a specific stone will help narrow your search and the gift will be personalized to her.
  2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/04\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-8-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-8-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/0\/04\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-8-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-8-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Flowers are a great way to show your wife that you care and that she’s special! If you know her favorite flower, have the flower company deliver a bouquet of them to her work, school, or house. You can pick a large bouquet as her main gift or a smaller one as a little gift to start her day with a smile.
    • If you don’t know her favorite flower, choose a bouquet of seasonal flowers like daisies in the summer or tulips in the spring.
  3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/00\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-9-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-9-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/0\/00\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-9-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-9-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    If your wife has a specific interest, like makeup, gardening, video games, or reading, buy her something for her hobby that she doesn’t already have. Keep an eye out for unique and special items throughout the year that she could use. [8]
    • Take a look at her collection already to see what she already has and make sure you don’t buy her a duplicate.
    • If you’re not sure what she already has, you can get a gift card to a store that specializes in her hobby so she can pick her gift.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 327 wikiHow readers about the best gifts to give to a woman, and 53% recommended gifts related to her hobbies and interests . [Take Poll]
    • A gift related to her passions will show your wife that you listen to and understand what's important to her.
    EXPERT TIP

    Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC

    Marriage & Family Therapist
    Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).
    Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
    Marriage & Family Therapist

    Make your wife's birthday special with a gift that reflects her passions. For example, travel lovers would adore a trip to a dream destination, while music fans would love tickets to a in-demand concert. Plus, try adding a personal touch to gifts, like pairing flowers with a heartfelt poem.

    4. Advertisement


Method 4
Method 4 of 4:

Making a Gift

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/d\/df\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-10-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-10-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/d\/df\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-10-Version-2.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-10-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Wake up early and sneak out of bed to prepare her favorite breakfast items. Then, arrange them neatly on a tray with a cup of coffee or glass of orange juice. You can even place a birthday card or flower on the tray for an added surprise. [9]
    • This a particularly great gift if your wife has to work on the day of her birthday. She’ll be happy all day thinking about her awesome birthday breakfast.
  2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/a\/a3\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-11-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-11-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/a\/a3\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-11-Version-3.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-11-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    For this gift, consult her friends and family to get pictures from her past. Focus on the different stages of her life, like childhood, young adulthood, and eventually all of the adventures that you two have had together. Compile them into a photo book and present it to her on her birthday. [10]
    • You can even include notes from her friends and family about their memories of different events. For example, ask her parents to tell the story of the day she was born, or get her best friend to write about how they met.
  3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/b\/b8\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-12-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-12-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/b\/b8\/Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-12-Version-3.jpg\/aid9874681-v4-728px-Celebrate-Your-Wife%27s-Birthday-Step-12-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    This is a unique and fun way to give your wife passes to do what she wants throughout the year, not just on her birthday! Make them yourself, and think about things you know she would enjoy, like a week of not doing the dishes, or a complaint-free chick flick movie marathon. [11]
    • You can buy coupon books like these at some stores, but it’s definitely more heartfelt when you make them yourself. All you have to do is fold some pieces of paper in half, staple them together, and write your “coupons” on the pages.
    4. Advertisement

Birthday Card and Gift Help

Expert Q&A

Search
Add New Question
  • Question
    Are there any other ways to celebrate my wife's birthday?
    Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
    Marriage & Family Therapist
    Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).
    Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
    Marriage & Family Therapist
    Expert Answer
    Make your wife's birthday truly special by considering her passions and preferences. Tailor the celebration to something she loves and enjoys. Whether it's organizing a surprise trip to a destination she's never visited, attending a sporting event of her favorite team, presenting her with a stunning bouquet of her favorite flowers, composing a heartfelt poem, or coming up with a unique and creative gesture, the key is to show her how much she means to you through thoughtful and personalized gestures. By putting effort and thought into the celebration, you'll make her feel cherished, appreciated, and loved on her special day.
    Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
    Thank you for your feedback.
    If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
    Yes No
    Not Helpful 0 Helpful 0
Ask a Question
200 characters left
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Submit
      Advertisement

      Tips

      • Start planning for your wife’s birthday early by paying attention to her interests and any wishes that she might mention in passing. Keep a list of potential ideas in your phone!
        Thanks
      • If you’re stumped about what to get her, ask her friends and family about recommendations.
        Thanks
      • Remember you don’t have to spend a ton of money to make her happy!
        Thanks
      Submit a Tip
      All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
      Submit
      Thanks for submitting a tip for review!
      Advertisement

      You Might Also Like

      Heartfelt Birthday Wishes for Friends, Family Members, and Loved Ones
      40+ Professional Happy Birthday Messages to Send to Your Boss, Manager, & More
      90 Cute Quotes, Jokes, & Birthday Wishes for a Baby Boy
      How to
      Find out What Time You Were Born
      How to
      Respond when Someone Wishes You Happy Birthday
      How Do You Say Happy Birthday in French? Pronunciation, Vocab & More
      121 Funny, Loving, & Heartfelt Birthday Wishes for Your Mom
      110+ Quotes, Prayers, & Birthday Wishes for Your Adult Son
      How to
      Find Out Someone's Birthday
      How to
      Say Happy Birthday in German
      75+ Happy Birthday Wishes to Send Someone
      90+ Hilarious Happy Birthday Messages for Husbands
      65+ Funny, Loving, & Unique Birthday Wishes for Your Grandson
      How to
      Say Happy Birthday in Spanish
      Advertisement

      Expert Interview

      Thanks for reading our article! If you’d like to learn more about relationships, check out our in-depth interview with Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC .

      References

      1. ↑ https://www.enkirelations.com/30th-birthday-ideas-for-wife.html
      2. ↑ https://www.liveabout.com/birthday-ideas-for-your-spouse-2492230
      3. ↑ https://www.liveabout.com/birthday-ideas-for-your-spouse-2492230
      4. ↑ https://www.enkirelations.com/30th-birthday-ideas-for-wife.html
      5. ↑ https://daysofadomesticdad.com/birthday-gift-ideas-for-your-wife/
      6. ↑ https://www.enkirelations.com/30th-birthday-ideas-for-wife.html
      7. ↑ https://www.enkirelations.com/30th-birthday-ideas-for-wife.html
      8. ↑ https://daysofadomesticdad.com/birthday-gift-ideas-for-your-wife/
      9. ↑ https://www.moneycrashers.com/romantic-gift-ideas-girlfriend-wife/
      1. ↑ https://www.enkirelations.com/30th-birthday-ideas-for-wife.html
      2. ↑ https://www.moneycrashers.com/romantic-gift-ideas-girlfriend-wife/

      About This Article

      Article Summary X

      There are various ways to celebrate your wife's birthday, so the first thing you should do is to consider what kind of celebration she might like for her birthday, like a surprise party or a low-key dinner. Kick off the day by making her breakfast in bed with all of her favorite foods. Then, if she loves being around her family and friends, throwing her a party and inviting everyone is a great option. Your wife might prefer some relaxation on her birthday, and you can give that to her by treating her to a spa day or booking a romantic vacation. For more tips on celebrating your wife’s birthday, including buying and making gifts, read on!

      Did this summary help you?
      In other languages
      Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 72,968 times.

      Did this article help you?

      Advertisement