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A guide to wooing an Aries girlfriend with date nights, sex tips, & more
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Aries is one of the most formidable signs in the zodiac. It can take a lot of skill and nerve to date them. Look ahead to find 12 ways you can successfully date or have a romantic relationship with an Aries female. You’ll also better understand the basic personality traits of an Aries woman, especially in love, and get answers to questions about Aries females. This article is meant to offer non-gender-specific dating advice for both women and men interested in dating an Aries.
What to Know About Dating an Aries Woman
Dating an Aries female means being confident, embracing adventure, showing initiative, and being honest, upfront, and ready for a passionate, energetic relationship. Focus on new and exciting activities and experiences that appeal to her spontaneity. Respect her need for both independence and her leadership qualities.
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How to Successfully Date an Aries Woman
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Be friendly, forthright, and light when showing interest in an Aries . Be lighthearted, make jokes, and above all, treat her platonically until she makes the first move—this is essential. Getting serious at the start will make you appear clingy, and there's no greater turn-off to an Aries woman than a clingy partner. According to expert astrologer Angel Eyedealism, “If the guy says I love you first, she loses interest. An Aries woman likes a challenge.” [1] X Expert Source Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.- It’s essential when dating an Aries that you let her make the first move. Aries is a male cardinal sign ruled by the planet Mars, the symbol of war, which means she can be a fearless leader who doesn't like to play by the rules. An Aries doesn’t care what people think, and she won't be a stickler for tradition.
- Aries, in general, are unskilled at keeping secrets, no matter how hard they try. It’s easy to tell if an Aries woman likes you .
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Don't be shy when asking for a date. When approaching her for a date, be confident, make eye contact, and smile. Aries women tend to be unorthodox in their interests, so don't hold back. Come right out and suggest rock climbing, roller skating, or sneaking unseen into the movies. Pay attention when she makes suggestions, which are bound to lead you to unexpected places!Advertisement
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Plan dates that have a good balance of action and romance. She loves action-based activities, like a sporting event or getting physical (sports-wise) with her partner. At the same time, Aries women also want to feel respected and treated like the gorgeous women they are. Pair a sporty activity with a romantic dinner out or a fun experience (like a cooking or cocktail class) she can share with you. [2] X Research source
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Always give her your full attention when she’s speaking. The motto for the sign of Aries is "I am,” and you'll understand why within the first few minutes of conversation. An Aries woman is a creature of her own mind and often gets caught up in the nuances of her own identity and life goals. Provide positive feedback when prompted, and add your own opinions. Aries women appreciate constructive advice on their life paths and personality, but be careful that you phrase your words to not step on her toes emotionally. Also, be prepared for her to not follow your advice at all!
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Do your best to be truthful. When talking about yourself, be as honest and forthright as possible. Don't try to play mind games or conceal parts of your character. Aries women abhor dishonesty and duplicity and will dump you if they suspect that you're being less than truthful with them. Don't be afraid to talk about yourself, though; feel free to tell her about “you.”
- Talk about your future aspirations. Aries women are very loyal friends and companions, and if they think your goals are worthwhile, they love to help out, if they can.
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Give her her independence. Nurture a strong element of friendship and spontaneity when you are together, and keep life fun and interesting by trying new things together, working on a joint project, or engaging in friendly competition. Stifle any jealous tendencies you may have, because if you try to come between her and her friends, your relationship will be over before it begins. Aries women don't have time for those who try to order them around and like to be the ones who set the pace.
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Take time to fully get to know her personality without judgement. Aries women are characteristically very strong, loyal, level-headed, and focused on their goals. Some might say she appears rude at first, but try not to judge her too quickly in the initial encounters. Try to look beyond the first impression when you are dealing with women who are of the Aries sun sign.
- Aries women are very sentimental and sensitive, even if they appear rude. Understand the complicated emotions that are tied and mixed up in their minds. They’re far from cold; it simply takes time for an Aries woman to accept changes. Aries women are warmhearted, extremely loyal, and affectionate.
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Understand that trust may be a problem. Trust has always been an issue for those born under the sign of Aries. Because they say what they mean, they expect everyone else to speak the truth as well. As a result, many Aries have been repeatedly taken advantage of and used. No matter how often their trust is misplaced and they face the hurtful consequences, Aries always gets back up, forgets the hurt, and gives their trust away again in all the wrong ways.
- The average Aries woman will trust you with her life after knowing you for five minutes, which is one of her most endearing characteristics; it stems from her total lack of fear and her faith in the goodness of others. Learn to respect her premature trust and never take advantage of her.
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Never underestimate her in any way, and certainly never to her face. She is made up of strong substance. She is stronger than you, and if you need her, just call her; she will come. She will not give up easily, and she will only relax when she has achieved what she had set her mind on. Don't doubt her or take away her liberty and freedom, and she will respect your trust and faith in her and will remain loyal and confident in you. She will do nothing that might harm the confidence you have in her.
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Never take an Aries woman for granted. She will not like it and will rebel against you; an Aries must get the respect she deserves. Make her feel special by showing her the importance she has in your life. Cook her favorite meals if you can. Sing or send her songs or write romantic love letters or poems. Above all, fight for her, especially when she is at her weakest, and you will never lose her.EXPERT TIPPsychic AstrologerReverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.
Aries are most interested in themselves. Whatever they like about themselves is what they are into. I wouldn’t advise becoming a competitor to Aries, but rather do something to complement them. Be their favorite fan or collaborator and cheer them on, and they will love and adore you.
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QuestionWhat does an Aries need in a relationship?Jessica Lanyadoo is a Humanistic Astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator with over 30 years of professional experience. Known for her grounded and accessible approach, she helps individuals cultivate emotional intelligence and navigate life with clarity. She is the author of Meditations for Your Sign (2025) and Astrology for Real Relationships (2020) and hosts the acclaimed podcast Ghost of a Podcast. Her work has been featured in CNN, The Today Show, Rolling Stone, Vogue Italia, Time Magazine, Oprah Magazine, and more.An Aries likes to be the boss. What you want to do is follow their lead while always stepping towards them. When you're dating an Aries, it's also really important that they feel very important to you. If Aries gets an idea that they are not important to you, they will be offended.
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- Aries loves “the chase” but won't chase back unless they are fully sure of the relationship in hand. Don't take that for granted, because if they feel they are not appreciated, they will walk away from the chase (and the relationship).Thanks
- An Aries woman doesn't like anything “small” but prefers things to be larger than life, grand, and noble. So, don't call her or anything she values "cute." If you compliment her looks, call her "beautiful," not "pretty," and "exceptional," not "girl-next-door."Thanks
- If an Aries woman has lost her love for you, it's because she either felt unloved, unappreciated, or betrayed, any of which will deeply hurt her.Thanks
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- Don't play the tough role with an Aries when it comes to your emotions. She needs to know that she truly means something to you. The tough role will push her away and turn her off.
- An Aries will seem strong, but underneath they are sensitive, so be careful with your words.
- Always be loyal to her. Once the trust is broken, it'll be hard to gain it back.
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References
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ https://www.zodiacsign.com/woman/aries/
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- ↑ https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/astrology/zodiacs-astrology/five-challenging-traits-of-aries-understanding-the-dark-side-of-the-bold-zodiac/articleshow/110418001.cms
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/love-sex/zodiac-signs-that-are-best-at-keeping-lifelong-friendships-ranked-from-best-to-least/photostory/81411861.cms
- ↑ https://www.lovetoknow.com/life/astrology/guide-understanding-aries-woman
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