Do Scorpios Fall in Love Easily?

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Scorpios are known as being one of the most challenging signs to have a relationship with. They're passionate and sensual, but they can be intense while keeping their emotions hidden. [1] This just means you've got to pay attention! We'll go over Scorpio's relationship traits, so you can learn what to expect when you're dating one.

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

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Scorpios don't fall in love easily.

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    [2] They'll probably ask you lots of questions and want to spend time with you so they feel like they truly know you. According to astrologer Angel Eyedealism, "it's a very tense sign." You can show them that you are trustworthy by "looking them straight in the eye, [and by being] accountable, upfront, and solid so that there's no room for reproach. If you're just very trustworthy and solid, they will finally relax."
    • You might be thinking that this could take some time—it does! Try not to rush a Scorpio since they'll be resistant. Instead, work on being patient and getting to know each other.
    • Show them that you're interested in them, too. [3] Ask questions and get to know as much about them as you can.
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Scorpios don’t always show their emotions.

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    [4] This might have been one of the traits that drew you to a Scorpio! However, don't be fooled—Scorpios can be very passionate and intense. They just don't express it all the time. [5]
    • Scorpios can also appear secretive. This is usually because they don't want to get hurt and hiding their emotions is a way to protect themselves.
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Scorpios need excitement in a relationship.

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    To keep them interested, try to spice things up! Do activities that will bring you closer. For instance, take a trip together, sign up for a language class, or do something adventurous like rock climbing.
    • Surprise your Scorpio! Pick them up from work early with tickets to a concert or spend a day together doing whatever you can think of—no plans necessary.
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Scorpios are intensely interested in you when they’re in love.

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    To a Scorpio in love, you're the only thing that matters, so you'll notice that they tend to ignore everyone else. According to astrologer Angel Eyedealism, Scorpios "are aggressive people that will go get what they want. They want to have their desires fulfilled, and will obsessively pursue their desire." All of this means that they're looking to make a deeper connection with you. [6]
    • The flipside of this is that a Scorpio will also expect you to give them a lot of attention. Don't forget to make eye contact and really show them that you're interested in what they're saying.
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Scorpios show love by being adventurous and open.

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    Scorpios are looking for a relationship on a deep level, so they want to create memories with you. It's a bonus if they're also thrilling memories! More than anything, Scorpios want to strengthen a connection with you. [7]
    • Has a Scorpio asked you to see a horror film together? This is a good sign that they're into you! They probably love the mystery and suspense. Plus, it's a good way to keep you close during the scary bits.
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Scorpios are very physical when they’re in love.

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    These physical connections just show that your Scorpio also feels an emotional connection. Remember, these aren't huge public displays of affection—they're small, consistent touches that show the Scorpio's thinking of you. [8]
    • Your Scorpio might not want to kiss in public, but behind closed doors, they can be incredibly passionate.
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Scorpios in love can be really protective.

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    You may notice that Scorpios have a small circle of friends, but they're fiercely protective of them. The same is definitely true of their romantic relationships. A Scorpio might insist on going with you places or calling to check on you. These are all signs that they're looking out for you. [9]
    • If you're feeling like they're being controlling, it's totally fine to set healthy boundaries.
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Scorpios can be indifferent or rude if they're not interested.

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    When this happens, it might be because of something you said or did that bothered them. Scorpios tend to pull away if they feel like they can't trust you or don't understand your behavior. [10]
    • They may seem distracted or late to respond if something is on their mind. If you're really not sure how your Scorpio feels, ask them!
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Scorpios fall in love more easily with Cancer, Pisces, and Virgo signs.

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    Pisces also search for a deep connection with a partner. Then, there are also Virgos who are known for being dedicated in relationships. All three of these signs are the most compatible with Scorpio, although relationships with other signs can also work. [11]
    • Gemini can also be compatible with Scorpio just because the two signs are so different! Geminis and Scorpios each may be drawn to one another because they want to learn more about what makes them both so unique.
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Scorpios aren’t as compatible with Leo and Aquarius signs.

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    Since Scorpios tend to keep to themselves, they can be uncomfortable with extroverted personalities. Scorpios also don't mesh well with the Aquarius sign because Aquarius is primarily intellectual and Scorpio is all about emotions. Scorpio might think that Aquarius is emotionally distant. [12]
    • This isn't to say that you can't have a relationship with Scorpio if you're Leo or Aquarius—it just means you'll have to take these concerns into account. Have an open, honest discussion about your personality traits so Scorpio feels connected with you.
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Scorpios are faithful companions.

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    After all, they've spent time getting to know you and they trust you completely. If you choose to have a relationship with a Scorpio, you'll find they're loyal partners. [13]
    • Remember, communication is critical in a relationship with Scorpios. Take time to talk and get on the same page so disagreements don't get in the way.
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    Do Scorpios play mind games?
    Angel Eyedealism
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    Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
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    Not at all. They want to lay bare all that they want to get. This is not a superficial sign. If the guy doesn't feel engaged and intimate with you, they're not going to have interest in you.
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    How do Scorpios act around their crush?
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    A Scorpio in love usually shows their vulnerability as a sign of trust. Without vulnerability, there is no intimacy, and that's the hallmark of the Scorpio sign. They like to lay bare of all things so that they can get closer to you.
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