How can I rizz up my crush?

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Hunter Rising
Hunter Rising
wikiHow Staff
07/15/25 6:54pm
When you want to flirt with your crush and get them to notice you, try these strategies to rizz them up over text and in person:
  • Ask them questions about their life, hobbies, and interests and give your full attention while they answer.
  • Remember and bring up the small details they mention to you to show how much you care.
  • Try out a rizz pick up line , like "Are you French, because Eiffel for you" or "Are you tired of running through my mind all day?"
  • Add some flirty emojis to your messages (like 🥰, 😍, or 😘).
  • Playfully tease them with some flirty jokes .
  • Give them a small gift, like their favorite candy or a thoughtful handmade craft.
  • Open up about yourself so your crush learns more about you, too.
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Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT
Licensed Relationship Therapist
07/15/25 7:00pm
Expanding on this, I think increasing the level of flirtation very strategically can help rizz up your crush. So, maybe it starts with just eye contact, and then you have some sort of communication and interaction. Then, try complimenting them in person or over text. Rather than complimenting them on their physical appearance, say something nice about their personality or accomplishments.

Keep trying to take initiative in your conversations and increase your level of interest until you feel confident asking them out directly.
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