Should I end things?

06/25/25 6:28pm

This guy and I have been on and off for two years, and I want just to say no and end it, but it's so hard, and I love him. Should I end it? Is he gonna hate me if I do?

Upvote · 1

View hidden comment

wikiHow forums are moderated for quality. Learn more about our moderation policy here .

Submit Answer

Sort By:

Sven Loss
Relationship Coach

07/30/25 6:40pm

I would encourage you to understand why you are in a situation where your partner doesn't really choose you, why they don't commit to you. Why is that person okay to be in a dynamic where they're not being committed to?

That question is way more important to explore than whether to end the relationship or not, because once you decide that you only want someone who is committed to you, you can free yourself from this situation.

So ask yourself, "Why am I in this dynamic? What does it have to do with me? What can I do about it?" Then, if you decide you want to change the dynamic, tell the guy, "I want someone who commits to me, are you that or not?" If they say they aren't, then they've ended things for you.

Upvote · 1

View hidden comment

Selenarrr11

07/04/25 2:24pm

There's this YouTube channel that I think will help you. It's called thewizardliz. Before you watch her though, read this: You don't need to put anyone's emotions before yours if you have a gut feeling or if you even thought for a second that you should break up. You probably wont be happy with him. If it's too painful and you feel like you'll fold, you can always pack your things(if you live together) and leave. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Or you can just text "We're over and I don't have to tell you why." once he sees the message, you can block him and not talk to him. if this isn't helping, read this: https://www.wikihow.com/End-a-Situationship

Upvote

View hidden comment