How to Get Motivated

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Getting started on a project, dream, or task can seem scary and daunting at first if you don’t feel like you have a reason for doing it. Don’t worry—there are plenty of people who share in the very same worries and struggles. By taking steps to get motivated, you’ll be able to reach your goals, tackle new projects, and understand what gives you purpose and happiness!

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Amping Yourself Up

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  1. Give yourself a small reward to look forward to as you start a new task, whether it’s a household chore or a project at work. Make this reward something really enticing, so you’re inspired to push through whatever you’re currently working on. If you’re working on a long-term project, use incentives as milestones to help encourage you as you go along. [1]
    • For instance, if you’re cleaning your room, you can enjoy a small handful of your favorite candy.
    • If you’re working on a long-term project for work, you can create a reward jar for yourself. After every hour of work, put a dollar into the jar.
  2. You can always turn to others to help you with motivation. Tell your loved ones about what you hope to accomplish and what you are struggling with. [2] Talking it out with them can help you stay motivated and keep negative feelings that sap motivation at bay.
    • For instance, if you’re studying for a big test, ask your friends and family for encouragement.
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  3. You may just need a spark of friendly competition to feel motivated. Create a friendly competition with your friends or coworkers to inspire yourself to be your very best. As you compete, you can see how well you shape up with your competitors!
    • For instance, you can create a contest with your work peers to see who can accomplish a task first.
  4. Music can really help push you from point A to point B, especially if you’re working on a long-term task, like studying for a test. Put together some of your favorite songs in a playlist so you feel more motivated and encouraged as you work. You can also listen to a premade playlist if you don’t feel like assembling a playlist yourself!
  5. If you can’t summon any motivation, try pushing yourself anyway. Think about the aspects of the task that you really enjoy, and use these elements to push you through to the end. If you can find a little bit of enjoyment in what you’re doing, you may have an easier time accomplishing your goals. [3]
    • For example, if you are having trouble getting motivated to write a book, open the keyboard and just start typing. Tell yourself that you will type for 5 minutes, and that if you still aren't motivated, you will stop. You may find that by tricking yourself into starting, you will gain motivation and continue to write for much longer than 5 minutes. [4]
  6. Part of the battle with motivation is finding a lot of interesting things in your environment. You can help become motivated to do something by removing the possibility to engage in other actions. [5]
    • For example, if you are trying to get motivated to do your homework but you keep getting distracted by texts, then turn your phone off. Once your phone is off, place it somewhere that you cannot see it, such as deep in your bag. Make it difficult to get to; move your bag so that it is out of your reach.
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Setting and Achieving Goals

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  1. Motivation requires a target. You may not find a lot of success reaching your goals if they’re vague. You can be more motivated if you define your goals and break them down into smaller, bite-sized tasks that you can work towards on a daily basis. Focus on small goals that match your interests and desires and are easy to achieve on a regular basis. [6]
    • For example, if you are struggling with motivation to get into law school, remember that this goal is the overall goal. However, to keep motivated, you can break down this large goal down into smaller tasks, like taking a practice LSAT, creating a list of schools you’d like to apply to, and writing a personal essay.
    • You can break down some of your tasks even further, if you’d like! For instance, you can divide “taking the LSAT” into researching LSAT prep-books, looking up the costs of taking the LSAT, and finding locations to take the LSAT.
    • It may help if you hang a paper consisting of all the goals of your life. Before going to bed and right after you wake up, read that paper and be motivated by your goals.
  2. Figure out which goals are most important to you. Narrow down which goals you’d like to accomplish first, along with which goals are most attainable based on your current time, finances, and other resources. Focusing on improving one or two areas will help prevent you from feeling overwhelmed, which may dampen your motivation. [7]
    • When you feel overwhelmed, you may be tempted to abandon pursuing your goals because you think they can’t be achieved.
    • In some cases, some goals are necessary to learn before you can tackle the others. For instance, if you want to be a concert pianist, you’ll need to learn difficult pieces of piano music first.
    • It helps to begin with a goal that is easily attainable so you can have an early success, which will keep you motivated as you go forward.
  3. Once you have organized your goals by importance, choose the first two or three most important goals and create a to-do list of daily tasks or objectives that will help you to accomplish, over time, these broader goals. Sort through your list and decide if any of your tasks are time-sensitive, or if certain tasks need to be prioritized over others. [8]
    • For example, if you want to become an established artist, 1 of your goals could be getting a degree, while another could be taking time to practice drawing every day. In this case, practicing art every day may be more manageable than enrolling in school.
  4. It’s perfectly normal to feel overwhelmed when viewing a large task. Instead of making a to-do list with large, unreasonable tasks, focus on making small, bite-sized tasks that you can accomplish more easily. You’ll feel a lot more positive and motivated if you’re accomplishing realistic goals! [9]
    • For instance, instead of saying “I need to clean out the yard,” break that task into smaller steps like mowing, raking the leaves, and cleaning out your compost pile.
  5. It can be easy to get ahead of yourself, especially when it comes to accomplishing a goal. Choose 5 actionable tasks that are easy to accomplish with a reasonable amount of time, like a work day. Once you’ve finished this list, you can start again with a new to-do list! [10]
    • For instance, a to-do list for cleaning your desk could include tasks like “sorting papers,” “discarding junk,” “dusting the surface,” and “organizing pens and pencils.”
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Changing Your Mindset

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  1. Maintain a positive attitude . Resist the temptation to give up, or to view your mistakes as failures. Instead, remind yourself that your efforts are important, and aren’t a waste of time. [11] Believe or not, negative attitudes can affect the way you view things—in one set of studies, sad individuals found physical hills to be steeper than they actually were. [12]
    • For example, if you are struggling with motivation to write and have the negative thought “I’ll never finish my book,” try replacing the thought with a more positive spin, like, “If I continue to write, I’ll be one step closer to finishing!” [13]
    • Research shows that smiling may help you feel more positive. [14]
    • Uplifting music can also help you feel more positive, and put you in a happier mindset while increasing your positive feelings. [15]
  2. Be proud of who you are and what you’re capable of. If you are currently struggling with motivation but have had some success with your goals in the past, take a moment to feel pride about your past accomplishments on that goal. If you haven’t had any success in your current field, think about your past accomplishments instead. By feeling proud of yourself you will be more likely to remain motivated, especially when times get tough. [16]
    • Be proud of everything that you’ve accomplished! There’s no need to dwell on any negative feelings or doubts you’ve experienced in the past.
  3. Maintain a steady, positive energy about your goals—this will act as a fire that will help keep you energized and motivated. Passion about your goals will also help you persevere when times get tough and when you feel like giving up. If you don’t feel passionate about something, you likely won’t feel motivated to work on it. [17]
    • If you are losing your passion and struggling with motivation, remind yourself why what you are motivating yourself about is important to you and why you were initially passionate about it in the first place. Ask yourself what positive outcomes accomplishing your dream will have on yourself and others.
    • For example, maybe you wanted to attend law school so that you could help those in need or achieve financial independence. Visualize what it would mean to you to accomplish your dream of being a lawyer and use that vision to re-ignite your passion!
  4. Think about what you want to accomplish in the long-run, even if it seems unreasonable at the moment. Accept the fact that you’ll likely run into bumps on the road. Instead of dwelling on the potential negativity, focus on what you’re hoping to accomplish overall. [18]
    • For example, if you want to gain weight to be healthier or to look thinner but it is not necessarily something you are passionate about, keep in mind the end goal. Think about what it would mean to be healthy: you would feel better, likely live longer, and could feel proud of your accomplishment.
  5. Refrain from worrying too much about failure. When you think about “failure,” you may assume that your failure is permanent. This is not true—instead, embrace the idea that you can learn from your mistakes. [19]
    • Fear can be really scary, and it can hold you back from doing things that you’re capable of.
    • Ultimately, success often requires many failed attempts. You may not achieve your goals on the tenth, twentieth, or even fiftieth try. Keep in mind that failure is often a part of the recipe for success, which can help to get you motivated.
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    Look for motivation from your friends and family. Be honest with them about how you're feeling so they can help support you.
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    We put all this pressure on ourselves in this culture to exercise, but it's really just about being active. For example, if you don't even want to get out of your pajamas and that is stopping you, just exercise in your pajamas. Really think about what things are stopping you from working out and how you can remove those barriers because a lot of times, it doesn't take a lot to get motivated once you start.
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      If you're having a hard time getting motivated, try promising yourself a reward, like a snack or time spent on your phone, after you finish a task. For a more long-term solution, focus on how much you're learning and growing, rather than how much you're accomplishing. Try to be positive about the work that you're doing, and stay confident in your skills and abilities. If you're afraid to start a project because you might fail, remind yourself that failure is a normal part of life. For more tips from our reviewer on approaching each new goal with enthusiasm, read on!

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