How to Get Your Crush to Like You (for Kids)

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The attraction between two people is sometimes a mysterious thing. Sometimes it seems to just happen all at once, without either person even trying. Other times, it takes a long time to develop. In some cases, no matter how much you want someone you have a crush on to like you too, it just doesn't ever seem to happen. There is no guaranteed way to get your crush to like you back, but there are some things you can do that might help!

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Getting Your Crush's Attention

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  1. If the person you have a crush on hasn't noticed you, you might be tempted to just tell them how you feel. If your crush hasn't taken notice of you yet though, this can be creepy. It can also lead them to take you for granted. [1]
    • Don't stalk your crush. You will seem creepy! To get your crush to notice you, you'll definitely need to be around them sometimes. But, if it seems like you're following them all the time, this can also seem creepy.
    • Make sure when you are around your crush, you are busy with something. You want to look like you have a life of your own, not like you're just hanging around waiting for attention. Try not to seem too needy!
  2. When your crush is around, try to behave like the life of the party. Laugh, talk to others, and be noisy (but not irritating). You want to look like a happy person with an active social life.
    • Be approachable when your crush is around. A lot of people get tense trying to look calm and cool around their crush. Instead of looking calm, they end up looking closed-off. Try to avoid this and look like you're friendly and open to talking.
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  3. Look for an opportunity to show something you're good at in front of the crush. Do you play an instrument well? Look for an opportunity to show your talent when your crush is around! Are you good at baseball? If your crush is around, ask your friends to play catch.
    • It's good to look successful, but you don't want to look full of yourself. You definitely don't want to look mean. Show what you're good at without putting other people down.
  4. Sneak some peeks at your crush, but don't stare. You want to let your crush see you've noticed them, but don't just keep gazing at them to get their attention.
    • You want to just glance at your crush, every once in a while, for less than a second.
  5. When you know your crush will be around, try to look your best. Wear nice clothes, and keep your hair and nails neat and clean.
    • Choose clothes that you feel confident in, and that you think you look good in.
    • You want to smell nice, too. Keep your body clean. You might want to wear a little perfume or cologne so you have a distinctive smell. Don't overdo it though. Scientific studies show subtle smells are more attractive. In fact, many people find too much perfume very unpleasant.
  6. Once you've caught your crush's eye, say hello. Introduce yourself and find something to talk about.
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wikiHow Quiz: Does My Crush Like Me?

Having a crush is the best thing in the world—except when it’s the worst! All those lovey-dovey butterflies can quickly turn into nervousness. Suddenly, you're stuck analyzing their every move, wondering whether or not they like you back. Luckily, we’ve got the perfect quiz for you! Answer these questions, and you'll learn to identify the secret signs that your crush is into you, so you can stop worrying and start loving. Take this quiz to finally get your answer!
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Getting to Know Each Other

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  1. Find out what your crush likes to do. Ask them some questions about their favorite activities. Find out what kinds of music, books, or movies your crush enjoys. This can be great material for a conversation. Everyone likes talking about their own interests.
    • If you know any of your crush's friends, you can also ask them some questions about your crush's interests. Sometimes, having the news that you are asking questions about your crush get back to them can have an added bonus. It can signal that you like them without coming out and saying it. [2]
  2. Hopefully, you and your crush like some of the same things. Once you've found out what they like, this should give you some ideas about things to talk about when you are together. It can also give you some ideas for things you might be able to do together.
    • Don't pretend to like things you don't like to impress your crush. This isn't being true to yourself. Also, your crush will find out eventually that you don't actually like or know much about it. This can be embarrassing.
    • For example, if you and your crush have the same favorite band, that can be great material for a conversation. However, if you hate a band and your crush asks you about them, just politely say that you don't like them much. Then bring up something you do like. That way, you don't seem negative, but you aren't pretending to be someone you aren't.
  3. Once you've had a chance to chat with your crush a little, look for some opportunities to spend time together.
    • Use your common interests as a way to do this. If you like to draw and your crush is in the art club, you can join too. If you both like baseball, see if your crush wants to go to a game.
    • At first, its probably a good idea to try to spend time with your crush in a situation where other people are around. But once you've had a chance to get to know each other, try asking your crush to do something where it will just be the two of you. [3]
  4. Most people enjoy being around people who are positive. So, when you're spending time with your crush, try to be positive and happy. After all, hopefully being around this person makes you feel good.
    • Don't put yourself down. Nobody likes a bragger, but at the same time, you shouldn't belittle yourself. If you want your crush to like you, you should show that you like yourself. If your crush gives you a compliment, say "thanks!"
    • Don't complain too much. Everyone has a hard day now and then and needs to blow off a little steam. Mainly though, try to keep your conversations with your crush lighthearted and fun.
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Flirting with Your Crush

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  1. Once you start spending time with your crush, you can start sending signals that you like them. This is another place you can let your eyes do the talking.
    • At this point, you should start making eye contact with your crush for a couple of seconds, gaze, and then look away. See if they do it back.
    • Don't keep eye contact for too long. If you are too focused on them and never looking away, it can be creepy.
  2. After you make eye contact with your crush, smile to yourself. Don't make it a giant grin; you don't want to seem too excited. But, a little smile lets your crush know you're happy they're paying attention to you, and allows them to be at ease with you.
  3. However you decide to flirt with your crush, it's important to be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone else to please your crush. They'll never truly like you if they don't know the real you.
    • Also, don't try too hard on the flirting. Don't overthink it. Giving your crush tons of compliments, laughing at every joke they make, or constantly trying to bat your eyelashes or strike attractive poses will not seem genuine. No matter how stressful this is, try to just be calm and be your real self.
  4. After you've gotten to know your crush, if they seem to react well to your flirting, try touching them in a playful way. For example:
    • When your crush makes a joke, laugh, and lightly touch their arm or hand. Another thing is to lightly punch them in the arm. If you are walking past your crush in a hallway or somewhere like that, try lightly brushing your shoulder against theirs. Make it look accidental.
    • Lightly wiggle your fingers on your crush's hand or arm.
    • Stand close to your crush. But, don't make them feel uncomfortable. If they move away, respect their space.
    • Hold your crush's hand to lead them to places.
    • When you're next to your crush, rub your fingers on their wrist to tickle it.
    • Give your crush a hug when saying hello or goodbye.
    • If you think your crush is starting to like you back, kiss their cheek to see their reaction. However, if your crush hasn't shown signs of interest in you, do not try this. If they have shown signs of interest, take the risk and try it when you two are alone.
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      • If you are shy or scared, you can start by just hanging out with your crush. Then, talk to them a little. Once you feel comfortable, you can start having more personal conversations.
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      • Don't be really mean to your crush even if you're just acting like it, or he won't like you. But you can tease him a little, which might make him laugh.
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      • Choose a perfect place to flirt and make sure you know him well.
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      • You'll make the best impression if you're friendly, kind, and calm. Just be yourself and maybe flirt in the tiniest way when you can, such as a gentle touch on the arm. When your crush talks, listen and pay attention. Ask a follow-up question later to show that you're interested.
      • If you have a particular talent, you might use it to get their attention. For example, you could draw them a picture or write them a poem. If you play music, you might learn their favorite song or even write a song for them. Use your talents to get them to notice you.
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      • Don't overdo it on the flirting. Coming on too strong can cause your crush to keep their distance or think you are weird.
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      • Never try to kiss or touch your crush if they tell you they don't want you to. This is disrespectful, and maybe even against the law.
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      • Get to know your crush before you try flirting. They could end up being a perfect dream partner, or it could turn out to be the opposite. You might find you don't like them as much as you thought.
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      • There is no guaranteed way to get your crush to like you. If these steps don't work, don't keep pushing the issue. Sometimes you just have to give up.
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      References

      1. ↑ http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-get-your-crush-to-notice-you-and-like-you-back
      2. ↑ http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-get-your-crush-to-notice-you-and-like-you-back
      3. ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/g3090/attract-a-crush/

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      Although there is no guaranteed way to get your crush to like you back, there are things you can do to get them to notice you and get to know each other better. Try to be outgoing when your crush is around so that they notice you as a happy and approachable person. Be positive, friendly, and laugh a lot so that you look like someone that’s fun to be around. Once you’ve gotten the attention of your crush, start talking! Get to know them by asking them questions about their life. Find out the sort of books, music, and sports they are interested in. Look for a common interest that you both share. This gives you conversation material and possibly some ideas of things you can do together. Try to spend some time together once you’ve gotten to know each other. You can hang out either in a group or just the two of you. For more tips on getting your crush to like you, like how to start flirting with them, read on!

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