So you just wrapped your head around girl dinner when you learned that all of a sudden, the world had moved onto girl math? The viral TikTok trend took over social media with rapidly multiplying (get it?) videos of women talking about their spending habits or daily mental calculations with a tongue-in-cheek, giddy tone. But what does girl math actually mean? We’ll give you a complete breakdown of girl math’s ~official rules~, the social commentary around them, and how “boy math” got brought into the equation.
The Meaning of Girl Math
Girl math is a TikTok trend that jokingly describes how women justify spending habits. Girl math content typically features a user humorously rationalizing a pricey purchase. For example, “Girl math is only spending $10 because you returned a $20 item and bought a $30 one.”
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Girl Math Examples
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If you pay with cash, it’s free. In a day and age where most people use credit or debit cards almost exclusively, finding a stray $10 bill in your wallet may as well be free money, according to girl math. Since you’re not watching the money drop from your bank account when you buy something with that cash, it’s basically free. [3] X Research source
- Similarly, if something is under $5, it’s basically free, even if you buy multiples of that thing.
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Something bought in advance is free. For example, if you buy concert tickets, flights, or other big expenses months in advance, it’s basically free. By the time the event comes around, the payment has already been forgotten about. That’s girl math!
- Similarly, preloading an account or gift card with money makes any future purchases free. [4] X Research source
- For example, if you put $20 on your Starbucks account today, the venti cold brew you buy with it next week is free.
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Buying something on sale means you’re making a profit. Even if it’s something you don’t need. Let’s say you find a nice jacket on sale for $45 from $65. With girl math in mind, you’ve really made $20 from that purchase! [5] X Research source
- Same with “buy one get one half off” sales—if you’re already buying something and opt out of the half-off option, you’d basically be losing money.
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Spending more money online shopping to get free shipping. If your online total is $50 but you get free shipping at $75, girl math advises that you spend another $25 rather than spend $7.99 on shipping. After all, you could get a whole ‘nother item rather than paying for shipping and getting no “freebies!” [6] X Research source
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Clothes and accessories are basically free if you wear them enough. Girl math uses a handy equation that divides the price of something by the number of times you’ll wear it. For example, if you buy a $200 purse and wear it 20 times, it’s really only $10 (a steal!). And if you use it 50 times, it’s only $4, which is basically free. [7] X Research source
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Making coffee at home means you can order a pricey dinner. This girl math philosophy applies to any moment you show tremendous financial restraint—which means you get to splurge extra later. Since you resisted the urge to swing by your favorite overpriced coffee establishment today, you naturally get to drop extra money on a nice bottle of wine or fancy dinner tomorrow. [8] X Research source
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Timing your shampoo day to line up with weekend plans. For example, if you washed it this morning but are going dancing tonight and then have brunch with the girls tomorrow and cardio right after, when do you wash your hair so it's neither too washed nor too greasy? Sounds like a word problem straight out of an algebra textbook! [9] X Research source
- Similarly, girl math can also apply to the time calculated to get ready for an event. [10] X Research source
- Girl math dictates that you have to work backward from the time of the event: e.g., your dinner reservation is at 8 pm, so you need to leave the house at 7:30, get dressed at 6:45, start putting on make-up at 6, blow dry and style your hair at 5, and take a shower at 4.
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You didn’t really wear an outfit if no one important saw it. If no one saw your fit check, did it even really happen? The same rule applies if you didn’t get a cute pic in your cute outfit. So it doesn’t count as outfit repeating when you wear it again!
Expert Q&A
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- At the end of the day, many people argue that “girl math” is just a silly trend that is not meant to be taken seriously. Sometimes, realizing that other people are doing the same things we are can make us feel less alone, and girl math is one of those things! [21] X Research sourceThanks
- According to some experts, the main takeaway from the girl math vs. boy math divide is that people still feel like they live in a very gendered world.Thanks
- In both serious and light-hearted arenas, the girl math joke and the backlash to it may confirm just how different the human experience is depending on someone’s sex and gender.Thanks
References
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