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What it means to end a marriage after 50
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When we think about divorce, we often think of younger couples, but older couples separate, too. Gray divorce is separation that occurs after the age of 50, and it carries some key distinctions from divorce in other age ranges. We’ll fill you in on more about what gray divorce is, why it happens, and how you can land on your feet after going through one. For those of you still weighing your options, we’ll offer helpful advice on repairing a marriage as an alternative to separation.
Things You Should Know
- Gray divorce is when a couple over the age of 50 decides to end a marriage. Researchers note that the rate of gray divorce is on the rise.
- Gray divorce often happens because older couples drift apart or reevaluate what they want in a partner some years into the marriage.
- Shifting personal and societal values also enable gray divorce, since divorce is much more accepted today than it was in the past.
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QuestionWhat is the best way to navigate a divorce?Dr. Asa Don Brown is a Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience. He specializes in working with families, children, and couples, treating a variety of psychological disorders, trauma, and abuse. Dr. Brown has specialized in negotiation and profiling. He is also a prolific author having published three books and numerous articles in magazines, journals, and popular publications. Dr. Brown earned a BS in Theology and Religion with a minor in Marketing and an MS in Counseling with a specialization in Marriage and Family from The University of Great Falls. Furthermore, he received a PhD in Psychology with a specialization in Clinical Psychology from Capella University. He is also a candidate for a Masters of Liberal Arts through Harvard University. Dr. Brown is a Fellow of the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress and a Diplomate for the National Center for Crisis Management and continues to serve a number of psychological and scientific boards.Open and effective communication is crucial to maintaining a healthy relationship. The avoidance of communication can only escalate negative emotions and sentiments. There are various compelling reasons to foster communication with your partner, particularly to facilitate a smoother process of separation and divorce.
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QuestionHow do we divide our assets when considering a divorce?Dr. Asa Don Brown is a Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience. He specializes in working with families, children, and couples, treating a variety of psychological disorders, trauma, and abuse. Dr. Brown has specialized in negotiation and profiling. He is also a prolific author having published three books and numerous articles in magazines, journals, and popular publications. Dr. Brown earned a BS in Theology and Religion with a minor in Marketing and an MS in Counseling with a specialization in Marriage and Family from The University of Great Falls. Furthermore, he received a PhD in Psychology with a specialization in Clinical Psychology from Capella University. He is also a candidate for a Masters of Liberal Arts through Harvard University. Dr. Brown is a Fellow of the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress and a Diplomate for the National Center for Crisis Management and continues to serve a number of psychological and scientific boards.When considering a divorce, it's necessary to divide not only sentimental items accumulated throughout life's journey but also assets and debts. Financial considerations often weigh heavily on individuals undergoing separation. When contemplating divorce, it is essential to address a range of factors beyond the relational aspect. These include financial obligations, retirement benefits, personal assets, debts, and life and health insurance. Even mundane details, though less glamorous, must be carefully considered. Creating a comprehensive list and thoroughly evaluating the implications of divorce is crucial. Rushing such a decision is ill-advised; instead, each aspect should be considered thoughtfully.
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