How to Have Boys Crush on You

Co-authored by Eddy Baller

Last Updated: August 6, 2023 Approved

Having a crush can be fun, and so can being the crush of someone else! But what happens when those things do not align? Whether you just want boys crushing on you or you have a special someone in mind who you want to like you back, this article will help you get boys to crush on you!

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Act the part.

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Nobody likes a girl who doesn't hold up a decent conversation, or is snotty and rude. Ask him what he likes, Just simple questions like: "What's your favorite brand food?". Be yourself and act kindly around other people. Even if you dislike certain people, act neutrally towards them without any hints of disdain. If you pull off a neutral act to everyone that isn't your friend, you will gain respect and people will start to look up to you.
- Be a social butterfly. Mingle with different groups - don't just stick with one! Invite those that sit alone to sit with your group, as long as your friends are fine with. become an outcast just to accompany another outcast. You want to be kind!

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Be sexy.

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This may seem shallow, but boys are actually attracted to pout lips and blushing cheeks. Flattering clothes, cute makeup and a fit body are highly recommended. However, not all of these things are necessary in order to win a guy over. Simply wearing clean, appropriate fitting clothing and a little natural looking makeup should be good enough. Exercise and take showers daily, wash your hair at least three times a week, and clean your face every day.
- Wearing comfortable but flattering clothing will boost your confidence and give you a casual, comfortable look. Both you and your crush will be comfortable!
- It doesn't matter if you aren't the slimmest girl on the block. Just wear flattering clothes and it does a world of difference.
- Makeup, will give you an unflattering appearance. Makeup should add a "I'm cute and don't need makeup" look.
- High inappropriate clothing that reveals too much is unflattering and will kill your reputation, not to mention your integrity and appearance! It is best to have a modest appearance! (boy's are looking for a modest girl)

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Be confident.

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Confidence is the key to winning a guy over. Guys dig confident girls, but be sure you aren't over-confident! Be proud of who you are and it will show, adding a glow to you. If you have no confidence in yourself, it will definitely show and downgrade your whole act.
- Make a list of things about yourself that you're proud of to help boost your confidence.

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Listen.

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It's pointless having a relationship if it only centers on you, so take a break and listen to other people's feelings. Let the guy have his chance in the conversation; normally, people enjoy talking about themselves unless if they're shy. Even if the guy you're trying to win over is shy, that doesn't give you permission to hog the spotlight. You just have to be a little more gentle with the questions and flirting!

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Be funny.

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Avoid the plastic, forced smiles and stick with the natural, beautiful smiles. Be sure the jokes you tell aren't corny or dumb. Make sure they actually are down-right funny!

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Flirt.

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Too much flirting will probably scare him and make you look desperate, while too little flirting won't press the hint in deeply enough for him to realize and remember it.

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Don't go overboard on flirting and never stalk someone if they don't fall for your charms. Not everyone will be attracted to you - it's a fact of life.

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Don't wear a lot of make up. Don't be too revealing. Smile and laugh at funny jokes.

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Don't wear too much makeup because the boys might make fun of you. And just act casual. Boys are looking for the girls personality, not their look!

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Being sexy doesn't mean dressing revealing. It's not a good look and will only attract the wrong types of guys.

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Some people just won't like you no matter what. Don't persist if they have had enough and are starting to get creeped out by thinking that you are hitting on them.

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