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What if he doesn't have a phone number?

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If he doesn't have a phone number, maybe he has an email address or a social media handle. If not, you could give him your number in case he can borrow a phone from someone.

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So this guy asked my number first but I said no. Now it seems like I want to exchange numbers. We don't know each other that well and he's older to me. How do I get to know his intention?

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You could try telling him that you're not interested in dating but could be friends and see how he reacts. Or, if you do want to date him, ask him to exchange numbers so you can talk more.

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Okay, so I've known this guy for a week, and we haven't really talked, he doesn't use snapchat, so should I just ask for his number?

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You can definitely ask for his number! Try saying something like, "I wanted to send you a video. Let me have your number so I can text it to you."

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Would it be a good idea to like ask: do you have a phone? Then if he says yes should you like ask: could I have your number?

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Absolutely! This is a great way to break the ice and ask for his number. He may even offer to give it to you before you ask.

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what if you don't even know if he has a phone number, or social media but has an email address which he never responds to?

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You could say something like, "Hey, did you get that email I sent you?" If he says he doesn't really use it, ask him if he has a phone. From there, you can exchange phone numbers.

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I want to get my crushe's phone number but I know he won’t give it to me because my other friend said that he should text me and my crush said no I won't give out my phone number. What do I do?

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You may just have to respect his boundaries in this case. If he doesn't want to give it out, pressuring him to do so might make him feel uncomfortable.

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What if he finds it weird and what if your best friend likes him too and you don't wanna hurt her?

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Think carefully about whether or not you really want to start talking to him more, especially if it could hurt a friendship. Or, talk to your friend about it directly and share your feelings. You may be surprised by how she responds!

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