Q&A for How to Avoid Being Played

Delete their number from your phone and block them on social media. That way, you won't see little reminders of them (and feel the urge to reach out) anytime you open up a social media app.

Players may act mean for attention or because they have low self-esteem.

That's not the term that's typically used, but basically, yes - a person can certainly get manipulated, used, or deceived in a non-romantic relationship.

Don't say anything to him; he's not worth your time.

Yes, that's possible, especially if you have played them dirty before, or if you have trust issues between the two of you. However, if you simply move on, they might forget about you.

He could be busy. But, beware that if he is genuine, the actual relationship will be equally detached as courtship (due to his busy schedule), so make sure you are okay with that. Meanwhile, don't put all your chances on this guy, because he might choose his job instead of relationships.

If you really like the guy and he hasn't given you any bad signs, then pursue the relationship if you want to. Just be cautious and take things slow. Get to know him well. If he pushes you into sex, or stops showing interest in other aspects of the relationship, or disrespects you in any way, drop him.

Forget that jerk and learn from the experience; don't have sex with someone until you are in a committed relationship.

You can tell her what is happening. If she is someone who trusts you, she might believe you. If she is cautious around you, she might not.

Try to stop communicating with them. Delete them from your contacts and if they call do not answer. This will help you to stay away and your feelings that lead you to sex will eventually decrease.

If he is a player, buying flowers may be is just using flattery.

Tell his wife or ignore him. It is best to not get involved.

There is no way to completely know for sure. Just take your time getting to know him. If he calls/texts you a lot and asks you a lot of questions about yourself, checks in just to see how your day is going, etc., there's a good chance he really likes you. Again, just take it slow and be cautious, his feelings will probably become clear.

Ask him directly about his intentions and ask him to stop flirting with others. If he still continues, drop him. Don't fight with your best friend because of him.

Yes, some players will tell you that they love you. They might do this to make you feel special so that you'll keep coming back to them, even when they cheat. Alternatively, they might really think they love you because they fall for everyone really fast. Use your best judgement to decide if they're telling the truth. If they really love you, they'll treat you well, make you a priority, and focus their attention on you.

Talk to him about it. Pick a time when you're both calm and in a neutral location, like a local coffee shop. Then, explain why you think he's playing you and how you feel about it. Listen to his side of the story, but don't ignore any proof you have about what he's doing.

Being a player can be part of someone's personality, but that doesn't mean they can't grow and change as a person. It's definitely possible for a player to change, but it has to be their decision. If you're concerned that someone is a player, be careful and protect yourself. Always pay attention to their actions, not what they say. If the person is acting like a player, don't believe them when they say they've changed.